Anonymous
04/21/2024 12:23
Subject: Spouse blaming me for not finding a new job yet
Anonymous wrote:This is completely a him problem. You are presently employed. You are doing your due diligence to get your next job and having fairly high success rates judging by interviews. You will be collecting unemployment insurance so you will not be without an income.
If he is anxious about the difference between your current income and your income after July he can start looking for better paying jobs. Transferring his anxiety to you is doing reproductive.
*counter productive. Definitely not doing reproductive!!
Anonymous
04/21/2024 12:23
Subject: Spouse blaming me for not finding a new job yet
This is completely a him problem. You are presently employed. You are doing your due diligence to get your next job and having fairly high success rates judging by interviews. You will be collecting unemployment insurance so you will not be without an income.
If he is anxious about the difference between your current income and your income after July he can start looking for better paying jobs. Transferring his anxiety to you is doing reproductive.
If he is anxious about the difference between your current income and your income after July he can start looking for better paying jobs. Transferring his anxiety to you is doing reproductive.
Anonymous
04/21/2024 11:45
Subject: Spouse blaming me for not finding a new job yet
Two interviews in two months is great! Job searches take time. A lot of time.
I think you need to sit him down for a heart to heart and tell him his anxiety is understandable but he needs to “dump out” not “dump in.” He needs to complain to someone else and support you.
I think you need to sit him down for a heart to heart and tell him his anxiety is understandable but he needs to “dump out” not “dump in.” He needs to complain to someone else and support you.