Anonymous wrote:I’m 48 divorced and dating. I try my best to look good on dates and special occasions and I always get the cute comment from men or strangers. DD just texted me that her college friend saw her graduation pictures and thought I was cute.

I understand that a little girl could be cute but how is a grown woman cute?

What do you want men to say? You’re not hit anymore as you’re well past your prime. If a guy does say you’re hot you’ll get mad.

Cute is a nice option. Younger women 35 Anne below are hot. Women 35-45 are still hot sometimes or they’re pretty . Women 44 and up are not attractive so cute is a nice way of saying “sure you’re ok looking but not hot”

If you don't like being called cute, you could always quote Bull Durham back at them.

As a bonus, you'd recognize people who are Bull Durham fans, which is a sure sign of a quality dating prospect. (Okay, that may just be me.)