Anonymous
Post 07/24/2025 06:33     Subject: Re:quick shoulder rub, quick pat on back, quick circular petting on back
Yes people should most definitely keep their hands to themselves no doubt!

These motions are definitely crossing unwanted boundaries ➕ if they continue - the person doing this needs to be held accountable.
Anonymous
Post 07/23/2025 20:35     Subject: quick shoulder rub, quick pat on back, quick circular petting on back
Where do you work op? There is no touching in professional offices. No hand shaking either.
Anonymous
Post 07/23/2025 18:42     Subject: Re:quick shoulder rub, quick pat on back, quick circular petting on back
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Everyone is so weird about touch these days. No wonder teens aren’t having sex. First we sexualized nudity, now a shoulder tap. SMDH.

WTF? You are relating children having sex to being harassed at your job? What's wrong with you?


Tapping someone on the shoulder to get their attention or patting their arm in sympathy is now harassment? I’ve heard it all.

You should really stop harassing the women at your work, someone is going to report you eventually.
Anonymous
Post 07/23/2025 18:41     Subject: Re:quick shoulder rub, quick pat on back, quick circular petting on back
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Everyone is so weird about touch these days. No wonder teens aren’t having sex. First we sexualized nudity, now a shoulder tap. SMDH.

WTF? You are relating children having sex to being harassed at your job? What's wrong with you?


Tapping someone on the shoulder to get their attention or patting their arm in sympathy is now harassment? I’ve heard it all.


You are conveniently leaving out the pseudo massage OP seems to be referring to in your indignation.

Maybe because that kind of touch doesn't belong in a work place
Anonymous
Post 07/23/2025 18:24     Subject: quick shoulder rub, quick pat on back, quick circular petting on back
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Are these types of things acceptable at work or in social settings? I've been on the receiving end a few times. I've also witnessed it happen to others.

I know for a fact that they were not done with harmful intent but still wonder if people should just keep their hands to themselves??!!


OMG of course it's fine.

If you are a touch-phobe or germaphobe, just express that issue and nobody will be touch-friendly with you.


Just don't touch people in the first place. I shouldn't have to ask you not to touch me.
Anonymous
Post 07/23/2025 18:22     Subject: Re:quick shoulder rub, quick pat on back, quick circular petting on back
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Everyone is so weird about touch these days. No wonder teens aren’t having sex. First we sexualized nudity, now a shoulder tap. SMDH.


It's not necessarily a sexual thing. I don't want you to touch me---deal with it. Why are you compelled to put your hands on people?


I rarely touch people, but I also don't get bent out of shape over a light, brief touch.


I don't either, but I don't want to be touched. Sorry if that bothers you touchers.
Anonymous
Post 07/23/2025 17:56     Subject: Re:quick shoulder rub, quick pat on back, quick circular petting on back
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Everyone is so weird about touch these days. No wonder teens aren’t having sex. First we sexualized nudity, now a shoulder tap. SMDH.

WTF? You are relating children having sex to being harassed at your job? What's wrong with you?


Tapping someone on the shoulder to get their attention or patting their arm in sympathy is now harassment? I’ve heard it all.

Definitely telling that you skipped right over the children part to complain about it being considered harassment. Creepy men gonna be creepy men I guess.
Anonymous
Post 07/23/2025 17:23     Subject: quick shoulder rub, quick pat on back, quick circular petting on back
Anonymous wrote:There is no touching of any kid at work.

And frankly I don't want to shake hands with anyone either ever again and so I no longer shake hands.


Well obviously no one is touching kids at work. Why is a kid even at work?
Anonymous
Post 07/23/2025 17:23     Subject: quick shoulder rub, quick pat on back, quick circular petting on back
Anonymous wrote:Are these types of things acceptable at work or in social settings? I've been on the receiving end a few times. I've also witnessed it happen to others.

I know for a fact that they were not done with harmful intent but still wonder if people should just keep their hands to themselves??!!


OMG of course it's fine.

If you are a touch-phobe or germaphobe, just express that issue and nobody will be touch-friendly with you.
Anonymous
Post 07/23/2025 17:20     Subject: Re:quick shoulder rub, quick pat on back, quick circular petting on back
You’re about to have your mind blown. When my colleague’s mother died, I hugged her and she liked it! She hugged me back and cried a little on my shoulder. Guess I should have stood there woodenly, bleating “I’m sorry for your loss.” I’m sure that would have comforted her.
Anonymous
Post 07/23/2025 17:18     Subject: Re:quick shoulder rub, quick pat on back, quick circular petting on back
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Everyone is so weird about touch these days. No wonder teens aren’t having sex. First we sexualized nudity, now a shoulder tap. SMDH.

WTF? You are relating children having sex to being harassed at your job? What's wrong with you?


Tapping someone on the shoulder to get their attention or patting their arm in sympathy is now harassment? I’ve heard it all.
Anonymous
Post 07/23/2025 17:12     Subject: quick shoulder rub, quick pat on back, quick circular petting on back
Don’t be that creep at work, OP.
Anonymous
Post 07/23/2025 17:10     Subject: quick shoulder rub, quick pat on back, quick circular petting on back
Anonymous wrote:There is no touching of any kid at work.

And frankly I don't want to shake hands with anyone either ever again and so I no longer shake hands.

You’re a fuktard
Anonymous
Post 07/23/2025 16:28     Subject: quick shoulder rub, quick pat on back, quick circular petting on back
No heterosexual man is doing that in fear of being me-too’d. They will be visibly uncomfortable if a woman does it to them out of fear that others perceive them as hooking up.
Anonymous
Post 07/23/2025 14:56     Subject: quick shoulder rub, quick pat on back, quick circular petting on back
No, not appropriate. Unless you all are drunk.