Lol no you don't disown a 16 year old for doing something "bad." what does that even look like? Are you going to toss her out onto the streets? That'll show her!!

disowning her couldn't really hurt atp

Anonymous wrote:She will just smoke somewhere else. I have on off again smoked since 17. I would not play the lung cancer angle (very sorry about your parents) but the vanity angle. Yellow teeth, wrinkles, big pores.

Agreed. And OP, my heart goes out to you. My dad died of lung cancer and my mom got colon cancer from smoking. She survived.

Play the vanity angle, the dating angle, the nasty breath kissing an ashtray angle. Even though my mother stopped smoking at age 45, her skin and her teeth are just an incredible mess.