Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:This is a question I ask myself all the time. The rankings/necessary stats/acceptance rates are all over the board. Makes no sense.
It only makes no sense if you think the quality of the school is based on how selective admissions is.
It DCUMland in the country of Statusovia, exclusivity is the only thing that matters, in college, career, Medicare care, restaurant, swimming pool, or anything else. Even price is only a proxy for exclusivity.
Truer words were never spoken. Here they manage to make merit aid but not needing it also a status thing. I keep saying it, but this is a terrible place where many people come who see the world as a zero sum place and will take (or invent) any advantage they can to make themselves and their progeny seem bestest over you and yours.
The way I decided to look at it was, do I want to live in their neighborhoods? Do I want my kids at their schools?
No. That's no way to live.
In terms of admissions, think of it from a college admissions representative's perspective: they've just read 800 essays about captain and president so and so of fifty different after school clubs, who also started a non-profit collecting eyeglass frames for the disadvantaged at farmer's markets (I made that up, any resemblance to an actual nonprofit is coincidental), and then they get to your kid who writes honestly and funnily that they didn't join any high school clubs because they really love the one sport they play, or their violin, or they have to cool dinner for their siblings and help them with their homework, or work at Wendy's--
Who stands out there?