Anonymous wrote:140 is nothing in the gay male world.

True.

Anonymous wrote:Why or why not?

Because he sounds like a polygamous gigolo with ADD.

I don’t care what you pretend to know or say about his marriage or family.
He be gross.

If I were attracted to him and he’d been tested, I’d have protected PIV with him.

But I would never go down on him or consider him serious relationship material.

Anonymous wrote:Sure. I’d also never ask for a number and would be turned off if he provided one unasked. I’m a woman who has had a sexually rich past- and I am comfortable with it and with my sexuality. I don’t ask these sort of questions nor would I answer them.

"A sexually rich past". I like that phrasing.

Sure. I’d also never ask for a number and would be turned off if he provided one unasked. I’m a woman who has had a sexually rich past- and I am comfortable with it and with my sexuality. I don’t ask these sort of questions nor would I answer them.

Let the bodies hit the floor...





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I slept with about 100 men before I met my husband. I've been with him over 30 years and he's the only person I've slept with since. I've never shared this with him and I have no idea how many people he slept with before he met me. It was not relevant to getting serious and committing to someone. I think if someone is sharing this when you are getting to know each other, it's weird. I don't talk about my sex life with anyone. My point is that the number doesn't matter, it's the attitude. What's the point of letting you know? A brag(and why)? A warning? Also, check yourself for STDs.

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Anonymous wrote:So what's the cut off on body count that it becomes disqualifying. I have a pretty high number (y'all can't shame me 😂) that my wife asked about after we were married. I didn't want to answer, but she insisted. She was taken aback but we're still happy and I've never come close to cheating. I'm curious what's the general consensus though on "too many".

For me, over 30.

Damn

Anonymous wrote:I keep my list to be considerate. Let's say I come down with something and need to notify past partners.

I want you to have a spreadsheet with updated contact info, dates, and notes. That's how I am envisioning it .

it seems like it would be relative, no? what's OP's body count?

No, he is clearly not a relationship person and I’m more than a sperm depository.

I can't comprehend a number that high. Maybe apps have made things easier and I'm just old - when I met my wife we had flip phones.

Anonymous wrote:So what's the cut off on body count that it becomes disqualifying. I have a pretty high number (y'all can't shame me 😂) that my wife asked about after we were married. I didn't want to answer, but she insisted. She was taken aback but we're still happy and I've never come close to cheating. I'm curious what's the general consensus though on "too many".

For me, over 30.

Damn. When I was younger, heck no. But now that I’m older, if he got an STD panel first then I would probably date him long enough to sleep with him just because I’m curious how much he has learned. But there would be no future for me. It’s pretty gross.

So what's the cut off on body count that it becomes disqualifying. I have a pretty high number (y'all can't shame me 😂) that my wife asked about after we were married. I didn't want to answer, but she insisted. She was taken aback but we're still happy and I've never come close to cheating. I'm curious what's the general consensus though on "too many".