Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:3 times in the past and a current one with a coworker. Never experienced it with my husband.

for how long? Do you think other coworkers can tell ?

It’s been over a year, I don’t know if coworkers can tell. They do know we are very good friends.

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I always had organic chemistry

I thought I had experienced it until I met my now husband but it took two years for it to be realized as he was dating someone else. My feelings were really intense and when he became available I asked him out, a first for me. My libido had always been pretty tame but after one night with him that changed. We are in our late 50s and it is still intense.

I can easily tell you the last time. I met this guy in a professional situation where I felt a spark. I didn't see him again for maybe 3 or 4 years. We both took new jobs that are the same but at separate organizations and we see each other professionally a few times a year. I feel the chemistry and seriously doubt it's one-sided. I just stay away from him as much as possible. I keep waiting for it to fade but it doesn't.

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