Anonymous wrote:I wonder what A. Schwarzenegger was thinking.

Classic vanity play. I know lots of lifter guys who often dated ugly women because those women would be more "into" them. The guy didn't need a hot woman, he needed a woman to worship him. For some guys, that's the reason. Women often stop trying as the relationship ages, so the man looks elsewhere.

For others, they like the chase and the conquest. For others still, they're just dogs.

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Anonymous wrote:Variety. Every jay jay gets old after a while, no matter how much you attempt to "spice it up".

+1. It’s all about diverse jay jay.

+1. If I men don’t receive a nice assortment of varied va jay jay, they get depressed and unfulfilled. I think it’s biologic.

Then why get married

Does it matter?

It’s their problem. Not ours.

Anonymous wrote:You are all way, way, way over analyzing it. Men just want to f**k. Any man on the planet can tell you within, literally, 0.23 seconds whether he would smash a woman he just met. It's programmed into us.

The very first thing that enters our brain upon meeting any woman is always a decision as to whether you want to bone her or not.

You're not wrong. However, we do have an angel on one shoulder to go along with the devil on the other shoulder. Some of us even listen to the angel.

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Anonymous wrote:Variety. Every jay jay gets old after a while, no matter how much you attempt to "spice it up".

+1. It’s all about diverse jay jay.

+1. If I men don’t receive a nice assortment of varied va jay jay, they get depressed and unfulfilled. I think it’s biologic.

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The very first thing that enters our brain upon meeting any woman is always a decision as to whether you want to bone her or not.

Fact.

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Anonymous wrote:Beyonce, Shakira, Diana, etc...

Beauty guarantees nothing.

Those women are gross and fat. MSM has propped them up.

Incel language.

You are all way, way, way over analyzing it. Men just want to f**k. Any man on the planet can tell you within, literally, 0.23 seconds whether he would smash a woman he just met. It's programmed into us.

The very first thing that enters our brain upon meeting any woman is always a decision as to whether you want to bone her or not.

Men are just hardwired to seek novelty and variety. Cultural and personal factors will determine how disciplined they are about impulses.

When I was in the military I had buddies who were basically pro sports level attractive, tall, and charismatic. They had the hottest girlfriends and sometimes even a wife, but they would risk it all by hooking up with an ugly chick or a hood rat because they love the thrill of new conquests.

Good example is Arnold, he married a Kennedy and had kids/house/everything but still banged out his latina maid and had a kid with her.

Anonymous wrote:Why do it? A guy I'm dating cheating on his ex wife who he said was beautiful with a one time affair. He said he never cheated before. His reasoning was that he didn't feel needed or wanted. Which seems like a sorry excuse.

Why are you dating this man? He'll cheat on you too.

Anonymous wrote:People may consider my spouse better looking and more successful, but my attraction to AP is not just physical, but an emotional one.

You used to have that with your spouse but YOU stopped the minute you allowed yourself to be open to another woman. YOU MADE A BAD SINFUL CHOICE. It’s called limerence- it’s not real unless you CHOOSE to indulge in it.

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Anonymous wrote:Men always affair down. My ex cheated with his admin assistant, who objectively looks like a horse and as the personality of a doormat. However, she thinks that he is the most important and interesting person in the world, and he likes how that makes him feel. Suddenly he’s into horses.

Yup, it's this. Mine cheated while I was pregnant and in the months after having DC with a woman who was older, heavier, uglier, broke, and a drug addict.

It's because the attention and focus were on me and the baby, and he needed someone to make him feel special because I could no longer fawn over him and wasn't impressed with his knowledge of The Godfather when I was trying to learn to breastfeed and care for a baby while juggling work and the house. She thought the sun, moon, and stars of his "knowledge".

Wow sorry you went through this too but interestingly also happe Ed to me during pregnancy and post partum (I'm the pp who said exs ap had braces)

Braces are cute though

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Anonymous wrote:Men always affair down. My ex cheated with his admin assistant, who objectively looks like a horse and as the personality of a doormat. However, she thinks that he is the most important and interesting person in the world, and he likes how that makes him feel. Suddenly he’s into horses.

+1 mine cheated with his younger coworker who my friends say looks like a troll. Seriously, she seems to be missing a chin. But his self esteem is so low and he is so lacking, it makes him feel superior

Ha! Same. I had a few burst out laughing —including my MIL— when I showed them AP’s photo.

Anonymous wrote:Variety. Every jay jay gets old after a while, no matter how much you attempt to "spice it up".

+1. It’s all about diverse jay jay.

And this whole thread shows why, among the professionally secure set of women, women are increasingly deciding to become single parents by choice. They are competent, resourceful woman, generally quite well educated, who have no need for men in this regard. And for whom, increasingly, men are (of course with substantial exceptions) on balance an emotional and financial resource drain, and just don't need to deal with this crap. And now with the election in particular I think women are feeling better off using an affirmatively anonymous sperm donor than tying themselves to another identified individual who may assert rights at unexpected times.

To be transparent, I'm a late middle-aged woman who really hasn't experienced the benefit of having a truly substantially involved father. My three female friends who have chosen to be single parents by choice seem to have it much better figured out then the rest of us.