Anonymous wrote:Send them both a text that you saw them kissing and it had better have been a one time drunken kiss.

Put them on notice that you know.

What is the point of this?

Worst advice ever!?

You saw them kissing. You don’t know if they’re having sex.

Stay out of it.

I saw mommy kissing Santa Clause

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I would stay out of it and pretend nothing happened.

This. Unless she’s your best friend. Also, if you are saying nothing, then make sure you actually say nothing. Don’t tell the rest of your friends.

Understand that you will likely lose this friendship if you tell.

If this actually happened, stay out of it unless this is a VERY good friend of yours and they're a person who won't then turn against, you which is what often happens.

The wife of one of DH’s friends was seen making out with another man in the bathroom at a party. Everyone talked about it and it always made me feel bad that everyone seemed to know except for him. They eventually divorced and I’m still not sure he knows about this story. The sad thing is that there were stories like this before they got married. Perhaps if someone had told him, they wouldn’t have gotten married and created a sad, dysfunctional environment for two kids.

If you’re a close friend you’ll tell. Friends look our for each other.

OP, did they see you?

I get not wanting to be involved but if the wife is a close friend, you should tell her. She may be hurt and angry and blame the messenger initially but she has a right to know. I'd rather hear it from someone who saw it firsthand and whom I trusted. If you don't know the wife very well, send an anonymous email. If he's doing more than kissing other women, he's exposing his wife to disease and that's not cool.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:MYOB. Beyond which, made up post.

Hardly made up.

Lol yeah, disregard. There's a little crew that thinks it makes them look smart to rush into every thread to say it's fake.

I can’t believe all of the people who are telling OP to tell the wife. What good will that do? Possibly break up a marriage? If you tell the wife be prepared for her to ghost you and of course her spouse will. MYOB. You have no idea what’s going on in someone’s marriage.

Send them both, the friend and her husband, an anonymous note. You will be on the outs with both of them if they know you are the messenger.

Stay out of it

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Listen, this isn’t his first rodeo. Your friend already knows what kind of man she married, she knows he’s a wanderer.

You’re best to stay out of it, otherwise they will both turn on you and smear your name in the neighborhood.

BS. A lot if women don’t know they married a wanderer

I beg to differ. There are always signs. Men don’t wake up one day and decide to be a wanderer. They’re already doing it while dating the woman, many even get caught but then forgiven and the woman marries them anyway and pops out kids thinking it surely won’t happen again. But it always does. This is the same exact story for every wanderer I personally know.

If you tell, you might be blamed by her and she might stop speaking to you.

Pics or it didn’t happen.