Anonymous wrote:As a white man, I've always preferred darker toned features. I've dated all types, but brown eyes, brown/black hair was always better somehow. Blonde is actually a turn off for me. Especially blonde hair in the nether regions. By far my favorite hair texture and color is the typical asian hair.

DH, is that you? LOL. He's the exact same way. And he's dark blonde, blue eyed who has dated all types.

If your face isn’t pretty, blonde hair can be a good distraction. But if you’re pretty with a good figure you’ll do better to do what flatters you

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:As a white man, I've always preferred darker toned features. I've dated all types, but brown eyes, brown/black hair was always better somehow. Blonde is actually a turn off for me. Especially blonde hair in the nether regions. By far my favorite hair texture and color is the typical asian hair.

The men I see with mousy brunettes and asians are tech nerds

The most attractive brunettes are the Latin or Mediterranean ones.

Blondes are considered most attractive overall

Um. have you ever heard the term "beauty is in the eye of the beholder"?

DH prefers darker coloring. He's dated all kinds. I also prefer darker coloring, but DH is ash blonde with gray/blue eyes.

As long as you have a blonde bush…

I don't think it really matters.

As you age, lighter hair generally looks much better and less harsh than really dark shades of black or brown. This summer I'm going to try a sunny blonde balayage. I usually like to do warmer blonde tones in summer and cooler platinums in winter.

Anonymous wrote:As a white man, I've always preferred darker toned features. I've dated all types, but brown eyes, brown/black hair was always better somehow. Blonde is actually a turn off for me. Especially blonde hair in the nether regions. By far my favorite hair texture and color is the typical asian hair.

The men I see with mousy brunettes and asians are tech nerds

The most attractive brunettes are the Latin or Mediterranean ones.

Blondes are considered most attractive overall

As a white man, I've always preferred darker toned features. I've dated all types, but brown eyes, brown/black hair was always better somehow. Blonde is actually a turn off for me. Especially blonde hair in the nether regions. By far my favorite hair texture and color is the typical asian hair.

When you start getting more white hair, it’s easier to be blonde.

I also want to ask if you are going after quantity or quality.

Anonymous wrote:As another PP said, what is your goal here? You seem oddly fixated on how much and how many men find you attractive. Which says to me you likely have low self esteem. Maybe work on your inside a little and you end up attracting high quality men. Quality over quantity.

I'm blond (woman) but have always loved dark hair. I can't pull it off. But it always blows my mind that people like Kim K. And Katy Perry went blonde when they both are way more gorgeous with their glossy dark hair.

Actually, isn't the goal to attract one person, and don't you want that one person to love you exactly as you are?

So I’ve been an attractive brunette all my life with highlights or sometimes auburn/red. I say attractive because I modeled in youth and constantly get compliments on my appearance, hit on, etc. During pandemic, I took a plunge and went really blonde with blonde base and highlights. I liked the change at first and did get some attention but I felt like people didn’t like it as much and the maintenance involved was honestly too much. After about 9 months of that, I went back to brown and had people that met me only when I was blonde, be like “wow, you look amazing as a brunette, you look younger!”’ It was wild but it’s told me I am one of the rare ones who looks way better as a brunette than a blonde. It was so damaging too. Took me about a year to have good quality hair after all the bleaching.

Anonymous wrote:I think I look slightly better with brown hair but, hands down, I get more attention as a blonde. Even professionally it helps me stand out. I’m a little sick of dying it but I’m not ready to go back yet.

I don’t know if I should keep blonde because it’s so high maintenance and I also “feel” less attractive. But way more attractive men show interest in me when I have blonde hair. I just think men like the brightness or something. Blondes are also rare because it’s expensive and damaging to upkeep (and keratin extensions cost thousands)

Anonymous wrote:How about a softer shade of blonde? Very rare for a non natural blonde to look good with a platinum shade.

Holly Madison is not a natural blonde

I think I look slightly better with brown hair but, hands down, I get more attention as a blonde. Even professionally it helps me stand out. I’m a little sick of dying it but I’m not ready to go back yet.