Not remotely sexually attractive to them. If you are hot or one of them could be into you you might think you are “one of the guys” but you are not, someone is inviting you because they want to sleep with you.

OR

someone’s girlfriend that always wants to come to everything with him.

the only true “one of the guys” women I know are butch lesbians that the men around them truly have no sexual interest in.

Anonymous wrote:What the heck does this even mean?

She stands up to pee…

I have a lot of guy friends (but also girl friends) so I've probably had this said about me. I get along with guys, can talk about sports or their relationships, and I'm basically unthreatening. I'm reasonably attractive but not overtly sexy. When I meet their girlfriends or wives, I'm welcoming. If I were an incel, I'd say I get friend-zoned, but in my case, friend zone is just fine.

I was a bit of a tomboy, but attractive, fun, and down-to-earth. I had a crush on two of my guy friends, but I didn't want to get rejected or lose their friendship. So, I just friend-zoned myself with all my guy friends and become one of the guys. Still friends with them decades later.

One of those guys said, "you know, you're the only female friend that I haven't had sex with". I was a bit offended and a bit heart-warmed at the same time.

No games, no primping, no agenda, etc. I don't think that attracts college age guys.

Anonymous wrote:It’s hilarious how mad women in this board get about this. They sound like the woman version of incels (femcels or ran thru).

Read through the comments again. Nobody is mad. You might want to try not making a big hilarious deal out of nothing.

Anonymous wrote:Definitely not an insult. It’s the girl all your husbands wish they were with instead of you frumpy old fat dcumdumpsters.

Try to guess why the women you know refer to you as "one of the a$$holes".

Guys like to hang out with other guys who like to have fun, have a sense of humor, like a lot of the same things they like and are not judgmental of each other.

If you are like that but you are female then you are probably described as being like one of the guys.

Anonymous wrote:It’s supposed to be a “compliment” but it’s actually a way to insult other women.

You’re not one of the guys cause you’re always making something out of nothing. This is the exact thing men avoid in friends

It means she is one of nature's oddities: a sane female.

It’s hilarious how mad women in this board get about this. They sound like the woman version of incels (femcels or ran thru).

Anonymous wrote:What the heck does this even mean?

It simply means you fit it with traditionally masculine groups as a friend. It's not good or bad.

Anonymous wrote:What the heck does this even mean?

Op do you get it? Everything suffice?

Anonymous wrote:The woman fits in to a group of low stakes, low emotional/drama relationships typically enjoyed by stereotypical heterosexual men.

This. I've been in groups like this.

Watch the old sitcom "My Boys"

Anonymous wrote:I was one of these about 25 years ago.

Thinly-veiled code for ‘girl we’d like to run a train on’.

Uh no.

They wanna hang out with you but not in you.