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Anonymous wrote:Men don't want to approach women anymore. They might get arrested today for speaking to them.

The fear is real.

Not looking for a man like you.

Yeah I never understood the logic why a man or just a real man is someone who goes after what he wants and why women are not meant to go after what they want

I used to approach women in public and in daily life circa mid 2000s with some success. But now the vibe is totally off. Generally (not just women) people have much less attention to give. Most people are in their phones. People often wear earbuds and headphones. Add in new perceptions and expectations about polite behavior it's really not worth the effort and hassle of trying to engage in neutral conversation with women in daily life in public.

It's a little easier if you have a warm introduction, usually at a social or work event. For example getting introduced by someone else in a group setting or participating in a neutral group activity or event. But these are yet still more difficult than before because expectations are altered.

Good luck OP. One thing is for sure, you have to step outside the house. I'm pretty sure no guy is going to come knock on your door to speak with you.

There are so many women I want to approach in person but they just give the vibe of don't get anywhere near me. I understand women deal with creepy men more than they want to. It sucks though

Anonymous wrote:Be fit and wear more well-fitted, tailored clothing

Maybe fitted clothing that shows off your body but well tailored clothing is highly unnecessary when it comes to getting male attention.

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Anonymous wrote:Wondering because i am introverted and prefer to stay home with my pups and hang out with a few close friends or family only. I never get approached but then again I'm a shirt sneakers and shorts or pants girl. So do I have to doll it up or what?

Looks. If you're attractive men will always try and ask you out. That's life. Doesn't matter if you're social or not.

Op here. I have no issue getting attention and asked out on old apps but I would much rather meet someone in person. I know it doesn't help I don't drink so i don't frequent bars. I have a 5lb yorkie too and she's mostly a house pup. I also don't drink so I don't frequent bars.

Do you drink?

Lol

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Anonymous wrote:Wondering because i am introverted and prefer to stay home with my pups and hang out with a few close friends or family only. I never get approached but then again I'm a shirt sneakers and shorts or pants girl. So do I have to doll it up or what?

No you don’t have to doll it up

If you are cute with a kickin body, you’ll get asked out even with sweats on

Helps to smile and make eye contact

+1. I’m a woman but if you are cute and showing interest and openness to be approached you will be. Doesn’t matter if you are dressed casually and are low maintenance

Anonymous wrote:Powerful video and wise words from a woman:https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTLnBcsPJ/

"Make the first move."

Saved you a click.