Anonymous
05/21/2024 12:30
Subject: Pregnant Au Pair
Why doesn't she want to go home now?
Anonymous
05/21/2024 12:12
Subject: Pregnant Au Pair
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Our au pair has recently found out she is pregnant. She wishes to carry the baby to term and would like to stay in the au pair program if possible. Does anyone know the rules regarding pregnancy during the au pair program? We can't find any clear stipulations in her contract or the State Department website.
She can exchange her Au Pair visa as international student visa. Schools like nova community college should be easy to enroll & cheap. Then with her student visa, she should be able to apply for medicaid since her income is not good anyway.
Foreign nationals don't qualify for medicaid.
Her baby will be an American, and it will.
Anonymous
05/21/2024 11:47
Subject: Pregnant Au Pair
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Why would a Host Family want to be responsible for a pregnant au pair? Send her packing. No excuse for getting pregnant and no excuse for not terminating as abortion is still an option in the Metropolitan area.
Isn't WANTING to carry the baby to term an "excuse" enough? Do you want women to have control of their own bodies/health care, or do you want women forced into unwanted abortions?
The au pair has no money, no visible means of support, and will be sponging off her host family. She can't afford a baby and US taxpayers should not be responsible for her or her child.
The au pair has health insurance, will most likely leave after having baby as she will want to go home. The family has money and she can work until the baby is born
She is not sponging of the host family
Anonymous
05/20/2024 19:57
Subject: Pregnant Au Pair
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Why would a Host Family want to be responsible for a pregnant au pair? Send her packing. No excuse for getting pregnant and no excuse for not terminating as abortion is still an option in the Metropolitan area.
Isn't WANTING to carry the baby to term an "excuse" enough? Do you want women to have control of their own bodies/health care, or do you want women forced into unwanted abortions?
The au pair has no money, no visible means of support, and will be sponging off her host family. She can't afford a baby and US taxpayers should not be responsible for her or her child.
So every woman who has no money or no visible means of support should be forced to abort the baby?
That or they should be on three different methods of birth control. I am fed up of paying for somebody else's kid and I am even more to fed up with anchor
Lbabies,!
Genuine question: are you a liberal or conservative? How do you square your beliefs about abortion with your stance on immigrants having children here?
Anonymous
05/19/2024 14:11
Subject: Pregnant Au Pair
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Why would a Host Family want to be responsible for a pregnant au pair? Send her packing. No excuse for getting pregnant and no excuse for not terminating as abortion is still an option in the Metropolitan area.
Isn't WANTING to carry the baby to term an "excuse" enough? Do you want women to have control of their own bodies/health care, or do you want women forced into unwanted abortions?
The au pair has no money, no visible means of support, and will be sponging off her host family. She can't afford a baby and US taxpayers should not be responsible for her or her child.
So every woman who has no money or no visible means of support should be forced to abort the baby?
That or they should be on three different methods of birth control. I am fed up of paying for somebody else's kid and I am even more to fed up with anchor
Lbabies,!
Anonymous
05/19/2024 14:03
Subject: Pregnant Au Pair
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Why would a Host Family want to be responsible for a pregnant au pair? Send her packing. No excuse for getting pregnant and no excuse for not terminating as abortion is still an option in the Metropolitan area.
Isn't WANTING to carry the baby to term an "excuse" enough? Do you want women to have control of their own bodies/health care, or do you want women forced into unwanted abortions?
The au pair has no money, no visible means of support, and will be sponging off her host family. She can't afford a baby and US taxpayers should not be responsible for her or her child.
So every woman who has no money or no visible means of support should be forced to abort the baby?
Anonymous
05/19/2024 11:07
Subject: Pregnant Au Pair
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Our au pair has recently found out she is pregnant. She wishes to carry the baby to term and would like to stay in the au pair program if possible. Does anyone know the rules regarding pregnancy during the au pair program? We can't find any clear stipulations in her contract or the State Department website.
She can exchange her Au Pair visa as international student visa. Schools like nova community college should be easy to enroll & cheap. Then with her student visa, she should be able to apply for medicaid since her income is not good anyway.
Foreign nationals don't qualify for medicaid.
Anonymous
05/19/2024 11:06
Subject: Pregnant Au Pair
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Why would a Host Family want to be responsible for a pregnant au pair? Send her packing. No excuse for getting pregnant and no excuse for not terminating as abortion is still an option in the Metropolitan area.
Isn't WANTING to carry the baby to term an "excuse" enough? Do you want women to have control of their own bodies/health care, or do you want women forced into unwanted abortions?
The au pair has no money, no visible means of support, and will be sponging off her host family. She can't afford a baby and US taxpayers should not be responsible for her or her child.
Anonymous
05/18/2024 19:08
Subject: Pregnant Au Pair
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anchor baby scam.
Depending on her country of origin, it’s possible
OP, what country is she from? Who is the baby's father?
Anonymous
05/18/2024 19:06
Subject: Pregnant Au Pair
Idk but I would happily kick this up to the au pair agency or the state department or whoever is in charge of this ridiculous “employment” loophole.
Anonymous
05/18/2024 19:05
Subject: Pregnant Au Pair
Anonymous wrote:Anchor baby scam.
Depending on her country of origin, it’s possible
Anonymous
05/18/2024 19:03
Subject: Pregnant Au Pair
Anchor baby scam.
Anonymous
05/18/2024 18:13
Subject: Pregnant Au Pair
Anonymous wrote:Our au pair has recently found out she is pregnant. She wishes to carry the baby to term and would like to stay in the au pair program if possible. Does anyone know the rules regarding pregnancy during the au pair program? We can't find any clear stipulations in her contract or the State Department website.
She can exchange her Au Pair visa as international student visa. Schools like nova community college should be easy to enroll & cheap. Then with her student visa, she should be able to apply for medicaid since her income is not good anyway.
Anonymous
05/17/2024 18:04
Subject: Pregnant Au Pair
Anonymous wrote:Why would a Host Family want to be responsible for a pregnant au pair? Send her packing. No excuse for getting pregnant and no excuse for not terminating as abortion is still an option in the Metropolitan area.
Isn't WANTING to carry the baby to term an "excuse" enough? Do you want women to have control of their own bodies/health care, or do you want women forced into unwanted abortions?
Anonymous
05/17/2024 17:32
Subject: Pregnant Au Pair
If you like the au pair, keep her. If you want a new one, use this as the reason to let her go.