Anonymous
Post 01/10/2024 22:05     Subject: DD without a date
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Why are you on DCUM if you’re in the south?

+1 to wtf is a sub deb???


It's where you make your presentation to BDSM society, obviously.


What is BDSM?

Yankee here


Please tell me you're a child.
Anonymous
Post 01/10/2024 22:04     Subject: DD without a date
Anonymous wrote:DD (17) is going to Sub Deb next weekend. She plans to get ready and then go with a group of 4 other girlfriends. Each of her four friends has asked a date to the dance. DD hasn’t asked anyone. There are definitely guys she could ask to go with her as friends, but she refuses.
I explained to her that it might be awkward being the only one without a date. I explained a few possible scenarios that could play out. She insists that there are other kids she can hang out with and that it won’t be awkward at all.
I’ve dropped it completely and won’t bring it up again, but I feel like she’s being extremely naive here. I don’t see this playing out well. Is this normal and common in today’s world?


So your daughter doesn't want to ask a guy to be her date for the sake of having a date, and she's confident just as she is.
She sounds fabulous to me. Don't stand in her way.
Anonymous
Post 01/10/2024 22:00     Subject: DD without a date
Totally normal not to have a date and she'll end up with hanging with a variety of people throughout the night. And sub deb????!! Know your audience.
Anonymous
Post 01/10/2024 13:45     Subject: DD without a date
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Ugh, at least she can go. In our area, the sub deb equivalent- PDC (pre deb cotillion) dates are required. Luckily, my daughter has no interest, as it’s also a very expensive, ticketed event. You literally have to fill out a form if you want to take a same gender date. Yes, welcome to the south, where we register lesbians.


Why in the world would anyone waste their time and money on this utter garbage?


It’s what middle class people think “upper class” people do
Anonymous
Post 01/10/2024 12:31     Subject: DD without a date

She’s right.
You were right to warn her.
Now it’s decision.

All is well, OP!
Anonymous
Post 01/10/2024 12:30     Subject: DD without a date
Anonymous wrote:Ugh, at least she can go. In our area, the sub deb equivalent- PDC (pre deb cotillion) dates are required. Luckily, my daughter has no interest, as it’s also a very expensive, ticketed event. You literally have to fill out a form if you want to take a same gender date. Yes, welcome to the south, where we register lesbians.


Why in the world would anyone waste their time and money on this utter garbage?
Anonymous
Post 01/10/2024 12:28     Subject: DD without a date
Anonymous wrote:Are you really questioning whether your daughter can go to a dance without a f’ing date and have fun?!?!? Of course she can. Kudos to her. Stop the old fashion NS Grandmom. Most girls are realizing they rather be happy than appease a man. And many are happily single or gay. Need flash: most men, especially teens suck.


Did you really have to say that? And do you honestly believe it? I am a mom of boys and girls and have some fantastic teen nephews that really, really, do not suck.