Anonymous wrote:The men I’ve dated viewed it as a marker of me being sophisticated and cultured, and therefore an extra notch in status. But it didn’t impact their attraction to me.

The exception might be the two musicians I dated.

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Anonymous wrote:"Sensual instrument". Ew.

This post makes me want to break out my trumpet.

+100

My dad made me learn and play the soprano saxophone for at least an hour every day between the age of seven until I left for college at the age of eighteen. I hated my dad and thought he tried to live his life through me. When I got to college at UVA in 1998, I played "Forever in love" by Kenny G" at a party, and as a result, I slept with so many women in college. I ended up meeting a daughter of the CEO, and we got married because of my ability to play the saxophone. Looking back, I was so thankful that I didn't quit. Learning an instrument is difficult, and by mastering it, it makes you a very special person.

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Anonymous wrote:I play cello and the skill was more valued overseas than in the US. I think classical music is just a bigger deal in Europe and parts of Asia. I ended up marrying a man from Europe. He also liked that I grew up mostly outside the US due and learned two other languages.

Americans are so uncultured, so that makes sense. I love that for you!

Thank you! Do you play an instrument?

I became a professional musician and play in an orchestra in a European city. It’s been great. While I certainly don’t think all American men are boorish, they are generally not my type because art is much less valued in the US.

I played on some albums and toured with a few popular bands back in my early 20s. The money was great but the egos and drugs were not. The main qualification was being attractive. The most beautiful of our group was a violinist. She ended up with a foreigner too, though very rich Americans guys were clawing at her door.

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Anonymous wrote:No we don’t care about that or any of your other supposed “accomplishments”.

Wow...you don't think women have accomplished anything.

You are a terrible person.

OP asked what we find sexually attractive. You got an honest answer. Too bad you don’t like it.

How would you feel if some guy scolded you for not being attracted to some hobby he has that you don’t find attractive (video games, whatever)? I bet you’d say “so sorry, I’m a terrible person, I promise to be attracted to that from now on.” Right?

No, you are a terrible persin because you don't consider it an accomplishment. You don't have to find it 'attractive' but to dismiss the talent and skill is what makes you awful.

If someone is good at something you can acknowlege the time it took to learn and master a skill

But I don't think you will understand

You can't force me to care about your hobby of playing an instrument by scolding me that I'm a terrible person any more than you can force me to think you are attractive even though you are fat by scolding me that I'm a terrible person.

There are countless things you can spend your time doing that I don't care about, and indeed, don't respect. If you are honest, you will admit you are the same way.

Anonymous wrote:There is just something unique + sexy about a guy who can play the guitar.

Bonus points if he can also sing and songwriter.

Signed ~
A Female

Anonymous wrote:Skin flute?

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Anonymous wrote:I play cello and the skill was more valued overseas than in the US. I think classical music is just a bigger deal in Europe and parts of Asia. I ended up marrying a man from Europe. He also liked that I grew up mostly outside the US due and learned two other languages.

Americans are so uncultured, so that makes sense. I love that for you!

Anonymous wrote:Yes. It makes an attractive woman more attractive. Unfortunately it doesn't make an unattractive woman attractive.

Anonymous wrote:Men into music and instruments do but average joe tend to prefer dancers and cheerleaders because of hormones and how society conditions men. Hopefully that would change.

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Anonymous wrote:No we don’t care about that or any of your other supposed “accomplishments”.

Wow...you don't think women have accomplished anything.

You are a terrible person.

OP asked what we find sexually attractive. You got an honest answer. Too bad you don’t like it.

How would you feel if some guy scolded you for not being attracted to some hobby he has that you don’t find attractive (video games, whatever)? I bet you’d say “so sorry, I’m a terrible person, I promise to be attracted to that from now on.” Right?

No, you are a terrible persin because you don't consider it an accomplishment. You don't have to find it 'attractive' but to dismiss the talent and skill is what makes you awful.

If someone is good at something you can acknowlege the time it took to learn and master a skill

But I don't think you will understand

You can't force me to care about your hobby of playing an instrument by scolding me that I'm a terrible person any more than you can force me to think you are attractive even though you are fat by scolding me that I'm a terrible person.

There are countless things you can spend your time doing that I don't care about, and indeed, don't respect. If you are honest, you will admit you are the same way.

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Anonymous wrote:No we don’t care about that or any of your other supposed “accomplishments”.

Wow...you don't think women have accomplished anything.

You are a terrible person.

OP asked what we find sexually attractive. You got an honest answer. Too bad you don’t like it.

How would you feel if some guy scolded you for not being attracted to some hobby he has that you don’t find attractive (video games, whatever)? I bet you’d say “so sorry, I’m a terrible person, I promise to be attracted to that from now on.” Right?

No, you are a terrible persin because you don't consider it an accomplishment. You don't have to find it 'attractive' but to dismiss the talent and skill is what makes you awful.

If someone is good at something you can acknowlege the time it took to learn and master a skill

But I don't think you will understand