Anonymous
Post 01/21/2025 21:17     Subject: Re:What is the line between innocent/fun flirtation and inappropriate?

Anonymous wrote:The line is where there’s no question about whether something is inappropriate. If you’re worrying about getting too close to a line, you’ve already crossed it.


Very profound.

Accurate too.
Anonymous
Post 01/21/2025 20:01     Subject: What is the line between innocent/fun flirtation and inappropriate?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:There is no such thing as innocent flirting. Flirting is flirting and is part of hitting on someone. You might just be leading them on if you aren't intending to do anything about it but it is still flirting.


Ding ding ding!!

I’ve been married 16 years and in a relationship with my husband for over 20. Crushes develop and attraction to somebody happens on its own but flirting is a choice to start something and that’s the line. It’s time to back away from whoever you are flirting with. Limit contact to what is essential and don’t seek them out. Unfed, crushes will die in a few weeks.



Yes, this!
Anonymous
Post 01/21/2025 13:55     Subject: What is the line between innocent/fun flirtation and inappropriate?

Anonymous wrote:There is no such thing as innocent flirting. Flirting is flirting and is part of hitting on someone. You might just be leading them on if you aren't intending to do anything about it but it is still flirting.


Ding ding ding!!

I’ve been married 16 years and in a relationship with my husband for over 20. Crushes develop and attraction to somebody happens on its own but flirting is a choice to start something and that’s the line. It’s time to back away from whoever you are flirting with. Limit contact to what is essential and don’t seek them out. Unfed, crushes will die in a few weeks.
Anonymous
Post 01/21/2025 13:20     Subject: What is the line between innocent/fun flirtation and inappropriate?

Anonymous wrote:If you have to ask...


Yep!
Anonymous
Post 01/21/2025 12:56     Subject: What is the line between innocent/fun flirtation and inappropriate?

If you have to ask...
Anonymous
Post 01/21/2025 12:51     Subject: What is the line between innocent/fun flirtation and inappropriate?

Was recently sent photos of DMs my significant other had with a so-called friend. What I consider innocent and inappropriate have completely changed. I
Anonymous
Post 01/21/2025 12:06     Subject: What is the line between innocent/fun flirtation and inappropriate?

Not married but in a what I would consider serious relationship. I really dislike modern day dating and how it is such a hard concept for people to understand that there are certain lines that shouldn’t be crossed when having conversations with a friend of the opposite sex. It’s so hurtful and hard to learn that someone you are in a committed relationship has crossed the line with a “friend” or even a past ex. Ask me how I know.
Anonymous
Post 01/21/2025 11:30     Subject: What is the line between innocent/fun flirtation and inappropriate?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Are massages from a married man to a single woman crossing the line?


Is this a paid service in a reputable place? Then ok. Otherwise; it seems sketchy.


Not a paid service. Rather an offer from a married man to a single woman

Why would he do that?
Anonymous
Post 01/21/2025 11:29     Subject: What is the line between innocent/fun flirtation and inappropriate?

Anonymous wrote:Are massages from a married man to a single woman crossing the line?

If it’s something he’d be okay doing in front of his wife then yes. If not then you know the answer.
Anonymous
Post 01/21/2025 10:54     Subject: What is the line between innocent/fun flirtation and inappropriate?

Anonymous wrote:Are massages from a married man to a single woman crossing the line?

LOL! Yes, unless he's a CMT. And even then, be sure to tell the spouse what's going on ahead of time.
Anonymous
Post 01/21/2025 10:44     Subject: What is the line between innocent/fun flirtation and inappropriate?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:If someone is married nothing like that is innocent fun.


This is the correct answer.


Correct. Don't open the pandora box. You and your loves ones will get burned. Stop now
Anonymous
Post 01/21/2025 08:22     Subject: What is the line between innocent/fun flirtation and inappropriate?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Are massages from a married man to a single woman crossing the line?


Is this a paid service in a reputable place? Then ok. Otherwise; it seems sketchy.


Not a paid service. Rather an offer from a married man to a single woman
Anonymous
Post 01/20/2025 18:50     Subject: What is the line between innocent/fun flirtation and inappropriate?

Anonymous wrote:Are massages from a married man to a single woman crossing the line?


Is this a paid service in a reputable place? Then ok. Otherwise; it seems sketchy.
Anonymous
Post 01/20/2025 18:29     Subject: What is the line between innocent/fun flirtation and inappropriate?

Anonymous wrote:Are massages from a married man to a single woman crossing the line?


Depends on if they both have clothes on or not? Is the massage in public view or private?
Anonymous
Post 01/20/2025 18:28     Subject: What is the line between innocent/fun flirtation and inappropriate?

Are massages from a married man to a single woman crossing the line?