Anonymous
Post 07/09/2024 13:41     Subject: Revealing clothing
Anonymous wrote:If you dress in revealing clothing in public or don't does your partner encourage it? Why do they encourage it?


Pimp wannabe?
Anonymous
Post 07/09/2024 13:40     Subject: Revealing clothing
Anonymous wrote:If you dress in revealing clothing in public or don't does your partner encourage it? Why do they encourage it?


Mental health issues.
Anonymous
Post 07/09/2024 13:40     Subject: Revealing clothing
No, I don’t and no he doesn’t. We care more about class and decorum than we do about getting our jollies from other men salivating over me.
Anonymous
Post 07/09/2024 13:39     Subject: Revealing clothing
Anonymous wrote:Do you honestly believe that if a man wants his wife to wear revealing clothes in public, its any different than another man wanting his wife to wear conservative clothes in public? Imho its equally strange.


Conservative approach is usually rooted in religious or cultural values, opposite is just a weird ask.
Anonymous
Post 07/09/2024 13:37     Subject: Revealing clothing
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Do you honestly believe that if a man wants his wife to wear revealing clothes in public, its any different than another man wanting his wife to wear conservative clothes in public? Imho its equally strange.


Revealing could be a hot wife kink


Whatever but therapy is warranted.
Anonymous
Post 07/09/2024 13:36     Subject: Revealing clothing
Anonymous wrote:I like to see my wife look hot. That said, I don’t think shes ever had anything I would consider revealing.

She looks great in a tank top and jeans - totally fine with that.


Looking hot and looking trashy are two different looks.
Anonymous
Post 07/09/2024 13:05     Subject: Revealing clothing
Anonymous wrote:Do you honestly believe that if a man wants his wife to wear revealing clothes in public, its any different than another man wanting his wife to wear conservative clothes in public? Imho its equally strange.


Revealing could be a hot wife kink
Anonymous
Post 07/09/2024 12:59     Subject: Revealing clothing
Anonymous wrote:DH was not into it when we were younger, but we both look really good in our late 40s and I think he loves how great I look. I don't wear revealing clothes a lot, but in the right settings, he's all for it. Either because it makes him randy, or he enjoys the subtle attention I get from other men. It's fun sometimes to live a little.


Always wonder if men who love their wife wearing revealing clothes and getting attention from strangers also want them to sleep with a third or watch them with a third
Anonymous
Post 07/09/2024 12:41     Subject: Revealing clothing
I like to see my wife look hot. That said, I don’t think shes ever had anything I would consider revealing.

She looks great in a tank top and jeans - totally fine with that.
Anonymous
Post 07/09/2024 12:34     Subject: Revealing clothing
Do you honestly believe that if a man wants his wife to wear revealing clothes in public, its any different than another man wanting his wife to wear conservative clothes in public? Imho its equally strange.
Anonymous
Post 07/09/2024 12:21     Subject: Re:Revealing clothing
Anonymous wrote:
after years and years of body issues and an eating disorder.


This just seems like a continuation
So much focus on your body is not necessary


This^.
Anonymous
Post 07/09/2024 12:21     Subject: Revealing clothing
Burkha and Bikini are two extremes, there is a whole spectrum in between.
Anonymous
Post 07/09/2024 12:00     Subject: Re:Revealing clothing
after years and years of body issues and an eating disorder.


This just seems like a continuation
So much focus on your body is not necessary
Anonymous
Post 07/09/2024 11:58     Subject: Revealing clothing
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:What does revealing mean in this context?


+1 I wear a bikini top and board shirts to the pool, and loose/v-neck shirts and shorts, which are on the revealing side for my neighborhood (lots of people from more conservative religions) but I don’t think of them as super revealing (I’m very flat chested so no one’s getting a show from my shirts). My wife doesn’t care and I’ve only ever gotten catcalled/harassed when I was wearing long sleeved/high necked clothes, weirdly.

Are you a man or a woman?
Anonymous
Post 07/09/2024 11:14     Subject: Revealing clothing
Making women’s clothing choices responsible for men’s behavior is how you get the burka.

Wear what you like. Some weirdo is turned on by it— yes even the burka— and you can’t police weirdos.