Anonymous
04/26/2024 13:45
Subject: DD is excluding her friend
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:This is dumb? She “asked” the group if she could invite someone to the table? It’s a public lunch room. Is there a Head of Table? A friend group boss? Anyone is free to sit at any table with an available seat- including your daughter going to sit next her friend at another table. If her new friends drop her because she sometimes doesn’t sit at their same lunch table- then it is clear they aren’t friends and are just looking for a sheep to follow them. Is that who your daughter wants to be?
+1
WTH? Why would she even ask? Why wouldn't she just walk over with Larla and sit down?
You’re “+3”
Anonymous
04/26/2024 13:22
Subject: DD is excluding her friend
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:This is dumb? She “asked” the group if she could invite someone to the table? It’s a public lunch room. Is there a Head of Table? A friend group boss? Anyone is free to sit at any table with an available seat- including your daughter going to sit next her friend at another table. If her new friends drop her because she sometimes doesn’t sit at their same lunch table- then it is clear they aren’t friends and are just looking for a sheep to follow them. Is that who your daughter wants to be?
+1
WTH? Why would she even ask? Why wouldn't she just walk over with Larla and sit down?
Have you ever been in middle school or high school? Kids can be very exclusive about who sits with their group. Not that this should be a big deal, but at that age it is.
Anonymous
04/26/2024 12:33
Subject: DD is excluding her friend
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:This is dumb? She “asked” the group if she could invite someone to the table? It’s a public lunch room. Is there a Head of Table? A friend group boss? Anyone is free to sit at any table with an available seat- including your daughter going to sit next her friend at another table. If her new friends drop her because she sometimes doesn’t sit at their same lunch table- then it is clear they aren’t friends and are just looking for a sheep to follow them. Is that who your daughter wants to be?
+1
WTH? Why would she even ask? Why wouldn't she just walk over with Larla and sit down?
I’m not sure how big the group is, but if it’s relatively small (3-4 kids), it would seem strange to just bring someone new in without telling the others. However, if the group was larger (8-10 kids), I would agree with you.