Anonymous
Post 01/08/2025 05:18     Subject: Women with younger men
Anonymous wrote:Older women dating younger men experience a sexual Renaissance and I will agree. I don't buy the idea that men need sex more than women. I think society just makes women suppress their sexual needs.

Read this very interesting article.

https://www.brides.com/what-you-should-know-about-dating-a-younger-man-4584018


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Anonymous
Post 01/08/2025 04:04     Subject: Women with younger men
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Anonymous wrote:I’m 49F, divorced and prefer to date men around 40. I won’t marry. But I also don’t want to deal with a boyfriend’s ED issues- 40 is a sweet spot. And yes. I have the face, body, and financial independence to pull this off with ease. It feels very natural- 6-9 years just isn’t a big deal in a boyfriend.


ED is really a big issue for women. Now I can see why men feel so insecure when they can no longer get it up.

What's the ED equivalent for women, if there is one?


Getting fat.


Drying out. Both in face and down there.


Lube. Problem(s) solved.


Yes and no. The sex with older women can be awesome, even without lube. (Go slow and you probably won't need lube, even with a woman over 60.) For me, the problem is that the face often still looks kinda old and strangely masculine, even when the woman uses expensive creams, etc. This is much less of a problem with older women of color.

No need to flame me. I'm a middle aged white man and I know too well that not all women are into me, and my tool isn't as strong or reliable as it was 20 years ago.



I mean that's a problem for all people, male and female, regardless of ethnicity, as facial fat declines with age, so not related to older white women at all. You may be noticing that some people with more melanin tend to age better, and that would be because of their natural UV protection. With more and more women (of all ethnicities) using SPF on a daily basis, it's much less of a concern now for older women. I will say it's very rare for men to use daily sunscreen so I find that haggard, buzzard look very common on older men. Combined with sagging balls it's not exactly a great look
Anonymous
Post 01/08/2025 04:00     Subject: Re:Women with younger men
Anonymous wrote:I’m 57 and my partner is 45. Initially I was concerned about the age gap but he convinced me not to worry. My peers with their much older husbands are pretty envious. I never talk about my sex life but they have a good reason to be envious.


Yeah. That "younger man" stamina is no joke, and the higher sex drive. In that sense I think older women can be a much better match because my libido shot up as soon as I hit 30
Anonymous
Post 01/07/2025 20:06     Subject: Women with younger men
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Anonymous wrote:My wife told me a friend of a friend recently married her 31 years old boyfriend. She is 43 and has 3 kids. They tried for a child together but sadly she lost the baby.

Men are no longer the ones marrying younger. In fact I don't think they were exclusively the ones doing so, my guess is that it's probably always been 50/50 but men for whatever reasons are criticized more for this.

And people won't probably even know he is younger than you. I have seen some 30 years old men who look in their 40s despite being in good shape and healthy. Men don't take care of their skin as much as much as women do. So if that's important to you, you are not going to be the older looking spouse. And if you care about that drop it because it's not important and nobody cares.

My only advice for you is to tune out the noise from the 40+ divorced men and women on this forum who have an obsession with bragging about going younger and making it all about age.


The stats do not agree with you.


Actually according to stats the woman is older in 1 in 5 marriages!! Its surprising. This would include relationships where the woman is only a month or a year older, but still, it's a significant percentage.
Anonymous
Post 01/07/2025 19:51     Subject: Women with younger men
Older women dating younger men experience a sexual Renaissance and I will agree. I don't buy the idea that men need sex more than women. I think society just make women suppress their sexual needs.

Read this very interesting article.

https://www.brides.com/what-you-should-know-about-dating-a-younger-man-4584018
Anonymous
Post 01/07/2025 19:26     Subject: Women with younger men
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I’m 49F, divorced and prefer to date men around 40. I won’t marry. But I also don’t want to deal with a boyfriend’s ED issues- 40 is a sweet spot. And yes. I have the face, body, and financial independence to pull this off with ease. It feels very natural- 6-9 years just isn’t a big deal in a boyfriend.


ED is really a big issue for women. Now I can see why men feel so insecure when they can no longer get it up.

What's the ED equivalent for women, if there is one?


Getting fat.


Drying out. Both in face and down there.


Lube. Problem(s) solved.


Yes and no. The sex with older women can be awesome, even without lube. (Go slow and you probably won't need lube, even with a woman over 60.) For me, the problem is that the face often still looks kinda old and strangely masculine, even when the woman uses expensive creams, etc. This is much less of a problem with older women of color.

No need to flame me. I'm a middle aged white man and I know too well that not all women are into me, and my tool isn't as strong or reliable as it was 20 years ago.

Anonymous
Post 01/07/2025 19:22     Subject: Women with younger men
Anonymous wrote:Younger guys love boning older women. You are an easy lay for them.


And how is that different from younger women with older men? They are naive enough not to see the BS and think you're still interesting. Easy lay, QED. Low expectations.
Anonymous
Post 01/07/2025 19:07     Subject: Women with younger men
Anonymous wrote:Hugh Jackson didn't work out because his wife turned into a granny


No, she was his beard.
Anonymous
Post 01/07/2025 18:53     Subject: Re:Women with younger men
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I’m 57 and my partner is 45. Initially I was concerned about the age gap but he convinced me not to worry. My peers with their much older husbands are pretty envious. I never talk about my sex life but they have a good reason to be envious.


This is rather immature behavior.


On behalf of the petty jealous friends, you mean? Yes, it is. If you can't be happy for your friend, you're not a good friend.
Anonymous
Post 01/07/2025 18:52     Subject: Women with younger men
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I’m 49F, divorced and prefer to date men around 40. I won’t marry. But I also don’t want to deal with a boyfriend’s ED issues- 40 is a sweet spot. And yes. I have the face, body, and financial independence to pull this off with ease. It feels very natural- 6-9 years just isn’t a big deal in a boyfriend.


ED is really a big issue for women. Now I can see why men feel so insecure when they can no longer get it up.

What's the ED equivalent for women, if there is one?


Getting fat.


Drying out. Both in face and down there.


Lube. Problem(s) solved.
Anonymous
Post 01/07/2025 18:26     Subject: Re:Women with younger men
Anonymous wrote:I’m 57 and my partner is 45. Initially I was concerned about the age gap but he convinced me not to worry. My peers with their much older husbands are pretty envious. I never talk about my sex life but they have a good reason to be envious.


This is rather immature behavior.
Anonymous
Post 01/07/2025 18:13     Subject: Re:Women with younger men
I’m 57 and my partner is 45. Initially I was concerned about the age gap but he convinced me not to worry. My peers with their much older husbands are pretty envious. I never talk about my sex life but they have a good reason to be envious.
Anonymous
Post 01/07/2025 18:04     Subject: Women with younger men
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I’m 49F, divorced and prefer to date men around 40. I won’t marry. But I also don’t want to deal with a boyfriend’s ED issues- 40 is a sweet spot. And yes. I have the face, body, and financial independence to pull this off with ease. It feels very natural- 6-9 years just isn’t a big deal in a boyfriend.


ED is really a big issue for women. Now I can see why men feel so insecure when they can no longer get it up.

What's the ED equivalent for women, if there is one?


Getting fat.


Drying out. Both in face and down there.
Anonymous
Post 01/07/2025 17:40     Subject: Women with younger men
Anonymous wrote:
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Anonymous wrote:My sister is 34 and just married a man six years younger. He's crazy about her.


Every woman I know dating younger is much happier.


I think a woman dating younger has some advantages. For instance, she is probably further ahead in her career and is in a better financials than him. And second she is also more mature. I think these 2 factors allow her to donate the terms of the relationship early on and it's direction as well and further the man being younger means she won't worry about her sexual needs not being met prematurely. I think for women a relationship is more likely to benefit the woman if she calls the shots (not in a controlling way) early on.


Men are less concerned marrying a woman for their career potential. Also, a woman calling the shots for most guys would be a turnoff. If anything, an older woman should go out of her way to respect and show deference to her husband because of the age difference, assuming he’s earned that trust.
Anonymous
Post 01/07/2025 17:35     Subject: Women with younger men
Also, a truth: Guys 40-60 that are fit and relatively attractive (6+) can and do have options from younger (30+) single/divorced women to married women seeking affairs/NSAs. You can’t control your man’s behavior, but you can control your looks and mental health. Prioritize this for yourself and well being. Good things will happen.