Anonymous wrote:Surgery on your face = mental illness

Or you had an issue and just want to feel and look normal. It’s inside that counts right? Well what if your exterior doesn’t match the interior?

But yes, plenty of people go overboard and it’s mental illness. I personally hate the lip flips. Why do people want fat lips?

Ok most women dye their hair if it’s gray, wear makeup and work out. Those seem pretty ordinary to me.

All of the things you listed by themselves aren’t excessive but combined are. Like plastic surgery. One of my very close, low maintenance friends was always self conscious of her big crooked nose. She got it fixed and now feels like it doesn’t get in her way, people aren’t staring at her and she can be herself. She loves it. Lots of my friend had breast reductions too and their back pain lessened. Teeth whitening? Some people have yellow teeth. Neon white is never a good look but I would think a majority of people have whitened their teeth, just not excessively.

100%

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Anonymous wrote:Meaning that she gets lash extensions, dyes or bleached her hair, wears pushup bras, works out, May wear colored contact lenses, and bleaches her smile and may have had plastic surgery? Does it matter or no? I ask because women in this forum especially be extra critical of all those things.

Men should be happy with whatever they can get. If she wants to do all that to herself, it's her body, her choice. You DON'T get a say. Just shut up and be happy she's willing to give you the time of day.

This is 100 a woman's choice and men have no say in it but men also have choices. They don't need to be happy with whatever they can get if that's not what they prefer.

There are plenty of shallow men out there Ken dolling themselves up so there is a lid for every pot.

Some men like women a little on the trashy side.

Other men know how much lash extensions cost.

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Anonymous wrote:Meaning that she gets lash extensions, dyes or bleached her hair, wears pushup bras, works out, May wear colored contact lenses, and bleaches her smile and may have had plastic surgery? Does it matter or no? I ask because women in this forum especially be extra critical of all those things.

Men should be happy with whatever they can get. If she wants to do all that to herself, it's her body, her choice. You DON'T get a say. Just shut up and be happy she's willing to give you the time of day.

Of course he has a say in who he wants to date!

Anonymous wrote:Meaning that she gets lash extensions, dyes or bleached her hair, wears pushup bras, works out, May wear colored contact lenses, and bleaches her smile and may have had plastic surgery? Does it matter or no? I ask because women in this forum especially be extra critical of all those things.

You can pretty much make any woman look good that way but how is it any different than woman just getting lucky with pretty genes? Neither can take credit.

That being said, most high maintenance partners (men or women)never do well in long term. Great for short term.

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Anonymous wrote:Meaning that she gets lash extensions, dyes or bleached her hair, wears pushup bras, works out, May wear colored contact lenses, and bleaches her smile and may have had plastic surgery? Does it matter or no? I ask because women in this forum especially be extra critical of all those things.

Men should be happy with whatever they can get. If she wants to do all that to herself, it's her body, her choice. You DON'T get a say. Just shut up and be happy she's willing to give you the time of day.

Counterpoint - nope wouldn't have married that kind of woman.

I don't believe you, simply because a lot of women who do lots of things to themselves don't appear as if they've done lots of things. I challenge you to detect a tastefully executed lash extension Many women in certain parts of the world get cosmetic surgery (nose jobs, breast augmentation, etc) when they're young and you'd meet them and never know. So by the time you find out that your significant other does these things or has had certain procedures, you've already bonded over shared values, mutual respect and attraction, a plan for the future, etc. And then you lose that apparent disgust you have for certain beautification procedures.

It's just like when your significant other comes to realize that there are things about you that she might not have approved had she known about them early on. People who have a very rigid set of rules about a potential life partner are more likely to stay single.

Surgery on your face = mental illness

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Anonymous wrote:Meaning that she gets lash extensions, dyes or bleached her hair, wears pushup bras, works out, May wear colored contact lenses, and bleaches her smile and may have had plastic surgery? Does it matter or no? I ask because women in this forum especially be extra critical of all those things.

Men should be happy with whatever they can get. If she wants to do all that to herself, it's her body, her choice. You DON'T get a say. Just shut up and be happy she's willing to give you the time of day.

Counterpoint - nope wouldn't have married that kind of woman.

Sounds like you're insecure.

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Anonymous wrote:Meaning that she gets lash extensions, dyes or bleached her hair, wears pushup bras, works out, May wear colored contact lenses, and bleaches her smile and may have had plastic surgery? Does it matter or no? I ask because women in this forum especially be extra critical of all those things.

Men should be happy with whatever they can get. If she wants to do all that to herself, it's her body, her choice. You DON'T get a say. Just shut up and be happy she's willing to give you the time of day.

Counterpoint - nope wouldn't have married that kind of woman.

Anonymous wrote:Meaning that she gets lash extensions, dyes or bleached her hair, wears pushup bras, works out, May wear colored contact lenses, and bleaches her smile and may have had plastic surgery? Does it matter or no? I ask because women in this forum especially be extra critical of all those things.

Men should be happy with whatever they can get. If she wants to do all that to herself, it's her body, her choice. You DON'T get a say. Just shut up and be happy she's willing to give you the time of day.

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Anonymous wrote:Every guy is different. I have never worn make up on a daily basis, and still don't. 28 years and some months ago, when getting married, I remember going for a trial make up and hair day, and my then fiancee asked me if I was going to look like a tart on our wedding day because I was getting my make up done. I said no, that I was going to get made up to look like I had no make up on.

He didn't understand, but he's not into made-up women. We are both aging, our bodies and skin isn't what it once was, but neither covers it or gets procedures done to look any different than who we are

You fooled me on the ending. I thought, for sure, the moral of the story would be not to marry a man who refers to wedding makeup as looking like a tart.

Same, LOL

Anonymous wrote:Meaning that she gets lash extensions, dyes or bleached her hair, wears pushup bras, works out, May wear colored contact lenses, and bleaches her smile and may have had plastic surgery? Does it matter or no? I ask because women in this forum especially be extra critical of all those things.

A lot of men like “tastefully dolled up” women. You can do all of these things in a tasteful realistic manner.