Anonymous
Post 01/10/2024 09:54     Subject: Screaming coaches
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:My daughter’s development (not travel) team had a dad coach who was a yeller. Not in the context of raising his voice to be heard over the gaggle of voices or across the field. More like a “Why would you do that? What the hell were you thinking?” kind of screamer. Needless to say, no longer with that team but it almost soured her on soccer altogether.


I've always questioned the effectiveness of rhetorical question coaching.


"That makes no sense......"

IYKYK


😂
We’re probably on the same team. I don’t miss that for a second.
Anonymous
Post 01/10/2024 09:47     Subject: Screaming coaches
When my daughter was born and I held her in my arms for the first time, my only thought was "When she turns ten I hope she plays for a coach like Bobby Knight".
Anonymous
Post 01/10/2024 09:02     Subject: Screaming coaches
Anonymous wrote:Yellers simply have not effectively taught at practice so they yell at games because they view the outcome as their own success or failure. They want to win, it is not that they want to teach and develop.
Leaving your child year after year to play for yellers is a form of child abuse.
Parents have to take responsibility


If the quality of your players are too low to grasp what you're trying to teach at practice, yelling at them on Saturday doesn't make it any better.
Anonymous
Post 01/10/2024 08:52     Subject: Screaming coaches
Anonymous wrote:Yellers simply have not effectively taught at practice so they yell at games because they view the outcome as their own success or failure. They want to win, it is not that they want to teach and develop.
Leaving your child year after year to play for yellers is a form of child abuse.
Parents have to take responsibility


True
Anonymous
Post 01/10/2024 08:44     Subject: Screaming coaches
Yellers simply have not effectively taught at practice so they yell at games because they view the outcome as their own success or failure. They want to win, it is not that they want to teach and develop.
Leaving your child year after year to play for yellers is a form of child abuse.
Parents have to take responsibility
Anonymous
Post 01/10/2024 07:57     Subject: Screaming coaches
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I bet nobody here posting about yellers ever played a minute for a D1 college team or maybe even High School.


The culture of yelling at young female players is the same culture that accepted other forms of abuse which has been rampant in women's soccer. Young girls broken down and taught not to question a coach.


Stop.


Agreed. Clubs and leagues need to STOP allowing coaches to yelling/screaming at young players. It is abuse!
Anonymous
Post 01/09/2024 17:23     Subject: Screaming coaches
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I bet nobody here posting about yellers ever played a minute for a D1 college team or maybe even High School.


The culture of yelling at young female players is the same culture that accepted other forms of abuse which has been rampant in women's soccer. Young girls broken down and taught not to question a coach.


Stop.
Anonymous
Post 01/09/2024 17:18     Subject: Screaming coaches
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Solar is in a different position. Players literally move there from all over the country because they are so well known and connected. My dog could coach their team and have success because the players are all spectacular and doing all kinds of training on their own. Screaming does nothing to help those players.

Is he a yeller to?


An old yeller
Anonymous
Post 01/09/2024 17:03     Subject: Screaming coaches
Anonymous wrote:I bet nobody here posting about yellers ever played a minute for a D1 college team or maybe even High School.


The culture of yelling at young female players is the same culture that accepted other forms of abuse which has been rampant in women's soccer. Young girls broken down and taught not to question a coach.
Anonymous
Post 01/09/2024 17:03     Subject: Screaming coaches
Anonymous wrote:I bet nobody here posting about yellers ever played a minute for a D1 college team or maybe even High School.


THE WAY IT HAS ALWAYS BEEN IS THE WAY IT SHOULD ALWAYS BE! BAH!
Anonymous
Post 01/09/2024 17:02     Subject: Screaming coaches
Anonymous wrote:I bet nobody here posting about yellers ever played a minute for a D1 college team or maybe even High School.


Yelling at adults on a college team or even high schoolers is quite different than yelling at 10, 11, 12 year olds
Anonymous
Post 01/09/2024 16:09     Subject: Screaming coaches
I bet nobody here posting about yellers ever played a minute for a D1 college team or maybe even High School.
Anonymous
Post 01/09/2024 16:08     Subject: Screaming coaches
I can’t ever remember school being called off for rain…
Anonymous
Post 01/09/2024 16:01     Subject: Screaming coaches
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:My daughter’s development (not travel) team had a dad coach who was a yeller. Not in the context of raising his voice to be heard over the gaggle of voices or across the field. More like a “Why would you do that? What the hell were you thinking?” kind of screamer. Needless to say, no longer with that team but it almost soured her on soccer altogether.


I've always questioned the effectiveness of rhetorical question coaching.


"That makes no sense......"

IYKYK
Anonymous
Post 01/09/2024 15:55     Subject: Screaming coaches
Anonymous wrote:Solar is in a different position. Players literally move there from all over the country because they are so well known and connected. My dog could coach their team and have success because the players are all spectacular and doing all kinds of training on their own. Screaming does nothing to help those players.

Is he a yeller to?