Anonymous wrote:We hate it and usually refuse. DH never will do it. Germs. Plus it could be a distraction for pickpockets, scams.
Anonymous wrote:I like doing it and I try really hard to make a nice composition or two. I try to do a full body and a closer up. But really the kids are much better than I am now at the phone camera settings.
I helped an aspiring influencer friend take vacation photos once and it reminded me how hard it is to take a good photo.
Anonymous wrote:Reminds me of the free camera scam in the Chevy Chase movie European Vacation.

Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:What about germs?
Normal people don't worry/think about this.
You're the reason COVID is endemic.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:We hate it and usually refuse. DH never will do it. Germs. Plus it could be a distraction for pickpockets, scams.
I just fell on my knees and thanked Dog that I do not live in your awful paranoid world.
What a miserable existence.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I love it, I offer if they seem to have 1 person out of the picture.
Same and then often they offer back. Nice to be a little friendly. We love getting a family pic of all of us and doing the same for others.
Anonymous wrote:Of course I don’t mind!
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:poster who was targeted for the tea house scam here again
More specifics about my situation:
I'm American but my brother was living in Shanghai for a year for his job, and I was there to visit him. He still had to work during the day so I was on my own, touring the city. This was my first day there and I was still really exhausted from travel.
I had just left the Shanghai museum when two young people (college age) approached me. It was a girl and a boy and the girl did all the talking. They asked me to take their photo and after I did the girl started telling me how the boy was her friend and they were both students. That he was visiting her from a different part of China and they had heard about a "tea festival" and they were on their way there. They invited me to go with them and "experience culture."
I actually LOVE meeting people from different countries and cultures and honestly if it had been a different day I might have fallen for it and gone along. They seemed very sweet and friendly. But I was just so tired and wanted to go back to my brother's apartment to rest so I declined. It wasn't until much later that I was reading online and realized I dodged a bullet.
What do you think they would have done to you?
Anonymous wrote:I love it, I offer if they seem to have 1 person out of the picture.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:poster who was targeted for the tea house scam here again
More specifics about my situation:
I'm American but my brother was living in Shanghai for a year for his job, and I was there to visit him. He still had to work during the day so I was on my own, touring the city. This was my first day there and I was still really exhausted from travel.
I had just left the Shanghai museum when two young people (college age) approached me. It was a girl and a boy and the girl did all the talking. They asked me to take their photo and after I did the girl started telling me how the boy was her friend and they were both students. That he was visiting her from a different part of China and they had heard about a "tea festival" and they were on their way there. They invited me to go with them and "experience culture."
I actually LOVE meeting people from different countries and cultures and honestly if it had been a different day I might have fallen for it and gone along. They seemed very sweet and friendly. But I was just so tired and wanted to go back to my brother's apartment to rest so I declined. It wasn't until much later that I was reading online and realized I dodged a bullet.
I don't understand how taking a picture for someone makes you susceptible to being scammed. Don't go anywhere with strangers -- but taking a picture doesn't obligate you to do anything else.
Anonymous wrote:poster who was targeted for the tea house scam here again
More specifics about my situation:
I'm American but my brother was living in Shanghai for a year for his job, and I was there to visit him. He still had to work during the day so I was on my own, touring the city. This was my first day there and I was still really exhausted from travel.
I had just left the Shanghai museum when two young people (college age) approached me. It was a girl and a boy and the girl did all the talking. They asked me to take their photo and after I did the girl started telling me how the boy was her friend and they were both students. That he was visiting her from a different part of China and they had heard about a "tea festival" and they were on their way there. They invited me to go with them and "experience culture."
I actually LOVE meeting people from different countries and cultures and honestly if it had been a different day I might have fallen for it and gone along. They seemed very sweet and friendly. But I was just so tired and wanted to go back to my brother's apartment to rest so I declined. It wasn't until much later that I was reading online and realized I dodged a bullet.
Anonymous wrote:I love it, I offer if they seem to have 1 person out of the picture.