Anonymous
Post 10/21/2024 13:06     Subject: It’s been the worst week of my life. Can I vent?
Remember, there are some things you can control and some things you can not control.

For everything that seems like a problem, remember you can not control Other people's thoughts, behavior and actions. But, you can control how you react to them.

Anonymous
Post 10/14/2024 07:54     Subject: It’s been the worst week of my life. Can I vent?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:OP I am sorry.

It might help to understand the type of life altering news you are dealing with? Divorce? Terminal Illness? Financial? You or someone else?

Not divorce, but it indirectly relates to my marriage. I doubt we will even separate over this, but it’s definitely something shocking and unexpected and which we will have to work through.


If this is the worst week of your life, check your privilege.
suzu
Post 10/14/2024 00:05     Subject: It’s been the worst week of my life. Can I vent?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I have no one I can talk to right now. I’m not feeling like I’m going to harm myself or anything, but I’m incredibly stressed, angry, sad, devastated, and trying to hold it together emotionally.

Exactly a week ago I received life-altering news. The first couple days I was in shock, then I spent the next couple days having anxiety attacks. I was finally feeling a little better yesterday, but then something happened, unrelated but still difficult, and now I’m back at square one.

I’m so, so exhausted. I have an event to attend today that I can’t miss. I have kids for whom I have to put on a happy face. My husband is being supportive but that only helps so much.

My stomach is constantly in a knot. I have a perpetual headache. Walks have been helping, but they also leave me nothing to do but to think too much. I have no interest in escaping into a podcast or music. It’s just background noise to my inner thoughts.

I just want to run away, but I can’t, because everyone needs something from me. And anyway, my problems and thoughts would just follow me. Does anyone have any advice? How do I just take it day by day? I do start with a therapist but not until late next week.


You can actually run away. You can. Walk away from everyone else's needs even if only for a couple of days. Book a stay in a cabin, at the Ritz, at your bff's house. Whatever you need to do to literally leave it all behind for a couple of days of breathing room. Whatever that needs to look like for you.


+100

This is the best advice so far.
Hugs, OP.


yes
this
reaching through the screen & giving you hug & a cuppa
Anonymous
Post 10/13/2024 23:06     Subject: It’s been the worst week of my life. Can I vent?
Does your husband have another child he didn't tell you about? True story, happened to a friend.
Anonymous
Post 10/13/2024 23:01     Subject: It’s been the worst week of my life. Can I vent?
OP, the best vacation I ever took was reading books in a friend’s guest bedroom. I was a complete wreck and she was so gracious. I came back to my family in a better space.
Anonymous
Post 10/13/2024 22:23     Subject: It’s been the worst week of my life. Can I vent?
You need therapy, OP. Not an anon message board.
Anonymous
Post 10/13/2024 19:59     Subject: It’s been the worst week of my life. Can I vent?
Anonymous wrote:Hmmm. I’m sorry you’re going through it, OP. But I don’t really understand vague cries for help like this. I have two friends who do this. They will text that something is awful and they need support but say that they don’t want to give details. So all I can say is, “I’m sorry something is hard right now.” I don’t get asking for support but not telling anyone what’s going on.


I kind of agree w/this since this is anonymous.
Anonymous
Post 10/12/2024 22:03     Subject: It’s been the worst week of my life. Can I vent?
If it’s an affair there are specialty support sites, OP.