Anonymous
Post 07/20/2025 23:29     Subject: Country Club Invite
I love threads like this! Thank you OP.
Anonymous
Post 07/20/2025 23:23     Subject: Country Club Invite
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Also, if it is social, how do you enjoy the golf?


Sometimes these memberships allow you to only golf on certain days/times... not weekends and you can't book that far out ahead of time, as that is reserved for full members.


Or they charge per use.
Anonymous
Post 07/20/2025 23:14     Subject: Country Club Invite
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Husband has always said if he made it to Director at his company he will join the country club near us.

He just got promoted and joined the country club-just a social membership but we can enjoy the club-golf, pool, tennis, pub.

One of my friends found out and said to me “well you will need to take me there so I can see it-it will be fun.”

I’m appalled at her rudeness.


I am also guessing you are fat, wear tennis whites (with your social membership) and drive a leased Lexus with 100k miles on it.


How do you lease a Lexus with 100k miles on it? I’m interested
Anonymous
Post 07/20/2025 23:03     Subject: Country Club Invite
Anonymous wrote:Husband has always said if he made it to Director at his company he will join the country club near us.

He just got promoted and joined the country club-just a social membership but we can enjoy the club-golf, pool, tennis, pub.

One of my friends found out and said to me “well you will need to take me there so I can see it-it will be fun.”

I’m appalled at her rudeness.


I am also guessing you are fat, wear tennis whites (with your social membership) and drive a leased Lexus with 100k miles on it.
Anonymous
Post 07/20/2025 23:02     Subject: Country Club Invite
You’re a loser and your club sucks if you got in that quickly. Plus, you’re not a real member if a lowly social member.
Anonymous
Post 07/20/2025 22:54     Subject: Country Club Invite
Oh goodness, you sound horrible. She wasn’t rude- just friendly. Get over yourself.
Anonymous
Post 07/20/2025 22:46     Subject: Country Club Invite
Anonymous wrote:Social membership aka Houston Membership typically means not a golf membership. Tell us you're new money without telling us you're new money.


People who don’t like golf are “new money”?
Anonymous
Post 07/20/2025 22:23     Subject: Country Club Invite
Anonymous wrote:One would be wise to remain discerning in newly acquired social circles, particularly where charm and ambition often mingle. At times, the warmest country club smiles are less about friendship and more about proximity to your husband. As you navigate this elevated social terrain, remember the quiet loyalty of those who stood beside you long before the membership—be it social or otherwise—granted you entry.


Lol where do you people come up with this stuff.
Anonymous
Post 07/20/2025 21:24     Subject: Country Club Invite
One would be wise to remain discerning in newly acquired social circles, particularly where charm and ambition often mingle. At times, the warmest country club smiles are less about friendship and more about proximity to your husband. As you navigate this elevated social terrain, remember the quiet loyalty of those who stood beside you long before the membership—be it social or otherwise—granted you entry.
Anonymous
Post 07/20/2025 21:21     Subject: Country Club Invite
Two strivers.
Anonymous
Post 07/20/2025 21:16     Subject: Country Club Invite
Anonymous wrote:Also, if it is social, how do you enjoy the golf?


Came here for this comment.
Anonymous
Post 07/20/2025 18:56     Subject: Country Club Invite
Anonymous wrote:Husband has always said if he made it to Director at his company he will join the country club near us.

He just got promoted and joined the country club-just a social membership but we can enjoy the club-golf, pool, tennis, pub.

One of my friends found out and said to me “well you will need to take me there so I can see it-it will be fun.”

I’m appalled at her rudeness.


Really? You'd pass out at what some of my friends say then.
Anonymous
Post 07/20/2025 18:54     Subject: Country Club Invite
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Omg it’s not like she whipped out a calendar. Many of my friends with club memberships are desperate to take others because they have minimums, or want friends to join so everyone can hang out together in the club.


Many clubs do not have minimums. Please do not assume when you go with a friend. We recently had guests with us and spent over $200 on their family. The following weekend we all went out to a casual dinner and they asked us to split the check. We did so but later I casually told her: hey when we go to the pool, there’s a guest fee of 25 per person and we pay for the food at the restaurant. Let’s be sure to split that next time.


Why would you make your guests pay? Tacky!
Anonymous
Post 07/20/2025 18:37     Subject: Country Club Invite
Social membership aka Houston Membership typically means not a golf membership. Tell us you're new money without telling us you're new money.
Anonymous
Post 07/20/2025 10:04     Subject: Country Club Invite
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Omg it’s not like she whipped out a calendar. Many of my friends with club memberships are desperate to take others because they have minimums, or want friends to join so everyone can hang out together in the club.


Many clubs do not have minimums. Please do not assume when you go with a friend. We recently had guests with us and spent over $200 on their family. The following weekend we all went out to a casual dinner and they asked us to split the check. We did so but later I casually told her: hey when we go to the pool, there’s a guest fee of 25 per person and we pay for the food at the restaurant. Let’s be sure to split that next time.


Yikes. For me, it’s a pleasure to host and treat guests at my club. I’d be embarrassed if any of them thought I might be keeping a ledger — but you ended the mystery and just told them outright that you were!