Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This is weird, no? The other day we went skiing and he had a bad fall and hurt himself. Later we were lounging back at the condo and I suggested sex. At first he said no he is too sore and I was fine with it. But then 20 min later he was like, does the offer still stand??? Lmao. Poor thing was obviously struggling too.

I got to thinking about it and he has literally never said no to sex in 20 years. Meanwhile, I sometimes make up having a “bad period” when I don’t feel like it.

Is this normal for men and women? It makes me feel kinda bad for men.

Oh you should see what happens when you say no to a woman.

I can tell you because my DH says no a lot. It makes me very sad. I don’t reject him though. I take what I can get. I won’t cheat but understand why people do.

This some incel fever dream posting, wishing they were the ones turning down sex.

Guys do not turn down sex, ever. They will bang anything.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This is weird, no? The other day we went skiing and he had a bad fall and hurt himself. Later we were lounging back at the condo and I suggested sex. At first he said no he is too sore and I was fine with it. But then 20 min later he was like, does the offer still stand??? Lmao. Poor thing was obviously struggling too.

I got to thinking about it and he has literally never said no to sex in 20 years. Meanwhile, I sometimes make up having a “bad period” when I don’t feel like it.

Is this normal for men and women? It makes me feel kinda bad for men.

Oh you should see what happens when you say no to a woman.

I can tell you because my DH says no a lot. It makes me very sad. I don’t reject him though. I take what I can get. I won’t cheat but understand why people do.

If sex doesn't always involve PIV I never say No to DW. At my age I can only have PIV once a day. However I can sex every day and if she wants it 3 times a day I am always ready sick or not. After the first session though for subsequent ones toys fingers and my thighs will do the action.

But yeah if DW wants PIV 3 times or even 2 times in a day I can't deliver. I'm not blessed like the men here who can do PIV 4 times a day at 70. God bless them and good for their DWs lol.

But we are very happy with our sex life though. We don't reject each other and even when one is not in the mood we find ways to please each other. To me thats a healthy relationship

DH has said no a handful of times when he's tired or not feeling great. But we have a lot of sex and we both initiate it equally. So it's not a big deal if he turns it down

Anonymous wrote:In almost forty years with a HL wife, I have never said no that I can recall. I figure it’s my duty, and it’s a pleasant one!

What is an HL wife?

Anonymous wrote:My DH is the same. Never says no.

But if he ask and I do say no, he mas* right in the bed that night and his fluids are all over the sheets and clothes. Hmm.

Do you think he is deliberately doing that to get at me?

Your DH is one heck of a weirdo

Anonymous wrote:My DH is the same. Never says no.

But if he ask and I do say no, he mas* right in the bed that night and his fluids are all over the sheets and clothes. Hmm.

Do you think he is deliberately doing that to get at me?

That is disgusting. Are you serious?

My DH is the same. Never says no.

But if he ask and I do say no, he mas* right in the bed that night and his fluids are all over the sheets and clothes. Hmm.

Do you think he is deliberately doing that to get at me?

Here is my opinion. First people are fed this idea that men are horny all the time and want sex all the time and will put their d**k in any p**y anytime it's available. That's a myth. Libido is not solely connected to Testosterone level. Men (just like women) have different libido regardless of their testosterone levels. Some men have low libido and will sex no to sex and it has nothing to do about the woman.

I think part of the reason women may be questioning why their men rejected their sexual advances may have to be with the myth I talked about above that men want it all the time.

Now it also doesn't help that men coincidentally say No to sex at the same time their wives start going through physically changes(weight gain/loss, aging, etc) so to women it may appear that their husbands may not find them physically attractive anymore.

When a wife rejects her husband's he will just take the rejection and move on. When a husbands rejects his wife of boy. A thousands thoughts will go through her mind. Kind of like how dare him?

Anonymous wrote:10 years into our marriage, two kids, and one night, while recovering from the flu and just feeling like death I turned her down.

This woman, who I had enjoyed years with asked me if I was gay upon hearing my rejection.

Wow.

Anonymous wrote:10 years into our marriage, two kids, and one night, while recovering from the flu and just feeling like death I turned her down.

This woman, who I had enjoyed years with asked me if I was gay upon hearing my rejection.

That made me laugh!

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:In almost forty years with a HL wife, I have never said no that I can recall. I figure it’s my duty, and it’s a pleasant one!

+1

Reject sex, yes. Reject sex with my wife, never.

What’s HL wife?

10 years into our marriage, two kids, and one night, while recovering from the flu and just feeling like death I turned her down.

This woman, who I had enjoyed years with asked me if I was gay upon hearing my rejection.

Anonymous wrote:The one time it happened I cried I felt so rejected.

Now imagine what it's like to be a man.