Anonymous wrote:Given he’s only my #2 the odds are in his favor. I’m sure I missed out on some interesting sex but I’m never disappointed.

You missed out on committing more sin, which is a good thing

Given he’s only my #2 the odds are in his favor. I’m sure I missed out on some interesting sex but I’m never disappointed.

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Anonymous wrote:Yes, but spouse is my only ever.

Same. Also, I dated my spouse for several years but we consummated the relationship on our wedding night. Happily married with a satisfying sex life for past 32 years.

Good for you!

Anonymous wrote:Yes, but spouse is my only ever.

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Good for you!

No. But this is the healthiest relationship I’ve ever been in, and the sex is still good and frequent.

My wife is a great cook. Let's just leave it there.

She can be! Sometimes she is either very horny or the moon and tides are aligned in my favor. When that happens, after many years of marriage, she is better than the hot ones of my youth.

I think it took me a long time to figure out what I really enjoy and my husband is the one who helped me get there. I love a massage and a lot of foreplay before the main event and he’s great at letting me decide what that will be. Old BFs were of the quickie school and while it was pretty hot it wasn’t very satisfying.

I dated a blonde former cheerleader from California. She did everything, with enthusiasm. Wow.

Yes because I've learned to love myself.

DW when she wants to be is the best ever

Nope.

Married 20+ years. In the beginning, she was very good, occasionally amazing, but not the best. Now, she's adequate. Not GGG like she once was, and quite a bit of weight gain.

I wonder what she'd say about me. Probably the same, though my weight gain has been much less.

My grad school boyfriend was brilliant and also brilliant in bed. He had a plan, he choreographed it; minimum three positions every time, knew how to handle me. Was stunningly handsome too. Unfortunately he didn’t love me so that put a ceiling on it. Sex with love is better.

Yes

No . I love my husband but he is inexperienced compared to me in bed . Was a virgin when we married and after we had kids , gives me oral very sparsely , if it all . I took on an AP and it’s amazing sex.