Anonymous
Post 05/20/2024 02:58     Subject: 50+ men with 20s and 30s women
Anonymous wrote:I had a friend in high school who ended up dating one of the dads when she was in her 20s. Was a friend of the guys daughter in high school.
Got married, because he was fairly wealthy, they had 4 more kids together, and she is in her 50s and is a nursemaid to her dh in his 90s.


She will still have many years to enjoy her wealth, I wouldn’t worry about her
Anonymous
Post 05/20/2024 02:56     Subject: Re:50+ men with 20s and 30s women
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I am late 50s, she is mid-20s. Met on Bumble almost 2 years ago. The only downside is she wants sex constantly.


From US? Russia?


There are only those 2 countries in the world. Got it.
Anonymous
Post 05/20/2024 02:54     Subject: 50+ men with 20s and 30s women
Anonymous wrote:
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Anonymous wrote:I’m 53, girlfriend is 34 and it’s the same as any other relationship. She’s wise beyond her years and I’m immature so we meet right in the middle. It’s going to end when she realizes she wants kids and it will hurt but for now we’re both very happy.


How’d you meet? How long have you been dating? Have you already had the kids conversation?


Met on bumble, she said she didn’t want kids but I’ve seen her with them and she’s a natural so I’m expecting her to change her mind.


She better hurry up
Anonymous
Post 05/20/2024 02:54     Subject: 50+ men with 20s and 30s women
Anonymous wrote:I’m 53, girlfriend is 34 and it’s the same as any other relationship. She’s wise beyond her years and I’m immature so we meet right in the middle. It’s going to end when she realizes she wants kids and it will hurt but for now we’re both very happy.


It’s ridiculous that she is 34 and still “thinking” about having kids
Anonymous
Post 05/20/2024 02:51     Subject: Re:50+ men with 20s and 30s women
I've never been interested in men more than a few years older or younger. I've always lived in major city, so there are tons of people my own age to date.
When I was in my 20s and 30s, I was always getting hit on by much older men and thought they were weird. Now I'm in my late 40s and get hit on by men in their 20s and early 30s. They're weird too.
Anonymous
Post 05/19/2024 23:37     Subject: Re:50+ men with 20s and 30s women
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Anonymous wrote:I’m 55 and every time I meet a woman in that age range I remind myself I have two daughters in their mid/late 20s. That fact alone is a great deterrent. If they dated a guy my age I’d freak out.


I’m 58 and two years ago a college GF of my daughter, after graduating, invited me out for drinks and I assumed it was for career advice. That wasn’t what it was about and the relationship lasted about two months until I realized it was really dumb on my part. It was fun while it lasted but I’m better off with my age group.


Damn that chick has issues


The dad has even bigger issues. I would be absolutely disgusted and feel really betrayed if I found out my father had dated and presumably slept with a former college friend of mine. I think most daughters or sons would feel that way.


It’s probably why he ended it.


After he slept with his child's friend for two months. I bet his daughter will still be pretty upset.


This is just despicable. Any decent man (and father!) in this situation would have immediately recognized that this was a very damaged, boundary-less young woman who was friends with his daughter (!!!) and would have shut this down with a quickness. This dude chose to compromise his relationship with his child to get his dick wet with crazy. Frankly, I'm surprised she didn't go on full on bunny boiling to blow up his life. "Some women like older guys!" you shout. Sure. My husband is 12 years older than me. This specific situation is full on nuts and I kinda hope the daughter never speaks to this pure skeeve again.
Anonymous
Post 05/19/2024 22:12     Subject: 50+ men with 20s and 30s women
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I'm mid-late 50s M. I've had physical/romantic relationships with women as young as 34 and as old as 62.

The 34 year old woman and I met online and then ran into each other months later the same night a serious girlfriend dumped me. We went out for a drink and, at the end of the evening, she said she wanted to go home with me. She said I was confident and wise. Our conversations were always interesting and we were very compatible emotionally.
Unfortunately, we only lasted a month, mostly because the sex was terrible. Neither of us could turned the other one on. Sexual compatibility isn't just about looks. She was actually very pretty and she said she liked the way I looked. I think the main problem was that she liked it very rough and I'm more of a gentle lover. She is very smart but not very successful and is estranged from her parents.

A 36 year old woman and I met online. There was instant chemistry. She was interesting and gorgeous. She had come out of a borderline abusive relationship and said she found me very safe. The sex was frequent and amazing. She woke me up to do it again all the time. I decided to get a vasectomy a couple of months into the relationship. Unfortunately, we wanted very different things. She wants to get married again and I don't. She also wants a new dad for her kid. I don't want to be a dad again. My children also said they didn't want me to be with a woman who was closer to their age than mine. We broke up after being together for a year on and off. I think she's now with someone similar to me but slightly older. She says she's much more attracted sexually and emotionally to older men. I definitely believe her.

The



So two women who came from troubled families of origins are sexually attracted to men their father's ages? Is that what you have told us?




Yes, almost.

If I get significant interest from someone more than 12 years younger than me, she usually has a bad relationship with at least one of her parents. The youngest woman I've dated who had two living parents who were still married to each other was 42, and she had some serious anxiety so she also was drawn to me because I seemed stable.

Lots of women 10-8 years younger are interested in me even if they came from stable homes. Late 40s is my preferred age.

By the way, lots of people my own age have bad relationships with their parents too.



Anonymous
Post 05/19/2024 17:54     Subject: 50+ men with 20s and 30s women
It was time for me to break up with a previous mid-20s GF when it became obvious she wanted to orchestrate a situation where my ex-wife would see us together.
Anonymous
Post 05/19/2024 17:05     Subject: 50+ men with 20s and 30s women
I was dating someone who was 26 when I was 42. Then again when I was 45 and she was 27. It worked like anything else and honestly I was more nervous about the age difference than they were. The one who was 27 was a great woman and I honestly wish her the best. I hope she finds a great guy she was quite the catch.

But for me it was great and I tend to look for women in that age range (28-35). They definitely tend to be less bitter and in good shape and not single moms. They keep me in better shape and tend to be great with your kids too.

So I found then by bumble or in the gym.
Anonymous
Post 05/19/2024 16:10     Subject: Re:50+ men with 20s and 30s women
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I’m 55 and every time I meet a woman in that age range I remind myself I have two daughters in their mid/late 20s. That fact alone is a great deterrent. If they dated a guy my age I’d freak out.


I’m 58 and two years ago a college GF of my daughter, after graduating, invited me out for drinks and I assumed it was for career advice. That wasn’t what it was about and the relationship lasted about two months until I realized it was really dumb on my part. It was fun while it lasted but I’m better off with my age group.


Damn that chick has issues


The dad has even bigger issues. I would be absolutely disgusted and feel really betrayed if I found out my father had dated and presumably slept with a former college friend of mine. I think most daughters or sons would feel that way.


No he doesn’t. He just enjoyed banging a 23 yo.
Anonymous
Post 05/19/2024 16:06     Subject: 50+ men with 20s and 30s women
Anonymous wrote:I don't plan to date a woman 1/2 my age lol but guys where the hell do you meet these women? Put aside the cultural gap, why would a fertile young woman select an old guy? And most 50 plus guys are boring af besides drinking beer and watching sports they don't have any interesting hobbies and women in their 20s/30s want interesting guys. I am 45 I enjoy motorcycling and salsa dancing but sadly I most of.my friends aren't into that.


The “world” is your oyster.
Literally and figuratively.
Anonymous
Post 05/19/2024 16:02     Subject: 50+ men with 20s and 30s women
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Tossing red meat into the DCUM cage, lol.

DCUM loves to be mad about this but it hardly ever happens in real life.


Exactly. The single 50+ men online all insist they’re tall and rich and they’re just drowning in all these tight, young, *adoring* bodies.

IRL? I never see it. I know it happens but I can’t think of anyone with this set up right now.


Not looking in the right places.
The people you know are looking in the wrong places.
Anonymous
Post 05/19/2024 15:56     Subject: 50+ men with 20s and 30s women
Most unattached men in their 30s are unattached for very good reasons. Whereas most men in their early fifties are divorced and at least know a little something about how to have a genuine relationship with someone. It's a pretty low bar out there. But no younger woman who wants children should get seriously involved with a man in his fifties. They are done, and if they're not, they're idiots.
Anonymous
Post 05/19/2024 15:54     Subject: 50+ men with 20s and 30s women
I'm the 39 yr old who dated the 60 year old. We met online. He was very energetic and youthful for his age. He worked out every day. We bonded over our love of swimming, travel, and food. He is in much better shape than me, and had amazing stamina when we were actually intimate.
Anonymous
Post 05/19/2024 15:38     Subject: 50+ men with 20s and 30s women
I don't plan to date a woman 1/2 my age lol but guys where the hell do you meet these women? Put aside the cultural gap, why would a fertile young woman select an old guy? And most 50 plus guys are boring af besides drinking beer and watching sports they don't have any interesting hobbies and women in their 20s/30s want interesting guys. I am 45 I enjoy motorcycling and salsa dancing but sadly I most of.my friends aren't into that.