Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:American women are so lazy and their kids are horrible brats.

Um the majority of us never have hired help. In a lot of foreign countries help is actually more common than here. You’re also here so that you can presumably eventually become an American by the way so there’s that 😂

yeah I live abroad in an expat bubble and sooooo many SAH moms have nannies. I am basically the only one with my kids at the park after school. The rest are nannies. It's actually the American women that are least likely to do this as it is looked down on in our culture somewhat.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Does here anyone SAH but also have a nanny or helper to assist with the second or third kid? What is your HHI?

You can't take care of two children at the same time? You should have considered your limitations prior to having a 2nd child.

She can take care of them. She might also take better care of them with a nanny.

Think of really rich celebrities. They could hire one nanny. Instead, they hire multiple nannies so each child has their own individual nanny. Each kid get plenty of individual attention and no one is limited by another child’s schedule or special needs.

Different families make different choices. No need to judge.