Anonymous wrote:I've only known men to either be too honest or just lie about it. I had a friend in grad school who picked 9 as his number to tell people. I have no idea what the real number was.

My husband was not a player and I'm pretty sure he slept with more women than 8

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Anonymous wrote:Good looking guy here. I’m 53 and my total is 10 with 2 of them being long relationships. Also, I’ve never cheated.

I firmly believe that people (men and women) with dozens of partners form weaker attachments and are less committal. My exH had dozens of women. We had a strong marriage for the first 12 years, then he had an affair with an older married woman for 5 years. After divorce he quickly switched from AP to a new woman (20 years younger than him with 2 kids), although he seemed to be so in love with AP! I wouldn't be surprised if he's sleeping with many women at the same time.

I think it's a character trait: jump into things including new relationships too fast. He also had a short temper. These people don't have patience to build, or for kids

I tend to agree (with some outliers of course) I also think some people are looking for “better” all the time in everything and that drives them as well.

I believe looking for better is more common with women who cheat. It seems they always cheat with someone who is richer or more attractive or maybe hotter in bed.

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Anonymous wrote:Well OP I would avoid men who sleep around. I view them as people not concerned with their health among other things.

That is precisley why I say my bpdy count is 8

-signed, very attractive man, 43, lawyer, body count of 120ish

Which is why women can only protect themselves by asking to take std test before having sex.

Let these make w..res hire prostitutes instead of using OLD for free sex

Anonymous wrote:My count was low (5) until my wife had an affair. She was careless and I found out. She begged me not to divorce her. We went to therapy. Turns out she loves dominant men. I got her good. I hate F’d her multiple times. She is submissive now. But she broke my trust and faith in women. And now my count is up to 23 including her sister!

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Anonymous wrote:Good looking guy here. I’m 53 and my total is 10 with 2 of them being long relationships. Also, I’ve never cheated.

I firmly believe that people (men and women) with dozens of partners form weaker attachments and are less committal. My exH had dozens of women. We had a strong marriage for the first 12 years, then he had an affair with an older married woman for 5 years. After divorce he quickly switched from AP to a new woman (20 years younger than him with 2 kids), although he seemed to be so in love with AP! I wouldn't be surprised if he's sleeping with many women at the same time.

I think it's a character trait: jump into things including new relationships too fast. He also had a short temper. These people don't have patience to build, or for kids

I agree with you especially about the short temper. I think it only contributes to men but not female cheaters. The man I am talking to now has a temper and he had cheated on his ex. I am actually thinking of stopping speaking to him because of it I don't like men with short tempers. He also gets riled up when I bring up his patience and kids because he assumes I'm saying that he won't be a good father if we have any kids. My dad was also a cheater and he had a short fuse as well. Wonder why male cheaters have such short fuses.

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Anonymous wrote:I’m often mistaken for a model. I’m now 41 and my body count is 316. I’m getting married April 2025. I won’t be satisfied until I hit 320.

And the numbers 317-320 are the bride’s mom and sisters ?

Nah! The bride’s mom is kinda hot. But her sisters are a bit flat chested with zero personality.

317 is the maid of honor. Can’t wait to take her honor!

318 is a 3rd cousin

319 might be the wedding planner. She can’t even talk straight whenever I’m around.

320 well we shall see.

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Anonymous wrote:I’m often mistaken for a model. I’m now 41 and my body count is 316. I’m getting married April 2025. I won’t be satisfied until I hit 320.

And the numbers 317-320 are the bride’s mom and sisters ?

Nah! The bride’s mom is kinda hot. But her sisters are a bit flat chested with zero personality.

317 is the maid of honor. Can’t wait to take her honor!

318 is a 3rd cousin

319 might be the wedding planner. She can’t even talk straight whenever I’m around.

320 well we shall see.

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Anonymous wrote:I’m often mistaken for a model. I’m now 41 and my body count is 316. I’m getting married April 2025. I won’t be satisfied until I hit 320.

And the numbers 317-320 are the bride’s mom and sisters ?

Anonymous wrote:I’m often mistaken for a model. I’m now 41 and my body count is 316. I’m getting married April 2025. I won’t be satisfied until I hit 320.

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Anonymous wrote:Good looking guy here. I’m 53 and my total is 10 with 2 of them being long relationships. Also, I’ve never cheated.

I firmly believe that people (men and women) with dozens of partners form weaker attachments and are less committal. My exH had dozens of women. We had a strong marriage for the first 12 years, then he had an affair with an older married woman for 5 years. After divorce he quickly switched from AP to a new woman (20 years younger than him with 2 kids), although he seemed to be so in love with AP! I wouldn't be surprised if he's sleeping with many women at the same time.

I think it's a character trait: jump into things including new relationships too fast. He also had a short temper. These people don't have patience to build, or for kids

I agree with you especially about the short temper. I think it only contributes to men but not female cheaters. The man I am talking to now has a temper and he had cheated on his ex. I am actually thinking of stopping speaking to him because of it I don't like men with short tempers. He also gets riled up when I bring up his patience and kids because he assumes I'm saying that he won't be a good father if we have any kids. My dad was also a cheater and he had a short fuse as well. Wonder why male cheaters have such short fuses.

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Anonymous wrote:Good looking guy here. I’m 53 and my total is 10 with 2 of them being long relationships. Also, I’ve never cheated.

I firmly believe that people (men and women) with dozens of partners form weaker attachments and are less committal. My exH had dozens of women. We had a strong marriage for the first 12 years, then he had an affair with an older married woman for 5 years. After divorce he quickly switched from AP to a new woman (20 years younger than him with 2 kids), although he seemed to be so in love with AP! I wouldn't be surprised if he's sleeping with many women at the same time.

I think it's a character trait: jump into things including new relationships too fast. He also had a short temper. These people don't have patience to build, or for kids

I tend to agree (with some outliers of course) I also think some people are looking for “better” all the time in everything and that drives them as well.