Anonymous
Post 06/19/2025 00:25     Subject: If your dh was chronically unemployed, would you expect your ils to bring it up?

Reverse the genders and say all of this. Highly sexist.
Anonymous
Post 06/18/2025 06:22     Subject: If your dh was chronically unemployed, would you expect your ils to bring it up?

EDIT: Ultimately it's a complex situation, and I wonder if OP's is too. In this case, the DH is not a deadbeat or watching TV all day and gambling.***