Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It’s because the taxpayer funds a huge portion of their expenses (housing while on base, no down payment for Va loans, the list goes on). Welfare queens to the max

+1. Even one of Reagan's hires (Stockdale, I think his name may be) wrote a book a few years ago describing the US military as socialistic. But if you dare question it, you're labeled a "communist" or worse. DH has several retired military in his family, and when they start bragging about their free health care and whatnot at Thanksgiving, I say "you're welcome."

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It’s because the taxpayer funds a huge portion of their expenses (housing while on base, no down payment for Va loans, the list goes on). Welfare queens to the max

+1. Even one of Reagan's hires (Stockdale, I think his name may be) wrote a book a few years ago describing the US military as socialistic. But if you dare question it, you're labeled a "communist" or worse. DH has several retired military in his family, and when they start bragging about their free health care and whatnot at Thanksgiving, I say "you're welcome."

Sorry, no one is bragging about Tricare.

Tricare is the absolute worst right now. I have to wait 3+ months for doctor appointments. Doctors say follow up in a month and the best I can do is 3-4 months. Forget seeing your primary care for an emergency. And, it takes months to get CT's/MRI's and other tests done. And, they refuse a lot of testing or specialists because they claim it's unnecessary. Or, worst, no one off base who is good takes tricare so if you get referred out as multiple clinics refuse patients good luck finding a competent doctor to help. And, if the outside doctor refers you for anything, you cannot get it done on base and the co-pays and stuff have gone sky high. I have chronic health issues and we end up paying a fortune out of pocket for doctors and medications tricare refuses. It really sucks.

If you are healthy, tricare is fine. If you are not, good luck.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It’s because the taxpayer funds a huge portion of their expenses (housing while on base, no down payment for Va loans, the list goes on). Welfare queens to the max

VA loans aren't that great as often the interest rate is higher. When we looked at it for our mortgage, because we could put 20% down, it wasn't worth it as the interest rate was much higher than what I got on a regular mortgage. And, most base housing isn't very nice, especially for enlisted, who aren't paid well at all.

Seriously. Base housing?!

"...asbestos, lead-based paint and mold in military housing..."

https://www.militarytimes.com/news/your-military/2023/12/06/senators-say-dod-has-a-long-way-to-go-to-fix-military-housing-issues/

That's enlisted housing. The officer housing I grew up in tended to very well build large houses that backed onto golf courses.

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Anonymous wrote:Straw man. Base officer housing might not be that nice (though why you brought up enlisted housing I have no idea), but BHA definitely is.

Married to an officer. We don’t have access to base housing. Many in the Bethesda area don’t.

Anonymous wrote:My spouse and I probably fit into this category.

He retired after 27 years active duty and is now about to retire from federal job of 5 years.

Our net worth is close to $8 million. Own our family home in suburban NOVA, beach condo, and he has a 36 foot sailboat. Everything is paid off. We have no debt at all. $6 million in taxable and retirement accounts.

I have managed all of our finances since we married, because he has been involved in some capacity in most major conflicts of past 25 years.

We were fortunate to start w a nice inheritance from his mother (appx $700k). Through wise investing and living well below our means, we are very comfortable now. I have spreadsheets tracking every single penny earned, spent, invested, etc for the past 15 years. Since I could no longer work professionally due to frequent moves (and my personal choice to be SAHM), I made it my role to learn as much as I could about personal finances.

I know that we have peers who are curious about our circumstances. Neither of us talk about money to others. We realize we were fortunate, but we’ve also worked hard to be good stewards and managers of assets. My spouse has been able to focus solely on his career while I took care of everything else (especially when he was deployed multiple times).

I do not consider us “old money” by any stretch of the imagination.

Anonymous wrote:My spouse and I probably fit into this category.

He retired after 27 years active duty and is now about to retire from federal job of 5 years.

Our net worth is close to $8 million. Own our family home in suburban NOVA, beach condo, and he has a 36 foot sailboat. Everything is paid off. We have no debt at all. $6 million in taxable and retirement accounts.

I have managed all of our finances since we married, because he has been involved in some capacity in most major conflicts of past 25 years.

We were fortunate to start w a nice inheritance from his mother (appx $700k). Through wise investing and living well below our means, we are very comfortable now. I have spreadsheets tracking every single penny earned, spent, invested, etc for the past 15 years. Since I could no longer work professionally due to frequent moves (and my personal choice to be SAHM), I made it my role to learn as much as I could about personal finances.

I know that we have peers who are curious about our circumstances. Neither of us talk about money to others. We realize we were fortunate, but we’ve also worked hard to be good stewards and managers of assets. My spouse has been able to focus solely on his career while I took care of everything else (especially when he was deployed multiple times).

I do not consider us “old money” by any stretch of the imagination.

Anonymous wrote:My spouse and I probably fit into this category.

He retired after 27 years active duty and is now about to retire from federal job of 5 years.

Our net worth is close to $8 million. Own our family home in suburban NOVA, beach condo, and he has a 36 foot sailboat. Everything is paid off. We have no debt at all. $6 million in taxable and retirement accounts.

I have managed all of our finances since we married, because he has been involved in some capacity in most major conflicts of past 25 years.

We were fortunate to start w a nice inheritance from his mother (appx $700k). Through wise investing and living well below our means, we are very comfortable now. I have spreadsheets tracking every single penny earned, spent, invested, etc for the past 15 years. Since I could no longer work professionally due to frequent moves (and my personal choice to be SAHM), I made it my role to learn as much as I could about personal finances.

I know that we have peers who are curious about our circumstances. Neither of us talk about money to others. We realize we were fortunate, but we’ve also worked hard to be good stewards and managers of assets. My spouse has been able to focus solely on his career while I took care of everything else (especially when he was deployed multiple times).

I do not consider us “old money” by any stretch of the imagination.

Anonymous wrote:Straw man. Base officer housing might not be that nice (though why you brought up enlisted housing I have no idea), but BHA definitely is.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It’s because the taxpayer funds a huge portion of their expenses (housing while on base, no down payment for Va loans, the list goes on). Welfare queens to the max

VA loans aren't that great as often the interest rate is higher. When we looked at it for our mortgage, because we could put 20% down, it wasn't worth it as the interest rate was much higher than what I got on a regular mortgage. And, most base housing isn't very nice, especially for enlisted, who aren't paid well at all.

Seriously. Base housing?!

"...asbestos, lead-based paint and mold in military housing..."

https://www.militarytimes.com/news/your-military/2023/12/06/senators-say-dod-has-a-long-way-to-go-to-fix-military-housing-issues/

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It’s because the taxpayer funds a huge portion of their expenses (housing while on base, no down payment for Va loans, the list goes on). Welfare queens to the max

+1. Even one of Reagan's hires (Stockdale, I think his name may be) wrote a book a few years ago describing the US military as socialistic. But if you dare question it, you're labeled a "communist" or worse. DH has several retired military in his family, and when they start bragging about their free health care and whatnot at Thanksgiving, I say "you're welcome."

Sorry, no one is bragging about Tricare.

They might as well. It's pretty good.

Anonymous wrote:Straw man. Base officer housing might not be that nice (though why you brought up enlisted housing I have no idea), but BHA definitely is.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It’s because the taxpayer funds a huge portion of their expenses (housing while on base, no down payment for Va loans, the list goes on). Welfare queens to the max

+1. Even one of Reagan's hires (Stockdale, I think his name may be) wrote a book a few years ago describing the US military as socialistic. But if you dare question it, you're labeled a "communist" or worse. DH has several retired military in his family, and when they start bragging about their free health care and whatnot at Thanksgiving, I say "you're welcome."

That’s super obnoxious on your part. We can’t even get appointments at Walter Reed or find a place to park, so I’d tell you quickly to shove it. Trust me, you wouldn’t think military healthcare was such a great deal if you actually had to use it.

I have a secret to let you in on—private healthcare sucks too.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It’s because the taxpayer funds a huge portion of their expenses (housing while on base, no down payment for Va loans, the list goes on). Welfare queens to the max

+1. Even one of Reagan's hires (Stockdale, I think his name may be) wrote a book a few years ago describing the US military as socialistic. But if you dare question it, you're labeled a "communist" or worse. DH has several retired military in his family, and when they start bragging about their free health care and whatnot at Thanksgiving, I say "you're welcome."

Sorry, no one is bragging about Tricare.

They might as well. It's pretty good.

Anonymous wrote:Straw man. Base officer housing might not be that nice (though why you brought up enlisted housing I have no idea), but BHA definitely is.