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Anonymous wrote:49F here. IME, men don't care. I've been trimmed, I've been bald. Bush is making a comeback so do what you want. And, trust. Their bodies are just as banged up as yours. That's life. Be confident, be enthusiastic and have fun!

My best advice is to cut them off quickly if the sex doesn't meet your expectations. We are too old to be nice about bad sex!

What is “bad sex” from your respective ? I only met couple men so far I really wanted to have sec with. I’m 20 BMI perfect body woman in my 40s. I’m only attracted to men with similar bodies. But even those who are hit are horrible kissers at makeout session, for example. I have no desire to continue if he’s a bad kisser

PP here. Agree that kissing tells you a lot. Bad sex for me is no stamina and men that aren't interested in going down. Or, they go down and it is terrible. Or, they tell you that they are 'great' in bed and that isn't true. It's all subjective I guess. I'm in pretty good shape and the dude I'm sleeping with now is fat. But, still great in bed. We like what we like. ;-)

But why would anyone go down on the first time together? I love it but won't O from it, and wouldn't allow him before STD testing due to HSV concerns

Many many women need them to go downtown to O. It’s standard foreplay.

IMHO most men suck at this, no pun intended. I usually try to steer them away from sucking energetically at some random spot on my inner thigh.

That's what I'm saying: it's way easier to get her to O with external stimulation with hand, than with sucking.

Wow, not my experience at all!

Put 3-4 fingers slight in and move real fast like a massager. Side to side not in and out.

4!? How big are these holes!? Just a casual fisting as foreplay?

Strange comment on a thread about sex over 50. Assume majority of women gave birth.

Yea, and even those who didn’t give vaginal birth… still go to Obgyn regularly.
Men are clueless!

I’m not a man, have given birth multiple times and 4 still seems like… a lot!

Average V fits 7.5 inch object by circumference. 3 fingers were fitting when I as a virgin. Dildos of 2’6 thick are beginner level and same size as average hand when fingers are in

Giving you the benefit of the doubt that you are actually a woman … fyi, the vast majority of women don’t orgasm from penetration and the type of indirect stimulation of the cl*t that you are describing.

Anyway OP - hopefully at this age we can focus on finding partners that are good in bed rather than external appearances.

I am not describing deep penetration. Fingers slightly in, fast massaging movements side to side to great "trembling" sensation. It feels like amplified oral on woman. What do you think men do there when they go down?? Stretching is highly pleasurable but few people know that. I am a woman not a red pill poster. Too bad the former president gave such a bad name to a common way of brining woman to an O. Also, way safer for first sex and doesn't spread deceases, if hands are washed with antibacterial soap.

The experience is from Eastern and Western Europe. These men did go down as well, but hands were used way more back then and they were damn good in it knowing where and what to press. US men I was dating post divorce are nowhere near that level of skills AND they suck in sucking P.

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I agree this works. Only guy who has done it to me was American. However he is the only one ever… I am so glad you say that there are whole CONTINENTS where men know how to please a woman! Certainly do not expect it here in the US, sad to say.

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Anonymous wrote:49F here. IME, men don't care. I've been trimmed, I've been bald. Bush is making a comeback so do what you want. And, trust. Their bodies are just as banged up as yours. That's life. Be confident, be enthusiastic and have fun!

My best advice is to cut them off quickly if the sex doesn't meet your expectations. We are too old to be nice about bad sex!

What is “bad sex” from your respective ? I only met couple men so far I really wanted to have sec with. I’m 20 BMI perfect body woman in my 40s. I’m only attracted to men with similar bodies. But even those who are hit are horrible kissers at makeout session, for example. I have no desire to continue if he’s a bad kisser

PP here. Agree that kissing tells you a lot. Bad sex for me is no stamina and men that aren't interested in going down. Or, they go down and it is terrible. Or, they tell you that they are 'great' in bed and that isn't true. It's all subjective I guess. I'm in pretty good shape and the dude I'm sleeping with now is fat. But, still great in bed. We like what we like. ;-)

But why would anyone go down on the first time together? I love it but won't O from it, and wouldn't allow him before STD testing due to HSV concerns

Many many women need them to go downtown to O. It’s standard foreplay.

IMHO most men suck at this, no pun intended. I usually try to steer them away from sucking energetically at some random spot on my inner thigh.

That's what I'm saying: it's way easier to get her to O with external stimulation with hand, than with sucking.

Wow, not my experience at all!

Put 3-4 fingers slight in and move real fast like a massager. Side to side not in and out.

4!? How big are these holes!? Just a casual fisting as foreplay?

Strange comment on a thread about sex over 50. Assume majority of women gave birth.

Yea, and even those who didn’t give vaginal birth… still go to Obgyn regularly.
Men are clueless!

I’m not a man, have given birth multiple times and 4 still seems like… a lot!

Average V fits 7.5 inch object by circumference. 3 fingers were fitting when I as a virgin. Dildos of 2’6 thick are beginner level and same size as average hand when fingers are in

Giving you the benefit of the doubt that you are actually a woman … fyi, the vast majority of women don’t orgasm from penetration and the type of indirect stimulation of the cl*t that you are describing.

Anyway OP - hopefully at this age we can focus on finding partners that are good in bed rather than external appearances.

I am not describing deep penetration. Fingers slightly in, fast massaging movements side to side to great "trembling" sensation. It feels like amplified oral on woman. What do you think men do there when they go down?? Stretching is highly pleasurable but few people know that. I am a woman not a red pill poster. Too bad the former president gave such a bad name to a common way of brining woman to an O. Also, way safer for first sex and doesn't spread deceases, if hands are washed with antibacterial soap.

The experience is from Eastern and Western Europe. These men did go down as well, but hands were used way more back then and they were damn good in it knowing where and what to press. US men I was dating post divorce are nowhere near that level of skills AND they suck in sucking P.

DP

I agree this works. Only guy who has done it to me was American. However he is the only one ever… I am so glad you say that there are whole CONTINENTS where men know how to please a woman! Certainly do not expect it here in the US, sad to say.

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Anonymous wrote:49F here. IME, men don't care. I've been trimmed, I've been bald. Bush is making a comeback so do what you want. And, trust. Their bodies are just as banged up as yours. That's life. Be confident, be enthusiastic and have fun!

My best advice is to cut them off quickly if the sex doesn't meet your expectations. We are too old to be nice about bad sex!

What is “bad sex” from your respective ? I only met couple men so far I really wanted to have sec with. I’m 20 BMI perfect body woman in my 40s. I’m only attracted to men with similar bodies. But even those who are hit are horrible kissers at makeout session, for example. I have no desire to continue if he’s a bad kisser

PP here. Agree that kissing tells you a lot. Bad sex for me is no stamina and men that aren't interested in going down. Or, they go down and it is terrible. Or, they tell you that they are 'great' in bed and that isn't true. It's all subjective I guess. I'm in pretty good shape and the dude I'm sleeping with now is fat. But, still great in bed. We like what we like. ;-)

But why would anyone go down on the first time together? I love it but won't O from it, and wouldn't allow him before STD testing due to HSV concerns

Many many women need them to go downtown to O. It’s standard foreplay.

IMHO most men suck at this, no pun intended. I usually try to steer them away from sucking energetically at some random spot on my inner thigh.

That's what I'm saying: it's way easier to get her to O with external stimulation with hand, than with sucking.

Wow, not my experience at all!

Put 3-4 fingers slight in and move real fast like a massager. Side to side not in and out.

4!? How big are these holes!? Just a casual fisting as foreplay?

Strange comment on a thread about sex over 50. Assume majority of women gave birth.

Yea, and even those who didn’t give vaginal birth… still go to Obgyn regularly.
Men are clueless!

I’m not a man, have given birth multiple times and 4 still seems like… a lot!

Average V fits 7.5 inch object by circumference. 3 fingers were fitting when I as a virgin. Dildos of 2’6 thick are beginner level and same size as average hand when fingers are in

Giving you the benefit of the doubt that you are actually a woman … fyi, the vast majority of women don’t orgasm from penetration and the type of indirect stimulation of the cl*t that you are describing.

Anyway OP - hopefully at this age we can focus on finding partners that are good in bed rather than external appearances.

I am not describing deep penetration. Fingers slightly in, fast massaging movements side to side to great "trembling" sensation. It feels like amplified oral on woman. What do you think men do there when they go down?? Stretching is highly pleasurable but few people know that. I am a woman not a red pill poster. Too bad the former president gave such a bad name to a common way of brining woman to an O. Also, way safer for first sex and doesn't spread deceases, if hands are washed with antibacterial soap.

The experience is from Eastern and Western Europe. These men did go down as well, but hands were used way more back then and they were damn good in it knowing where and what to press. US men I was dating post divorce are nowhere near that level of skills AND they suck in sucking P.

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Anonymous wrote:49F here. IME, men don't care. I've been trimmed, I've been bald. Bush is making a comeback so do what you want. And, trust. Their bodies are just as banged up as yours. That's life. Be confident, be enthusiastic and have fun!

My best advice is to cut them off quickly if the sex doesn't meet your expectations. We are too old to be nice about bad sex!

What is “bad sex” from your respective ? I only met couple men so far I really wanted to have sec with. I’m 20 BMI perfect body woman in my 40s. I’m only attracted to men with similar bodies. But even those who are hit are horrible kissers at makeout session, for example. I have no desire to continue if he’s a bad kisser

PP here. Agree that kissing tells you a lot. Bad sex for me is no stamina and men that aren't interested in going down. Or, they go down and it is terrible. Or, they tell you that they are 'great' in bed and that isn't true. It's all subjective I guess. I'm in pretty good shape and the dude I'm sleeping with now is fat. But, still great in bed. We like what we like. ;-)

But why would anyone go down on the first time together? I love it but won't O from it, and wouldn't allow him before STD testing due to HSV concerns

Many many women need them to go downtown to O. It’s standard foreplay.

IMHO most men suck at this, no pun intended. I usually try to steer them away from sucking energetically at some random spot on my inner thigh.

That's what I'm saying: it's way easier to get her to O with external stimulation with hand, than with sucking.

Wow, not my experience at all!

Put 3-4 fingers slight in and move real fast like a massager. Side to side not in and out.

4!? How big are these holes!? Just a casual fisting as foreplay?

Strange comment on a thread about sex over 50. Assume majority of women gave birth.

Yea, and even those who didn’t give vaginal birth… still go to Obgyn regularly.
Men are clueless!

I’m not a man, have given birth multiple times and 4 still seems like… a lot!

can we talk about the rapid side-to-side shaking of the 4 digits as well? omg.

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Anonymous wrote:49F here. IME, men don't care. I've been trimmed, I've been bald. Bush is making a comeback so do what you want. And, trust. Their bodies are just as banged up as yours. That's life. Be confident, be enthusiastic and have fun!

My best advice is to cut them off quickly if the sex doesn't meet your expectations. We are too old to be nice about bad sex!

What is “bad sex” from your respective ? I only met couple men so far I really wanted to have sec with. I’m 20 BMI perfect body woman in my 40s. I’m only attracted to men with similar bodies. But even those who are hit are horrible kissers at makeout session, for example. I have no desire to continue if he’s a bad kisser

PP here. Agree that kissing tells you a lot. Bad sex for me is no stamina and men that aren't interested in going down. Or, they go down and it is terrible. Or, they tell you that they are 'great' in bed and that isn't true. It's all subjective I guess. I'm in pretty good shape and the dude I'm sleeping with now is fat. But, still great in bed. We like what we like. ;-)

But why would anyone go down on the first time together? I love it but won't O from it, and wouldn't allow him before STD testing due to HSV concerns

Many many women need them to go downtown to O. It’s standard foreplay.

IMHO most men suck at this, no pun intended. I usually try to steer them away from sucking energetically at some random spot on my inner thigh.

That's what I'm saying: it's way easier to get her to O with external stimulation with hand, than with sucking.

Wow, not my experience at all!

Put 3-4 fingers slight in and move real fast like a massager. Side to side not in and out.

4!? How big are these holes!? Just a casual fisting as foreplay?

Strange comment on a thread about sex over 50. Assume majority of women gave birth.

Yea, and even those who didn’t give vaginal birth… still go to Obgyn regularly.
Men are clueless!

I’m not a man, have given birth multiple times and 4 still seems like… a lot!

Average V fits 7.5 inch object by circumference. 3 fingers were fitting when I as a virgin. Dildos of 2’6 thick are beginner level and same size as average hand when fingers are in

Giving you the benefit of the doubt that you are actually a woman … fyi, the vast majority of women don’t orgasm from penetration and the type of indirect stimulation of the cl*t that you are describing.

Anyway OP - hopefully at this age we can focus on finding partners that are good in bed rather than external appearances.

I am not describing deep penetration. Fingers slightly in, fast massaging movements side to side to great "trembling" sensation. It feels like amplified oral on woman. What do you think men do there when they go down?? Stretching is highly pleasurable but few people know that. I am a woman not a red pill poster. Too bad the former president gave such a bad name to a common way of brining woman to an O. Also, way safer for first sex and doesn't spread deceases, if hands are washed with antibacterial soap.

The experience is from Eastern and Western Europe. These men did go down as well, but hands were used way more back then and they were damn good in it knowing where and what to press. US men I was dating post divorce are nowhere near that level of skills AND they suck in sucking P.

I’m willing to bet you are not a woman because what you describe is far from the kind of stimulation most women need. If you are a woman, realize that your experience is not universal. Not to be blunt but most women need direct contact on the cl*t. “Stretching” the vaginal entrance may feel good but it ain’t gonna be enough for most of us.

It direct contact with clit - I said massaging, can you read? Men who do it right use fingers multi-directionally like playing piano, trying different point and observing the reaction. It works much faster than using your mouth (tongue doesn't press as hard as it's soft)

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Anonymous wrote:49F here. IME, men don't care. I've been trimmed, I've been bald. Bush is making a comeback so do what you want. And, trust. Their bodies are just as banged up as yours. That's life. Be confident, be enthusiastic and have fun!

My best advice is to cut them off quickly if the sex doesn't meet your expectations. We are too old to be nice about bad sex!

What is “bad sex” from your respective ? I only met couple men so far I really wanted to have sec with. I’m 20 BMI perfect body woman in my 40s. I’m only attracted to men with similar bodies. But even those who are hit are horrible kissers at makeout session, for example. I have no desire to continue if he’s a bad kisser

PP here. Agree that kissing tells you a lot. Bad sex for me is no stamina and men that aren't interested in going down. Or, they go down and it is terrible. Or, they tell you that they are 'great' in bed and that isn't true. It's all subjective I guess. I'm in pretty good shape and the dude I'm sleeping with now is fat. But, still great in bed. We like what we like. ;-)

But why would anyone go down on the first time together? I love it but won't O from it, and wouldn't allow him before STD testing due to HSV concerns

Many many women need them to go downtown to O. It’s standard foreplay.

IMHO most men suck at this, no pun intended. I usually try to steer them away from sucking energetically at some random spot on my inner thigh.

That's what I'm saying: it's way easier to get her to O with external stimulation with hand, than with sucking.

Wow, not my experience at all!

Put 3-4 fingers slight in and move real fast like a massager. Side to side not in and out.

4!? How big are these holes!? Just a casual fisting as foreplay?

Strange comment on a thread about sex over 50. Assume majority of women gave birth.

Yea, and even those who didn’t give vaginal birth… still go to Obgyn regularly.
Men are clueless!

I’m not a man, have given birth multiple times and 4 still seems like… a lot!

Average V fits 7.5 inch object by circumference. 3 fingers were fitting when I as a virgin. Dildos of 2’6 thick are beginner level and same size as average hand when fingers are in

Giving you the benefit of the doubt that you are actually a woman … fyi, the vast majority of women don’t orgasm from penetration and the type of indirect stimulation of the cl*t that you are describing.

Anyway OP - hopefully at this age we can focus on finding partners that are good in bed rather than external appearances.

I am not describing deep penetration. Fingers slightly in, fast massaging movements side to side to great "trembling" sensation. It feels like amplified oral on woman. What do you think men do there when they go down?? Stretching is highly pleasurable but few people know that. I am a woman not a red pill poster. Too bad the former president gave such a bad name to a common way of brining woman to an O. Also, way safer for first sex and doesn't spread deceases, if hands are washed with antibacterial soap.

The experience is from Eastern and Western Europe. These men did go down as well, but hands were used way more back then and they were damn good in it knowing where and what to press. US men I was dating post divorce are nowhere near that level of skills AND they suck in sucking P.

I’m willing to bet you are not a woman because what you describe is far from the kind of stimulation most women need. If you are a woman, realize that your experience is not universal. Not to be blunt but most women need direct contact on the cl*t. “Stretching” the vaginal entrance may feel good but it ain’t gonna be enough for most of us.

It direct contact with clit - I said massaging, can you read? Men who do it right use fingers multi-directionally like playing piano, trying different point and observing the reaction. It works much faster than using your mouth (tongue doesn't press as hard as it's soft)

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Anonymous wrote:49F here. IME, men don't care. I've been trimmed, I've been bald. Bush is making a comeback so do what you want. And, trust. Their bodies are just as banged up as yours. That's life. Be confident, be enthusiastic and have fun!

My best advice is to cut them off quickly if the sex doesn't meet your expectations. We are too old to be nice about bad sex!

What is “bad sex” from your respective ? I only met couple men so far I really wanted to have sec with. I’m 20 BMI perfect body woman in my 40s. I’m only attracted to men with similar bodies. But even those who are hit are horrible kissers at makeout session, for example. I have no desire to continue if he’s a bad kisser

PP here. Agree that kissing tells you a lot. Bad sex for me is no stamina and men that aren't interested in going down. Or, they go down and it is terrible. Or, they tell you that they are 'great' in bed and that isn't true. It's all subjective I guess. I'm in pretty good shape and the dude I'm sleeping with now is fat. But, still great in bed. We like what we like. ;-)

But why would anyone go down on the first time together? I love it but won't O from it, and wouldn't allow him before STD testing due to HSV concerns

Many many women need them to go downtown to O. It’s standard foreplay.

IMHO most men suck at this, no pun intended. I usually try to steer them away from sucking energetically at some random spot on my inner thigh.

That's what I'm saying: it's way easier to get her to O with external stimulation with hand, than with sucking.

Wow, not my experience at all!

Put 3-4 fingers slight in and move real fast like a massager. Side to side not in and out.

4!? How big are these holes!? Just a casual fisting as foreplay?

Strange comment on a thread about sex over 50. Assume majority of women gave birth.

Yea, and even those who didn’t give vaginal birth… still go to Obgyn regularly.
Men are clueless!

I’m not a man, have given birth multiple times and 4 still seems like… a lot!

Average V fits 7.5 inch object by circumference. 3 fingers were fitting when I as a virgin. Dildos of 2’6 thick are beginner level and same size as average hand when fingers are in

Giving you the benefit of the doubt that you are actually a woman … fyi, the vast majority of women don’t orgasm from penetration and the type of indirect stimulation of the cl*t that you are describing.

Anyway OP - hopefully at this age we can focus on finding partners that are good in bed rather than external appearances.

I am not describing deep penetration. Fingers slightly in, fast massaging movements side to side to great "trembling" sensation. It feels like amplified oral on woman. What do you think men do there when they go down?? Stretching is highly pleasurable but few people know that. I am a woman not a red pill poster. Too bad the former president gave such a bad name to a common way of brining woman to an O. Also, way safer for first sex and doesn't spread deceases, if hands are washed with antibacterial soap.

The experience is from Eastern and Western Europe. These men did go down as well, but hands were used way more back then and they were damn good in it knowing where and what to press. US men I was dating post divorce are nowhere near that level of skills AND they suck in sucking P.

I’m willing to bet you are not a woman because what you describe is far from the kind of stimulation most women need. If you are a woman, realize that your experience is not universal. Not to be blunt but most women need direct contact on the cl*t. “Stretching” the vaginal entrance may feel good but it ain’t gonna be enough for most of us.

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Anonymous wrote:49F here. IME, men don't care. I've been trimmed, I've been bald. Bush is making a comeback so do what you want. And, trust. Their bodies are just as banged up as yours. That's life. Be confident, be enthusiastic and have fun!

My best advice is to cut them off quickly if the sex doesn't meet your expectations. We are too old to be nice about bad sex!

What is “bad sex” from your respective ? I only met couple men so far I really wanted to have sec with. I’m 20 BMI perfect body woman in my 40s. I’m only attracted to men with similar bodies. But even those who are hit are horrible kissers at makeout session, for example. I have no desire to continue if he’s a bad kisser

PP here. Agree that kissing tells you a lot. Bad sex for me is no stamina and men that aren't interested in going down. Or, they go down and it is terrible. Or, they tell you that they are 'great' in bed and that isn't true. It's all subjective I guess. I'm in pretty good shape and the dude I'm sleeping with now is fat. But, still great in bed. We like what we like. ;-)

But why would anyone go down on the first time together? I love it but won't O from it, and wouldn't allow him before STD testing due to HSV concerns

Many many women need them to go downtown to O. It’s standard foreplay.

IMHO most men suck at this, no pun intended. I usually try to steer them away from sucking energetically at some random spot on my inner thigh.

That's what I'm saying: it's way easier to get her to O with external stimulation with hand, than with sucking.

Wow, not my experience at all!

Put 3-4 fingers slight in and move real fast like a massager. Side to side not in and out.

4!? How big are these holes!? Just a casual fisting as foreplay?

Strange comment on a thread about sex over 50. Assume majority of women gave birth.

Yea, and even those who didn’t give vaginal birth… still go to Obgyn regularly.
Men are clueless!

I’m not a man, have given birth multiple times and 4 still seems like… a lot!

Average V fits 7.5 inch object by circumference. 3 fingers were fitting when I as a virgin. Dildos of 2’6 thick are beginner level and same size as average hand when fingers are in

Giving you the benefit of the doubt that you are actually a woman … fyi, the vast majority of women don’t orgasm from penetration and the type of indirect stimulation of the cl*t that you are describing.

Anyway OP - hopefully at this age we can focus on finding partners that are good in bed rather than external appearances.

I am not describing deep penetration. Fingers slightly in, fast massaging movements side to side to great "trembling" sensation. It feels like amplified oral on woman. What do you think men do there when they go down?? Stretching is highly pleasurable but few people know that. I am a woman not a red pill poster. Too bad the former president gave such a bad name to a common way of brining woman to an O. Also, way safer for first sex and doesn't spread deceases, if hands are washed with antibacterial soap.

The experience is from Eastern and Western Europe. These men did go down as well, but hands were used way more back then and they were damn good in it knowing where and what to press. US men I was dating post divorce are nowhere near that level of skills AND they suck in sucking P.

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Anonymous wrote:49F here. IME, men don't care. I've been trimmed, I've been bald. Bush is making a comeback so do what you want. And, trust. Their bodies are just as banged up as yours. That's life. Be confident, be enthusiastic and have fun!

My best advice is to cut them off quickly if the sex doesn't meet your expectations. We are too old to be nice about bad sex!

What is “bad sex” from your respective ? I only met couple men so far I really wanted to have sec with. I’m 20 BMI perfect body woman in my 40s. I’m only attracted to men with similar bodies. But even those who are hit are horrible kissers at makeout session, for example. I have no desire to continue if he’s a bad kisser

PP here. Agree that kissing tells you a lot. Bad sex for me is no stamina and men that aren't interested in going down. Or, they go down and it is terrible. Or, they tell you that they are 'great' in bed and that isn't true. It's all subjective I guess. I'm in pretty good shape and the dude I'm sleeping with now is fat. But, still great in bed. We like what we like. ;-)

But why would anyone go down on the first time together? I love it but won't O from it, and wouldn't allow him before STD testing due to HSV concerns

Many many women need them to go downtown to O. It’s standard foreplay.

IMHO most men suck at this, no pun intended. I usually try to steer them away from sucking energetically at some random spot on my inner thigh.

That's what I'm saying: it's way easier to get her to O with external stimulation with hand, than with sucking.

Wow, not my experience at all!

Put 3-4 fingers slight in and move real fast like a massager. Side to side not in and out.

4!? How big are these holes!? Just a casual fisting as foreplay?

Strange comment on a thread about sex over 50. Assume majority of women gave birth.

Yea, and even those who didn’t give vaginal birth… still go to Obgyn regularly.
Men are clueless!

I’m not a man, have given birth multiple times and 4 still seems like… a lot!

Average V fits 7.5 inch object by circumference. 3 fingers were fitting when I as a virgin. Dildos of 2’6 thick are beginner level and same size as average hand when fingers are in

Giving you the benefit of the doubt that you are actually a woman … fyi, the vast majority of women don’t orgasm from penetration and the type of indirect stimulation of the cl*t that you are describing.

Anyway OP - hopefully at this age we can focus on finding partners that are good in bed rather than external appearances.

I am not describing deep penetration. Fingers slightly in, fast massaging movements side to side to great "trembling" sensation. It feels like amplified oral on woman. What do you think men do there when they go down?? Stretching is highly pleasurable but few people know that. I am a woman not a red pill poster. Too bad the former president gave such a bad name to a common way of brining woman to an O. Also, way safer for first sex and doesn't spread deceases, if hands are washed with antibacterial soap.

The experience is from Eastern and Western Europe. These men did go down as well, but hands were used way more back then and they were damn good in it knowing where and what to press. US men I was dating post divorce are nowhere near that level of skills AND they suck in sucking P.

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Anonymous wrote:49F here. IME, men don't care. I've been trimmed, I've been bald. Bush is making a comeback so do what you want. And, trust. Their bodies are just as banged up as yours. That's life. Be confident, be enthusiastic and have fun!

My best advice is to cut them off quickly if the sex doesn't meet your expectations. We are too old to be nice about bad sex!

What is “bad sex” from your respective ? I only met couple men so far I really wanted to have sec with. I’m 20 BMI perfect body woman in my 40s. I’m only attracted to men with similar bodies. But even those who are hit are horrible kissers at makeout session, for example. I have no desire to continue if he’s a bad kisser

PP here. Agree that kissing tells you a lot. Bad sex for me is no stamina and men that aren't interested in going down. Or, they go down and it is terrible. Or, they tell you that they are 'great' in bed and that isn't true. It's all subjective I guess. I'm in pretty good shape and the dude I'm sleeping with now is fat. But, still great in bed. We like what we like. ;-)

But why would anyone go down on the first time together? I love it but won't O from it, and wouldn't allow him before STD testing due to HSV concerns

Many many women need them to go downtown to O. It’s standard foreplay.

IMHO most men suck at this, no pun intended. I usually try to steer them away from sucking energetically at some random spot on my inner thigh.

That's what I'm saying: it's way easier to get her to O with external stimulation with hand, than with sucking.

Wow, not my experience at all!

Put 3-4 fingers slight in and move real fast like a massager. Side to side not in and out.

4!? How big are these holes!? Just a casual fisting as foreplay?

Strange comment on a thread about sex over 50. Assume majority of women gave birth.

Yea, and even those who didn’t give vaginal birth… still go to Obgyn regularly.
Men are clueless!

I’m not a man, have given birth multiple times and 4 still seems like… a lot!

Average V fits 7.5 inch object by circumference. 3 fingers were fitting when I as a virgin. Dildos of 2’6 thick are beginner level and same size as average hand when fingers are in

Giving you the benefit of the doubt that you are actually a woman … fyi, the vast majority of women don’t orgasm from penetration and the type of indirect stimulation of the cl*t that you are describing.

Anyway OP - hopefully at this age we can focus on finding partners that are good in bed rather than external appearances.

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Anonymous wrote:49F here. IME, men don't care. I've been trimmed, I've been bald. Bush is making a comeback so do what you want. And, trust. Their bodies are just as banged up as yours. That's life. Be confident, be enthusiastic and have fun!

My best advice is to cut them off quickly if the sex doesn't meet your expectations. We are too old to be nice about bad sex!

What is “bad sex” from your respective ? I only met couple men so far I really wanted to have sec with. I’m 20 BMI perfect body woman in my 40s. I’m only attracted to men with similar bodies. But even those who are hit are horrible kissers at makeout session, for example. I have no desire to continue if he’s a bad kisser

PP here. Agree that kissing tells you a lot. Bad sex for me is no stamina and men that aren't interested in going down. Or, they go down and it is terrible. Or, they tell you that they are 'great' in bed and that isn't true. It's all subjective I guess. I'm in pretty good shape and the dude I'm sleeping with now is fat. But, still great in bed. We like what we like. ;-)

But why would anyone go down on the first time together? I love it but won't O from it, and wouldn't allow him before STD testing due to HSV concerns

Many many women need them to go downtown to O. It’s standard foreplay.

IMHO most men suck at this, no pun intended. I usually try to steer them away from sucking energetically at some random spot on my inner thigh.

That's what I'm saying: it's way easier to get her to O with external stimulation with hand, than with sucking.

Wow, not my experience at all!

Put 3-4 fingers slight in and move real fast like a massager. Side to side not in and out.

4!? How big are these holes!? Just a casual fisting as foreplay?

It definitely fits 3-4 fingers and even a whole hand. How do you think women give birth? Stretching it is!
It’s highly pleasurable G spot stimulation - way more than going down. Foreign men started forplay with fingering 25 years ago with I was a young woman with no experience. Nobody even knew that oral on women existed and I always had several Os that way, before even getting to the act (which is A spot stimulation).
American men are not good in bed and not wanting to learn.

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Anonymous wrote:49F here. IME, men don't care. I've been trimmed, I've been bald. Bush is making a comeback so do what you want. And, trust. Their bodies are just as banged up as yours. That's life. Be confident, be enthusiastic and have fun!

My best advice is to cut them off quickly if the sex doesn't meet your expectations. We are too old to be nice about bad sex!

What is “bad sex” from your respective ? I only met couple men so far I really wanted to have sec with. I’m 20 BMI perfect body woman in my 40s. I’m only attracted to men with similar bodies. But even those who are hit are horrible kissers at makeout session, for example. I have no desire to continue if he’s a bad kisser

PP here. Agree that kissing tells you a lot. Bad sex for me is no stamina and men that aren't interested in going down. Or, they go down and it is terrible. Or, they tell you that they are 'great' in bed and that isn't true. It's all subjective I guess. I'm in pretty good shape and the dude I'm sleeping with now is fat. But, still great in bed. We like what we like. ;-)

But why would anyone go down on the first time together? I love it but won't O from it, and wouldn't allow him before STD testing due to HSV concerns

Many many women need them to go downtown to O. It’s standard foreplay.

IMHO most men suck at this, no pun intended. I usually try to steer them away from sucking energetically at some random spot on my inner thigh.

That's what I'm saying: it's way easier to get her to O with external stimulation with hand, than with sucking.

Wow, not my experience at all!

Put 3-4 fingers slight in and move real fast like a massager. Side to side not in and out.

4!? How big are these holes!? Just a casual fisting as foreplay?

Strange comment on a thread about sex over 50. Assume majority of women gave birth.

Yea, and even those who didn’t give vaginal birth… still go to Obgyn regularly.
Men are clueless!

I’m not a man, have given birth multiple times and 4 still seems like… a lot!

Average V fits 7.5 inch object by circumference. 3 fingers were fitting when I as a virgin. Dildos of 2’6 thick are beginner level and same size as average hand when fingers are in

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Anonymous wrote:49F here. IME, men don't care. I've been trimmed, I've been bald. Bush is making a comeback so do what you want. And, trust. Their bodies are just as banged up as yours. That's life. Be confident, be enthusiastic and have fun!

My best advice is to cut them off quickly if the sex doesn't meet your expectations. We are too old to be nice about bad sex!

What is “bad sex” from your respective ? I only met couple men so far I really wanted to have sec with. I’m 20 BMI perfect body woman in my 40s. I’m only attracted to men with similar bodies. But even those who are hit are horrible kissers at makeout session, for example. I have no desire to continue if he’s a bad kisser

PP here. Agree that kissing tells you a lot. Bad sex for me is no stamina and men that aren't interested in going down. Or, they go down and it is terrible. Or, they tell you that they are 'great' in bed and that isn't true. It's all subjective I guess. I'm in pretty good shape and the dude I'm sleeping with now is fat. But, still great in bed. We like what we like. ;-)

But why would anyone go down on the first time together? I love it but won't O from it, and wouldn't allow him before STD testing due to HSV concerns

Many many women need them to go downtown to O. It’s standard foreplay.

IMHO most men suck at this, no pun intended. I usually try to steer them away from sucking energetically at some random spot on my inner thigh.

That's what I'm saying: it's way easier to get her to O with external stimulation with hand, than with sucking.

Wow, not my experience at all!

Put 3-4 fingers slight in and move real fast like a massager. Side to side not in and out.

4!? How big are these holes!? Just a casual fisting as foreplay?

Strange comment on a thread about sex over 50. Assume majority of women gave birth.

Yea, and even those who didn’t give vaginal birth… still go to Obgyn regularly.
Men are clueless!

I’m not a man, have given birth multiple times and 4 still seems like… a lot!

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Anonymous wrote:49F here. IME, men don't care. I've been trimmed, I've been bald. Bush is making a comeback so do what you want. And, trust. Their bodies are just as banged up as yours. That's life. Be confident, be enthusiastic and have fun!

My best advice is to cut them off quickly if the sex doesn't meet your expectations. We are too old to be nice about bad sex!

What is “bad sex” from your respective ? I only met couple men so far I really wanted to have sec with. I’m 20 BMI perfect body woman in my 40s. I’m only attracted to men with similar bodies. But even those who are hit are horrible kissers at makeout session, for example. I have no desire to continue if he’s a bad kisser

PP here. Agree that kissing tells you a lot. Bad sex for me is no stamina and men that aren't interested in going down. Or, they go down and it is terrible. Or, they tell you that they are 'great' in bed and that isn't true. It's all subjective I guess. I'm in pretty good shape and the dude I'm sleeping with now is fat. But, still great in bed. We like what we like. ;-)

But why would anyone go down on the first time together? I love it but won't O from it, and wouldn't allow him before STD testing due to HSV concerns

Many many women need them to go downtown to O. It’s standard foreplay.

IMHO most men suck at this, no pun intended. I usually try to steer them away from sucking energetically at some random spot on my inner thigh.

That's what I'm saying: it's way easier to get her to O with external stimulation with hand, than with sucking.

Wow, not my experience at all!

Put 3-4 fingers slight in and move real fast like a massager. Side to side not in and out.