Your sister has no desire to spend any time with your kids during her visits? That’s rude and hurtful. They won’t be little forever. She can go stay in a hotel if she has no desire to have even one meal with you guys.

Anonymous wrote:I'd be annoyed, too. I would just start saying, "that won't work for us," every time she announces her visits.

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Anonymous wrote:Your sister is rude. She can stay in a hotel next time.

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She sure can!

It appears she is treating these visits like she just needs a place to stay - since she doesn’t seem interested in socializing w/you or your family.

I would decline all her future requests from now on.