Anonymous wrote:We’ve been looking at houses for a long time and hope to find something so we can move out of our rental. DH keeps showing me houses that have some crucial aspect missing that we need like off-street parking, is on a busy road, not in a flood zone, etc. He’s getting frustrated when I point these things out, but those are issues that are non-negotiable. I’m tired of having to be the bad guy explaining why these listings wouldn’t work for us. Anyone else sick of having to be the adult in this situation?

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Anonymous wrote:We’ve been looking at houses for a long time and hope to find something so we can move out of our rental. DH keeps showing me houses that have some crucial aspect missing that we need like off-street parking, is on a busy road, not in a flood zone, etc. He’s getting frustrated when I point these things out, but those are issues that are non-negotiable. I’m tired of having to be the bad guy explaining why these listings wouldn’t work for us. Anyone else sick of having to be the adult in this situation?

Are you sure some are in the flood zone? Sometimes online it says it is but really isn’t so you should be checking other sources.

Also, you can’t always get what you want in your budget so it might be good to go look at some of these homes so you get an idea.

Look in different neighborhoods and areas. We stayed in our neighborhood but are a little farther out. When we rented it took us 10 minutes to walk to certain places that now take 20-25 minutes. My husband also wanted a garage and we ended up with parking but no garage (we could build one). We wanted a particular area and were not willing to compromise on that but we had the funds to buy in that area.

Also we bought a corner lot and one side is double yellow and it’s totally fine. I would have thought if I didn’t go look at the home that I would live on a double yellow. After viewing it and speaking to neighbors I’m really happy where we live. For some reason it is not that busy.

I would recommend seeing homes even ones you say you might not want. The home we bought my husband online said no but in person he saw the potential and the amazing neighborhood. He actually loves it more than me now. So I would say go look at homes at open houses to get an idea.

Double yellows is not something i would take a chance on.

Good for you? We haven’t had any issues and my friends who are on side streets have had more issues with speeding and actual racing and there kids think they are totally safe. We live on a corner with a double yellow but have the yard fenced and my kids know to be careful/ stay in sidewalk. As people say above you don’t always get what you want and we wanted a particular nice area so we had to make concessions.

NP re-sale value it will be an issue. You will get less for a house on double yellows.

You also pay less for a house on a busier road. We passed on a house on a busy road (Quincy in Arlington) pre pandemic and got a smaller house on a quieter street. Now that I’m working from home home more we could use the extra space and I’m not sure I’d make the same decision.

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Anonymous wrote:We’ve been looking at houses for a long time and hope to find something so we can move out of our rental. DH keeps showing me houses that have some crucial aspect missing that we need like off-street parking, is on a busy road, not in a flood zone, etc. He’s getting frustrated when I point these things out, but those are issues that are non-negotiable. I’m tired of having to be the bad guy explaining why these listings wouldn’t work for us. Anyone else sick of having to be the adult in this situation?

Are you sure some are in the flood zone? Sometimes online it says it is but really isn’t so you should be checking other sources.

Also, you can’t always get what you want in your budget so it might be good to go look at some of these homes so you get an idea.

Look in different neighborhoods and areas. We stayed in our neighborhood but are a little farther out. When we rented it took us 10 minutes to walk to certain places that now take 20-25 minutes. My husband also wanted a garage and we ended up with parking but no garage (we could build one). We wanted a particular area and were not willing to compromise on that but we had the funds to buy in that area.

Also we bought a corner lot and one side is double yellow and it’s totally fine. I would have thought if I didn’t go look at the home that I would live on a double yellow. After viewing it and speaking to neighbors I’m really happy where we live. For some reason it is not that busy.

I would recommend seeing homes even ones you say you might not want. The home we bought my husband online said no but in person he saw the potential and the amazing neighborhood. He actually loves it more than me now. So I would say go look at homes at open houses to get an idea.

Double yellows is not something i would take a chance on.

Good for you? We haven’t had any issues and my friends who are on side streets have had more issues with speeding and actual racing and there kids think they are totally safe. We live on a corner with a double yellow but have the yard fenced and my kids know to be careful/ stay in sidewalk. As people say above you don’t always get what you want and we wanted a particular nice area so we had to make concessions.

NP re-sale value it will be an issue. You will get less for a house on double yellows.

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Anonymous wrote:The chance that you will be able to find a house that meets every single one of your prerequisites is close to zero. You have to accept that you will not find a unicorn and go from there. It sounds like you're the one who needs this advice, not him.

That’s ridiculous, her list is very reasonable.

Off street parking?

Busy road?

Not flooding.

This is like very basic not terrible house.

Anonymous wrote:A. No flood zone is indeed non-negotiable. The rest is.

B. You're too early for the spring market, especially in a Presidential election year, when everything traditionally freezes until the new admin comes in. Right now inventory for good homes is very low.

C. Once spring season starts, you need your financial ducks in a row so you can make an offer day of. So do that now, if you haven't already done so.

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Anonymous wrote:We’ve been looking at houses for a long time and hope to find something so we can move out of our rental. DH keeps showing me houses that have some crucial aspect missing that we need like off-street parking, is on a busy road, not in a flood zone, etc. He’s getting frustrated when I point these things out, but those are issues that are non-negotiable. I’m tired of having to be the bad guy explaining why these listings wouldn’t work for us. Anyone else sick of having to be the adult in this situation?

Are you sure some are in the flood zone? Sometimes online it says it is but really isn’t so you should be checking other sources.

Also, you can’t always get what you want in your budget so it might be good to go look at some of these homes so you get an idea.

Look in different neighborhoods and areas. We stayed in our neighborhood but are a little farther out. When we rented it took us 10 minutes to walk to certain places that now take 20-25 minutes. My husband also wanted a garage and we ended up with parking but no garage (we could build one). We wanted a particular area and were not willing to compromise on that but we had the funds to buy in that area.

Also we bought a corner lot and one side is double yellow and it’s totally fine. I would have thought if I didn’t go look at the home that I would live on a double yellow. After viewing it and speaking to neighbors I’m really happy where we live. For some reason it is not that busy.

I would recommend seeing homes even ones you say you might not want. The home we bought my husband online said no but in person he saw the potential and the amazing neighborhood. He actually loves it more than me now. So I would say go look at homes at open houses to get an idea.

Double yellows is not something i would take a chance on.

Good for you? We haven’t had any issues and my friends who are on side streets have had more issues with speeding and actual racing and there kids think they are totally safe. We live on a corner with a double yellow but have the yard fenced and my kids know to be careful/ stay in sidewalk. As people say above you don’t always get what you want and we wanted a particular nice area so we had to make concessions.

I assume your driveway and entry you normally use is on the quiet street. That’s the only way it’s feasible.

OMFG. Do you think all those single family homes on double yellow roads are filled with people with no kids? Yes, it is possible for kids to live in a house on a road with a double yellow road.

It's fascinating that so many people on here -- some of whom, I'm guessing, have advanced educational degrees -- become such utter simpletons anytime they have to think about a road that gets more than five cars per hour. They think anything with more traffic than a cul-de-sac is the equivalent of the Beltway. Such rubes.

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Anonymous wrote:We’ve been looking at houses for a long time and hope to find something so we can move out of our rental. DH keeps showing me houses that have some crucial aspect missing that we need like off-street parking, is on a busy road, not in a flood zone, etc. He’s getting frustrated when I point these things out, but those are issues that are non-negotiable. I’m tired of having to be the bad guy explaining why these listings wouldn’t work for us. Anyone else sick of having to be the adult in this situation?

Are you sure some are in the flood zone? Sometimes online it says it is but really isn’t so you should be checking other sources.

Also, you can’t always get what you want in your budget so it might be good to go look at some of these homes so you get an idea.

Look in different neighborhoods and areas. We stayed in our neighborhood but are a little farther out. When we rented it took us 10 minutes to walk to certain places that now take 20-25 minutes. My husband also wanted a garage and we ended up with parking but no garage (we could build one). We wanted a particular area and were not willing to compromise on that but we had the funds to buy in that area.

Also we bought a corner lot and one side is double yellow and it’s totally fine. I would have thought if I didn’t go look at the home that I would live on a double yellow. After viewing it and speaking to neighbors I’m really happy where we live. For some reason it is not that busy.

I would recommend seeing homes even ones you say you might not want. The home we bought my husband online said no but in person he saw the potential and the amazing neighborhood. He actually loves it more than me now. So I would say go look at homes at open houses to get an idea.

Double yellows is not something i would take a chance on.

Good for you? We haven’t had any issues and my friends who are on side streets have had more issues with speeding and actual racing and there kids think they are totally safe. We live on a corner with a double yellow but have the yard fenced and my kids know to be careful/ stay in sidewalk. As people say above you don’t always get what you want and we wanted a particular nice area so we had to make concessions.