Anonymous wrote:Women really don’t care that much about looks. Which one seems like a steady provider? Which one makes me laugh? Which one has a calm temperment? Once women are over their ‘bad boy’ phase (if they have one) personality matters much more.
Women absolutely care about looks. We’ve just socialized to believe we shouldn’t.
I always thought I was low drive until I started dating an actual hot guy. We got married, and even though we have all the same problems married couples with kids have, we still have tons of sex (so our fights never last long).