Anonymous
Post 01/07/2025 13:10     Subject: Small acts that signal to strangers you are TA
Anonymous wrote:I keep my bag on the seat next to me unless there are no seats left and people are standing and neat a seat.

Why?

Because once as a woman, I literally was trapped on a bus that eventually became empty. And guess what? The very large man sitting next to me, WOULD NOT MOVE to another empty seat.

I felt so violated. I couldn't get up because then I would have had to squeeze past him.

I asked him and then I told him to please get up now and move to an empty seat, that I couldn't really breathe and needed to throw up.

I started making gagging and coughing and spitting noises until he moved.

I'm a petite woman. And this dude was purposely not moving to an empty seat.

So, yes, I keep my bag on the seat next to me unless the bus or train or seating area is completely full and people are standing and need a place to sit.


I'm also a petite woman who learned a long time ago how to say "excuse me" on public transport when I need to exit or move. This dude wasn't holding you hostage. You're just a drama queen justifying your horrible behaviors by manufacturing "victim" moments.
Anonymous
Post 01/07/2025 11:47     Subject: Re:Small acts that signal to strangers you are TA
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Bringing your dog into every freaking store.


I bring my dog wherever he's allowed. Get over it.


So you are TA! They are not legally allowed, the business just chooses to ignore it. Stop being TA and leave your mangy dog at home.


+1 I don’t want to see your dog at Total Wine, Starbucks, Costco, Walmart, Safeway, or District Taco - all places where I have seen dogs indoors in the last year or so. My issue is that not all dogs are well-behaved and calm, and even dogs that are usually well-behaved at home or on walks can get over excited in a busy store. I also think it’s gross in food establishments.
Anonymous
Post 01/07/2025 11:34     Subject: Small acts that signal to strangers you are TA
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I keep my bag on the seat next to me unless there are no seats left and people are standing and neat a seat.

Why?

Because once as a woman, I literally was trapped on a bus that eventually became empty. And guess what? The very large man sitting next to me, WOULD NOT MOVE to another empty seat.

I felt so violated. I couldn't get up because then I would have had to squeeze past him.

I asked him and then I told him to please get up now and move to an empty seat, that I couldn't really breathe and needed to throw up.

I started making gagging and coughing and spitting noises until he moved.

I'm a petite woman. And this dude was purposely not moving to an empty seat.

So, yes, I keep my bag on the seat next to me unless the bus or train or seating area is completely full and people are standing and need a place to sit.


TA in this story is you. If you're so special you can't sit next to other people without threatening them with biohazards then you need to stand, not take two seats.


Reading comprehension is vitally important.

READ.

RIF.

Reading is Fundamental.

The bus became empty. The very large man sitting next to me would NOT MOVE to an empty seat. He had at least 20 empty seats to choose from, and he chose to awkwardly stay seated next to me.

Do you comprehend?


Why couldn't you get up an move, princess? Your legs don't work?
Anonymous
Post 01/07/2025 10:55     Subject: Small acts that signal to strangers you are TA
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I keep my bag on the seat next to me unless there are no seats left and people are standing and neat a seat.

Why?

Because once as a woman, I literally was trapped on a bus that eventually became empty. And guess what? The very large man sitting next to me, WOULD NOT MOVE to another empty seat.

I felt so violated. I couldn't get up because then I would have had to squeeze past him.

I asked him and then I told him to please get up now and move to an empty seat, that I couldn't really breathe and needed to throw up.

I started making gagging and coughing and spitting noises until he moved.

I'm a petite woman. And this dude was purposely not moving to an empty seat.

So, yes, I keep my bag on the seat next to me unless the bus or train or seating area is completely full and people are standing and need a place to sit.


TA in this story is you. If you're so special you can't sit next to other people without threatening them with biohazards then you need to stand, not take two seats.


Reading comprehension is vitally important.

READ.

RIF.

Reading is Fundamental.

The bus became empty. The very large man sitting next to me would NOT MOVE to an empty seat. He had at least 20 empty seats to choose from, and he chose to awkwardly stay seated next to me.

Do you comprehend?
Anonymous
Post 01/07/2025 10:15     Subject: Re:Small acts that signal to strangers you are TA
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Bringing your dog into every freaking store.


I bring my dog wherever he's allowed. Get over it.


So you are TA! They are not legally allowed, the business just chooses to ignore it. Stop being TA and leave your mangy dog at home.
Anonymous
Post 01/07/2025 10:04     Subject: Small acts that signal to strangers you are TA
Anonymous wrote:I keep my bag on the seat next to me unless there are no seats left and people are standing and neat a seat.

Why?

Because once as a woman, I literally was trapped on a bus that eventually became empty. And guess what? The very large man sitting next to me, WOULD NOT MOVE to another empty seat.

I felt so violated. I couldn't get up because then I would have had to squeeze past him.

I asked him and then I told him to please get up now and move to an empty seat, that I couldn't really breathe and needed to throw up.

I started making gagging and coughing and spitting noises until he moved.

I'm a petite woman. And this dude was purposely not moving to an empty seat.

So, yes, I keep my bag on the seat next to me unless the bus or train or seating area is completely full and people are standing and need a place to sit.


TA in this story is you. If you're so special you can't sit next to other people without threatening them with biohazards then you need to stand, not take two seats.
Anonymous
Post 01/07/2025 10:02     Subject: Re:Small acts that signal to strangers you are TA
Anonymous wrote:Bringing your dog into every freaking store.


I bring my dog wherever he's allowed. Get over it.
Anonymous
Post 01/07/2025 10:00     Subject: Small acts that signal to strangers you are TA
I keep my bag on the seat next to me unless there are no seats left and people are standing and neat a seat.

Why?

Because once as a woman, I literally was trapped on a bus that eventually became empty. And guess what? The very large man sitting next to me, WOULD NOT MOVE to another empty seat.

I felt so violated. I couldn't get up because then I would have had to squeeze past him.

I asked him and then I told him to please get up now and move to an empty seat, that I couldn't really breathe and needed to throw up.

I started making gagging and coughing and spitting noises until he moved.

I'm a petite woman. And this dude was purposely not moving to an empty seat.

So, yes, I keep my bag on the seat next to me unless the bus or train or seating area is completely full and people are standing and need a place to sit.
Anonymous
Post 01/07/2025 08:16     Subject: Re:Small acts that signal to strangers you are TA
Bringing your dog into every freaking store.
Anonymous
Post 01/07/2025 07:57     Subject: Small acts that signal to strangers you are TA
A woman walks in a coffee shop with three little kids out of control, running wild grabbing the sugar packs, opening them up and throwing the sugar up in the air saying "its snowing" to all the tables.
Anonymous
Post 01/07/2025 05:40     Subject: Small acts that signal to strangers you are TA
When you have a shared driveway and never help shovel (and are healthy, young, childless people so have no reason not to.)
Anonymous
Post 01/07/2025 04:01     Subject: Small acts that signal to strangers you are TA
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:What's TA?


Tumbling armadillo


What? No. Dcum is so ignorant.

It's TRIFLING armadillo.


Ffs boomers, get with it. TAs are Therapeutic Aardvarks, the most coveted comfort animals in most parts of Azerbaijan.
Anonymous
Post 01/06/2025 21:58     Subject: Small acts that signal to strangers you are TA
Camping in the left lane
Anonymous
Post 01/06/2025 21:35     Subject: Small acts that signal to strangers you are TA
I frequently see interviews when I’m at Starbucks and Panera. I think this is pretty common.
Anonymous
Post 01/06/2025 21:33     Subject: Small acts that signal to strangers you are TA
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:What's TA?


Tumbling armadillo


What? No. Dcum is so ignorant.

It's TRIFLING armadillo.