Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I'm not sure how old your kids are, OP, but be aware that having a mother who is obsessed with her weight/doesn't eat is likely to cause issues for a daughter if you have one. Just something to keep in mind.
My mom completely messed up my body image and relationship with food. I survived the anorexia I had in college but it took additional decades to get my head straight. I went to great lengths to shield my tween/teen DD from all of my food/weight baggage and that's when I was finally able to let it all go. It was so much more important than a temporary number on a scale.
Not OP, but give me a break. Why are you here? Might you be focused on diet, exercise and your weight? Like, say, 99% of all women?
You certainly weren't able to "let it all go" or else you wouldn't be hanging out and commenting on a "Diet and
Exercise" discussion board.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Op here, ten toes down-- it does not make sense to let your weight get to a point where it's out of control, and then you qualify; that's backward thinking.
I am clear that 143 lbs. is not overweight. However, I am also clear that 143 lbs. quickly turns into 147, 152, 159, 165, etc. It is much harder to lose weight at my age, so instead of ballooning 20lbs, I nipped it in the bud at 10. Congrats are in order, but I get how weird people are these days, so the backlash tracks. However, this thread is an excellent reminder to keep this private in my regular life. I won't tell a soul even if I see you struggling. Also, no therapist on the planet can talk me out of my position.
I was overweight in my 30s after having kids, and it is clear that being overweight at nearly 50 and beyond is more detrimental.
There are no congrats in order here. You are messed up.
Anonymous wrote:This is really sad. You’re an absolute disaster. The fact that you keep posting this like this is admirable, either betrays you’re desperate craving for attention or your mental illness. I say this with kindness and empathy: GET help get help.!!!!!!
Anonymous wrote:I'm not sure how old your kids are, OP, but be aware that having a mother who is obsessed with her weight/doesn't eat is likely to cause issues for a daughter if you have one. Just something to keep in mind.
My mom completely messed up my body image and relationship with food. I survived the anorexia I had in college but it took additional decades to get my head straight. I went to great lengths to shield my tween/teen DD from all of my food/weight baggage and that's when I was finally able to let it all go. It was so much more important than a temporary number on a scale.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:How can I -- a legit fat person-- get a script for this?
Your primary care doctor.
Possibly you GYN doctor.
Weight Watchers.
E. Lilly website. They have clinical resources.
(Reluctantly)Amazon online clinic.
Washington Center for weight loss (Alexandria), they have an Endocrinologist on staff that was involved with the clinical trials of these meds.
Anonymous wrote:How can I -- a legit fat person-- get a script for this?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Op here, ten toes down-- it does not make sense to let your weight get to a point where it's out of control, and then you qualify; that's backward thinking.
I am clear that 143 lbs. is not overweight. However, I am also clear that 143 lbs. quickly turns into 147, 152, 159, 165, etc. It is much harder to lose weight at my age, so instead of ballooning 20lbs, I nipped it in the bud at 10. Congrats are in order, but I get how weird people are these days, so the backlash tracks. However, this thread is an excellent reminder to keep this private in my regular life. I won't tell a soul even if I see you struggling. Also, no therapist on the planet can talk me out of my position.
I was overweight in my 30s after having kids, and it is clear that being overweight at nearly 50 and beyond is more detrimental.
Taking this drug at your weight and then not eating is disordered. Sorry, but it is.
Anonymous wrote:Op here, ten toes down-- it does not make sense to let your weight get to a point where it's out of control, and then you qualify; that's backward thinking.
I am clear that 143 lbs. is not overweight. However, I am also clear that 143 lbs. quickly turns into 147, 152, 159, 165, etc. It is much harder to lose weight at my age, so instead of ballooning 20lbs, I nipped it in the bud at 10. Congrats are in order, but I get how weird people are these days, so the backlash tracks. However, this thread is an excellent reminder to keep this private in my regular life. I won't tell a soul even if I see you struggling. Also, no therapist on the planet can talk me out of my position.
I was overweight in my 30s after having kids, and it is clear that being overweight at nearly 50 and beyond is more detrimental.
Anonymous wrote:Op here, ten toes down-- it does not make sense to let your weight get to a point where it's out of control, and then you qualify; that's backward thinking.
I am clear that 143 lbs. is not overweight. However, I am also clear that 143 lbs. quickly turns into 147, 152, 159, 165, etc. It is much harder to lose weight at my age, so instead of ballooning 20lbs, I nipped it in the bud at 10. Congrats are in order, but I get how weird people are these days, so the backlash tracks. However, this thread is an excellent reminder to keep this private in my regular life. I won't tell a soul even if I see you struggling. Also, no therapist on the planet can talk me out of my position.
I was overweight in my 30s after having kids, and it is clear that being overweight at nearly 50 and beyond is more detrimental.