Anonymous wrote:Ffs, you do not have “a common bond.”

Mind your business and leave this poor person alone in their time of grief. They don’t need your selfishness right now. Or ever.

This. OP don’t make his widow’s grief all about you and your imaginary love affair that correctly ended 30 years ago except in your immature mind. “Thank her for loving him?” Are you crazy. I would hate anyone with the nerve to say that to me about my freshly deceased partner.

Anonymous wrote:Ffs, you do not have “a common bond.”

Mind your business and leave this poor person alone in their time of grief. They don’t need your selfishness right now. Or ever.

This

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:So bizarre that anyone would consider a “common bond” bc they banged the same dude.

My college/post college gf and I livded together for 3.5 years, moving three times, twice out of state. But to you it was just sex. LOL.

Again, please describe the common bond. “The one that got away”? Please.

DP, but I would presume the common bond shared amongst two people that cohabitated for many years and moved together multiple times across state lines..... would be this thing called love. But you do you.