I would likely do a follow-up w/a phone call.

If she doesn’t answer -> leave her a voice message letting her know that you would like to know which dates do not work for her.

After 2-3 days - if she does not respond then I would just forget about her son coming along.

This mother is obviously a sourpuss 😠🙂‍↔️ so why play along w/her game…..??!

If you don't really text with this woman, sports issues aside, how close are the kids? Sometimes, when the kids are young, even if they hit it off, if the parents don't intend to facilitate, the friendship won't get off the ground. That's just life. I'd reach out one more time, offer a few specific dates, and if she doesn't respond after that, you have to let it go.

I think it is perfectly fine if a parent reaches out because they really want your child to be at a birthday party. My son's closest friend usually likes to celebrate his birthday with just 2-3 friends and the mom will often reach out to me in advance with several dates far in advance. I think it is nice and I would have no problem responding right away. Maybe it would be better if you suggest a few dates instead of leaving it open ended.

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Anonymous wrote:How old are these kids?

They're 10. I hear everyone's point of view. I guess I was thinking of it as let's start a dialogue on this and find a time that works. I think the silence is what I wasn't expecting. So I'll follow up. Perhaps I'm more gracious when I receive invites.

This friend’s mom probably forgot you even texted. Meanwhile, you are digging your heels in and getting all upset and making up stories about her being jealous of your kids success in sports, etc. Crazy town.