Questions for high value man:

1) long term marriage with a comparable value wife. Dead bedroom. Not fix for years. What do you do?

2) does high value man work for money? Or does money work for you?

3) how does high value man spend his leisure time?

4) suppose high value man is in the middle aged dating market. Good not great first date with a possible high value woman. What is your next move?

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Anonymous wrote:Did you work yourself up to be a high value man, or just born on third base?

I think an important component of being a high value man is strength of character, which is cultivated by habituation in the Aristotelian sense. In that regard, it's always going to require work to be a high value man. That being said, I was blessed with the good fortune of being born in the U.S. and having native gifts that have helped me. I wasn't born rich, if that's what you were asking.

What are these? I have no idea and am genuinely curious. This thread is weird.

Mainly a decent level of intelligence and physical traits that are deemed desirable.

Hmm. I've read the thread and would argue the former. You could post a photo of the latter and let us decide.

You can argue what you want, but I have a sufficient enough level of consistent third-party attestation from people in real life, including women I have dated, to comfortably make that claim. I'm not Einstein or a savant, so no need to harp on it.

Yet here you are, posting an AMA on DCUM and harping on it. Certainly, smacks of a special kind of insecurity.

Your name calling is boring and won't make me feel any different about myself. I answered a question that was put forth to me and you call that "harping on it".

Do you get off on trying to tear other people down? Well done.

Name calling? I missed where the PP did, maybe you could point that out for me, please?

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I'm sorry, OP, maybe you're a great person in real life, but your choice of words on this thread are cringe-inducing and devoid of any actual meaning. Native gifts? Aristotelian? That's really too vague. You're giving nothing away. You're just a tease.

What do you wanna know? Do you want a treatise on ethics? It's just shorthand for character mattering for being a HVM, and that is something that must be consistently cultivated. The other stuff has already been addressed.

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Anonymous wrote:High value man what the hell is that lol?

Depends on who you ask. Generally, a man deemed desirable to a decently broad swath of women based on a number of different criteria.

This sounds like an AI calculation not based on humanity.

I actually agree with you. Unfortunately, this also bespeaks the reality of the dating ecosystem these days.

I'm sorry, OP, maybe you're a great person in real life, but your choice of words on this thread are cringe-inducing and devoid of any actual meaning. Native gifts? Aristotelian? That's really too vague. You're giving nothing away. You're just a tease.

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Anonymous wrote:Did you work yourself up to be a high value man, or just born on third base?

I think an important component of being a high value man is strength of character, which is cultivated by habituation in the Aristotelian sense. In that regard, it's always going to require work to be a high value man. That being said, I was blessed with the good fortune of being born in the U.S. and having native gifts that have helped me. I wasn't born rich, if that's what you were asking.

What are these? I have no idea and am genuinely curious. This thread is weird.

Mainly a decent level of intelligence and physical traits that are deemed desirable.

Hmm. I've read the thread and would argue the former. You could post a photo of the latter and let us decide.

You can argue what you want, but I have a sufficient enough level of consistent third-party attestation from people in real life, including women I have dated, to comfortably make that claim. I'm not Einstein or a savant, so no need to harp on it.

Yet here you are, posting an AMA on DCUM and harping on it. Certainly, smacks of a special kind of insecurity.

Your name calling is boring and won't make me feel any different about myself. I answered a question that was put forth to me and you call that "harping on it".

Do you get off on trying to tear other people down? Well done.

I didn't find it boring. I found it amusingly on point. DP

Someone calling someone "insecure" on the internet amuses you? One would think that would get boring after the 1,000th time, but whatever tickles your fancy, I guess...

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Anonymous wrote:High value man what the hell is that lol?

Depends on who you ask. Generally, a man deemed desirable to a decently broad swath of women based on a number of different criteria.

This sounds like an AI calculation not based on humanity.

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Anonymous wrote:Did you work yourself up to be a high value man, or just born on third base?

I think an important component of being a high value man is strength of character, which is cultivated by habituation in the Aristotelian sense. In that regard, it's always going to require work to be a high value man. That being said, I was blessed with the good fortune of being born in the U.S. and having native gifts that have helped me. I wasn't born rich, if that's what you were asking.

What are these? I have no idea and am genuinely curious. This thread is weird.

Mainly a decent level of intelligence and physical traits that are deemed desirable.

Hmm. I've read the thread and would argue the former. You could post a photo of the latter and let us decide.

You can argue what you want, but I have a sufficient enough level of consistent third-party attestation from people in real life, including women I have dated, to comfortably make that claim. I'm not Einstein or a savant, so no need to harp on it.

Yet here you are, posting an AMA on DCUM and harping on it. Certainly, smacks of a special kind of insecurity.

Your name calling is boring and won't make me feel any different about myself. I answered a question that was put forth to me and you call that "harping on it".

Do you get off on trying to tear other people down? Well done.

I didn't find it boring. I found it amusingly on point. DP

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Anonymous wrote:Why are you such a loser?

I was a dork in high school and still harbor resentments.

And guess what, you have joined the ranks of the all the other dorks who get some mediocre job on the Hill and a bit of money and think they finally have a seat at the cool kids' table, but you're still a dork.

I'm not a hill guy and that response was an inane response to an inane question. I do fine socially and was fine in high school. Thnx.

No way. NP

I have all manner of friends. Very eclectic. Been pretty much the same throughout every phase of life.

All manner of friends. Very eclectic. Some from D&D. Some from the annual trip to ComicCon. Some from online gaming. Some from the incel forum.

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Anonymous wrote:People who describe themselves as high value are like people who describe themselves as smart.

I'm sorry, is there a question in there somewhere?

Ha! I love you and haven’t even met you! Please do t tell my husband also a high value guy at least to me. Anyway, thank you for this tread. Informative and also entertaining as I love to see the crazy fembots on here go crazy.

Your husband sounds like a lucky guy.

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Anonymous wrote:High value man is a lame term. Men are not the prize

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Let me guess, you are the prize. Correct?

Absolutely everything men do is in pursuit of women. Otherwise you all would live in a box and blow up mattress. And yes I’m technically married to a 6 figure, 6 inches, 6 feet man. But I’m still the prize. .

Congrats? You should do an AMA.

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Anonymous wrote:Did you work yourself up to be a high value man, or just born on third base?

I think an important component of being a high value man is strength of character, which is cultivated by habituation in the Aristotelian sense. In that regard, it's always going to require work to be a high value man. That being said, I was blessed with the good fortune of being born in the U.S. and having native gifts that have helped me. I wasn't born rich, if that's what you were asking.

What are these? I have no idea and am genuinely curious. This thread is weird.

Mainly a decent level of intelligence and physical traits that are deemed desirable.

Hmm. I've read the thread and would argue the former. You could post a photo of the latter and let us decide.

You can argue what you want, but I have a sufficient enough level of consistent third-party attestation from people in real life, including women I have dated, to comfortably make that claim. I'm not Einstein or a savant, so no need to harp on it.

Yet here you are, posting an AMA on DCUM and harping on it. Certainly, smacks of a special kind of insecurity.

Your name calling is boring and won't make me feel any different about myself. I answered a question that was put forth to me and you call that "harping on it".

Do you get off on trying to tear other people down? Well done.

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Anonymous wrote:Did you work yourself up to be a high value man, or just born on third base?

I think an important component of being a high value man is strength of character, which is cultivated by habituation in the Aristotelian sense. In that regard, it's always going to require work to be a high value man. That being said, I was blessed with the good fortune of being born in the U.S. and having native gifts that have helped me. I wasn't born rich, if that's what you were asking.

What are these? I have no idea and am genuinely curious. This thread is weird.

Mainly a decent level of intelligence and physical traits that are deemed desirable.

Hmm. I've read the thread and would argue the former. You could post a photo of the latter and let us decide.

You can argue what you want, but I have a sufficient enough level of consistent third-party attestation from people in real life, including women I have dated, to comfortably make that claim. I'm not Einstein or a savant, so no need to harp on it.

Yet here you are, posting an AMA on DCUM and harping on it. Certainly, smacks of a special kind of insecurity.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Did you work yourself up to be a high value man, or just born on third base?

I think an important component of being a high value man is strength of character, which is cultivated by habituation in the Aristotelian sense. In that regard, it's always going to require work to be a high value man. That being said, I was blessed with the good fortune of being born in the U.S. and having native gifts that have helped me. I wasn't born rich, if that's what you were asking.

What are these? I have no idea and am genuinely curious. This thread is weird.

Mainly a decent level of intelligence and physical traits that are deemed desirable.

Hmm. I've read the thread and would argue the former. You could post a photo of the latter and let us decide.

You can argue what you want, but I have a sufficient enough level of consistent third-party attestation from people in real life, including women I have dated, to comfortably make that claim. I'm not Einstein or a savant, so no need to harp on it.

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Anonymous wrote:High value man is a lame term. Men are not the prize

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Let me guess, you are the prize. Correct?

Absolutely everything men do is in pursuit of women. Otherwise you all would live in a box and blow up mattress. And yes I’m technically married to a 6 figure, 6 inches, 6 feet man. But I’m still the prize. .