Anonymous
Post 03/08/2025 14:15     Subject: Shy young adult who can’t ask for things or advocate for himself. Wwyd?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:This was my kid at 19 too. Customer-facing jobs (restaurant, camp counselor) helped a lot. In the past 2 years, her confidence has increased a lot. She also did some informational interviews with family friends regarding careers and I think it helped with job interview confidence in general.


Op this is great advice. He was a camp counselor one summer and that definitely helped. He has seemed to regress unfortunately (lots of hours at the library at college) so I’ve got to push him to get back out there.


Or don't push him and let him struggle until he decides to change and push himself. That's how people grow. Mommy can't do everything for him.