Anonymous
Post 01/15/2025 09:23     Subject: In your opinion where is the best place for a woman to meet a man?
Anonymous wrote:Church.


+10000
Anonymous
Post 01/14/2025 21:26     Subject: In your opinion where is the best place for a woman to meet a man?
Anonymous wrote:"Hobbies" is theoretically a good idea, except women hate most male hobbies.

You ready to take up hunting, fishing, shooting? Warhammer 40k?

Weightlifting is certainly achievable and the gym bros would love it if you approached them. Just don't expect them to approach you because too many women have said "never approach me at the gym!"


She wanted tips to meet men, not trans women!
Anonymous
Post 01/14/2025 21:21     Subject: In your opinion where is the best place for a woman to meet a man?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I’ve said this before on here and I will say this again. Go to the Whole Foods hot foods bar on a weekday evening and start chatting up the single men who just got off work or the gym - you will eventually meet someone.


Which Whole Foods? The one in Vienna everyone is married


I hope you aren’t single and living in Vienna. If you are, that’s your first problem.
Bear Branch Inn, that’s where the young singles go in Vienna, young being relative of course.
Anonymous
Post 01/14/2025 21:10     Subject: In your opinion where is the best place for a woman to meet a man?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Meeting a man in line with your own values should be your highest priority, especially if you're Christian. That can be easier said than done depending on the church; you may need to change demographics accordingly (e.g. moving to PA or IN to meet eligible young Catholic men).

Otherwise, outdoor hobbies like hiking or kayaking groups are your best bet. You're most likely to meet fit, attractive, motivated men that way; depressives aren't regularly engaged in those hobbies.

Good call in avoiding OLD. You do not meet high value people on those sites.

I beg to differ. I met my SO on OKCupid 12+ years ago and she's plenty high value. And I am, too.

Why does no one ever have recent examples of success in OLD? The landscape has changed since 2012.


DW and I met on Match.com three years ago. We’ve been married for 1 1/2 years.
Anonymous
Post 01/14/2025 21:09     Subject: In your opinion where is the best place for a woman to meet a man?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I’ve said this before on here and I will say this again. Go to the Whole Foods hot foods bar on a weekday evening and start chatting up the single men who just got off work or the gym - you will eventually meet someone.


Not at the Whole Foods I frequent (Bethesda and Rockville). Everyone looks married.


Clarendon. They are young though. 20s-30d
Anonymous
Post 01/14/2025 21:07     Subject: In your opinion where is the best place for a woman to meet a man?
The Home Depot, so many manly men there.
Some of them have a tool belt.
Anonymous
Post 01/14/2025 21:01     Subject: In your opinion where is the best place for a woman to meet a man?
Colorado
Anonymous
Post 01/14/2025 20:44     Subject: In your opinion where is the best place for a woman to meet a man?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I’ve said this before on here and I will say this again. Go to the Whole Foods hot foods bar on a weekday evening and start chatting up the single men who just got off work or the gym - you will eventually meet someone.


Which Whole Foods? The one in Vienna everyone is married


I hope you aren’t single and living in Vienna. If you are, that’s your first problem.
Anonymous
Post 01/14/2025 20:23     Subject: In your opinion where is the best place for a woman to meet a man?
College
Anonymous
Post 01/14/2025 20:22     Subject: In your opinion where is the best place for a woman to meet a man?
My 36yo friend just got engaged to a guy she met in community theater (no the guys aren’t all gay). They both do lighting and stage design stuff, not acting.
Anonymous
Post 01/14/2025 20:00     Subject: In your opinion where is the best place for a woman to meet a man?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Meeting a man in line with your own values should be your highest priority, especially if you're Christian. That can be easier said than done depending on the church; you may need to change demographics accordingly (e.g. moving to PA or IN to meet eligible young Catholic men).

Otherwise, outdoor hobbies like hiking or kayaking groups are your best bet. You're most likely to meet fit, attractive, motivated men that way; depressives aren't regularly engaged in those hobbies.

Good call in avoiding OLD. You do not meet high value people on those sites.

I beg to differ. I met my SO on OKCupid 12+ years ago and she's plenty high value. And I am, too.

Why does no one ever have recent examples of success in OLD? The landscape has changed since 2012.
Anonymous
Post 01/14/2025 19:44     Subject: In your opinion where is the best place for a woman to meet a man?
Anonymous wrote:Meeting a man in line with your own values should be your highest priority, especially if you're Christian. That can be easier said than done depending on the church; you may need to change demographics accordingly (e.g. moving to PA or IN to meet eligible young Catholic men).

Otherwise, outdoor hobbies like hiking or kayaking groups are your best bet. You're most likely to meet fit, attractive, motivated men that way; depressives aren't regularly engaged in those hobbies.

Good call in avoiding OLD. You do not meet high value people on those sites.

I beg to differ. I met my SO on OKCupid 12+ years ago and she's plenty high value. And I am, too.
Anonymous
Post 01/14/2025 19:26     Subject: In your opinion where is the best place for a woman to meet a man?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Meeting a man in line with your own values should be your highest priority, especially if you're Christian. That can be easier said than done depending on the church; you may need to change demographics accordingly (e.g. moving to PA or IN to meet eligible young Catholic men).

Otherwise, outdoor hobbies like hiking or kayaking groups are your best bet. You're most likely to meet fit, attractive, motivated men that way; depressives aren't regularly engaged in those hobbies.

Good call in avoiding OLD. You do not meet high value people on those sites.


Where does one find these hiking or kayaking groups? I’ve only seen ones sponsored by LL Bean many years ago.

PP - I've gone on L.L. Bean ones, gone on hiking / kayaking dates with women I've met, and been invited to hiking / kayaking groups at past churches.

I imagine you can find them on FB, though I don't have one.
Anonymous
Post 01/14/2025 19:19     Subject: In your opinion where is the best place for a woman to meet a man?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Graduate school is actually the #1 place for finding top mates.

Then online now.

That's too young.

The longer women hold out, the worse their options get. Early-to-mid 20s is ideal; mature enough to know what they want in a relationship, young enough to attract a HVM and have no fertility concerns. Women in their 30s can't say the same.
Anonymous
Post 01/14/2025 19:14     Subject: In your opinion where is the best place for a woman to meet a man?
Anonymous wrote:Meeting a man in line with your own values should be your highest priority, especially if you're Christian. That can be easier said than done depending on the church; you may need to change demographics accordingly (e.g. moving to PA or IN to meet eligible young Catholic men).

Otherwise, outdoor hobbies like hiking or kayaking groups are your best bet. You're most likely to meet fit, attractive, motivated men that way; depressives aren't regularly engaged in those hobbies.

Good call in avoiding OLD. You do not meet high value people on those sites.


Where does one find these hiking or kayaking groups? I’ve only seen ones sponsored by LL Bean many years ago.