It's not difficult. The facts are, she doesn't want to engage with you and your daughter. It's a clear message to not pursue this relationship. The reason is not important anymore because she has no intention to interact with you. Leave it be. The reasons you give is from your point of view and can be judgemental.

Maybe b/c she can tell you are judgy and smug and she doesn't want to be friends with you. Your assessment of the situation is devoid of care for any perspective other than your own for your own benefit.

Anonymous wrote:She’s probably mortified and thinks you don’t want to be friends with her. Do you want to extend a peace offering? Ask her for coffee or a walk? Sounds like she’s struggling

+1

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:She’s probably mortified and thinks you don’t want to be friends with her. Do you want to extend a peace offering? Ask her for coffee or a walk? Sounds like she’s struggling

We’ve had a neighborhood block party every year since their falling out. She just won’t speak to me, no matter what branch I extend.

Then why do you want more from her? She’s made it clear she wants you to leave her alone.