Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Why don't you tell your kid they are not allowed to leave campus. Unbelievable that you can find a way to blame the school for this.
Seriously I can’t believe that if as a parent you care that you can’t figure out how to enforce it. I mean tell them no. If they do it, take aware their source of funds, take the phone, ground them. Whatever.
Taking their phone away for leaving campus is punishing them after the fact. It is not enforcing the school’s supposed closed campus policy.
Again, only the school can enforce that. Parents are not in the building.
OP you seem outrageous. Plenty of things in the world that can be blamed on failed leadership. This is failed parenting nothing to do with leadership. Punishing them after the fact as you say should be enough to deter them from doing it again. If it is not then that is your problem.
You must be MCPS admin. You can keep denying MCPS has liability and obligation to uphold and enforce its policies if you want to. MCPS, and we the taxpayers, keep paying out judgements where judges and juries disagree with you and say MCPS has a duty to actually do what it says it will do.
You should quit education. It’s not for you.
Wrong - just a parent that thinks this is crazy. Also, I am not the only one responding to you. I am beginning to think you are that lady that runs that website that wants MCPS liable for everything so every morning you wake up and think of something new. Turf, closed lunch, etc. I understand MCPS has issues but this is not one of them.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I see so many kids around Blair during lunch. Why not just make it an open lunch? What’s the point if it’s not enforced?
This is the crazy thing about MCPS. They want to look like they're doing the right thing, by saying they have closed campus lunches for student safety, but then refuse to invest the necessary resources, protocols and enforcements to make what they say they do on paper actually be true.
I agree with you. If MCPS actually has no intention of ever honoring its closed lunch policy, then they should just drop the farce of claiming to have a closed campus. It's ridiculous.
I don’t know if there is an “MCPS Policy”, as there are schools with open lunch. WJ is wide open, for all grades. They cannot possibly service the student body in the cafeteria as things are now. Can anyone chime in what Blair’s actual policy is?
Poolesville also has open lunch for all grades.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Why don't you tell your kid they are not allowed to leave campus. Unbelievable that you can find a way to blame the school for this.
Seriously I can’t believe that if as a parent you care that you can’t figure out how to enforce it. I mean tell them no. If they do it, take aware their source of funds, take the phone, ground them. Whatever.
Taking their phone away for leaving campus is punishing them after the fact. It is not enforcing the school’s supposed closed campus policy.
Again, only the school can enforce that. Parents are not in the building.
OP you seem outrageous. Plenty of things in the world that can be blamed on failed leadership. This is failed parenting nothing to do with leadership. Punishing them after the fact as you say should be enough to deter them from doing it again. If it is not then that is your problem.
You must be MCPS admin. You can keep denying MCPS has liability and obligation to uphold and enforce its policies if you want to. MCPS, and we the taxpayers, keep paying out judgements where judges and juries disagree with you and say MCPS has a duty to actually do what it says it will do.
You should quit education. It’s not for you.
Wrong - just a parent that thinks this is crazy. Also, I am not the only one responding to you. I am beginning to think you are that lady that runs that website that wants MCPS liable for everything so every morning you wake up and think of something new. Turf, closed lunch, etc. I understand MCPS has issues but this is not one of them.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Why don't you tell your kid they are not allowed to leave campus. Unbelievable that you can find a way to blame the school for this.
Seriously I can’t believe that if as a parent you care that you can’t figure out how to enforce it. I mean tell them no. If they do it, take aware their source of funds, take the phone, ground them. Whatever.
Taking their phone away for leaving campus is punishing them after the fact. It is not enforcing the school’s supposed closed campus policy.
Again, only the school can enforce that. Parents are not in the building.
OP you seem outrageous. Plenty of things in the world that can be blamed on failed leadership. This is failed parenting nothing to do with leadership. Punishing them after the fact as you say should be enough to deter them from doing it again. If it is not then that is your problem.
You must be MCPS admin. You can keep denying MCPS has liability and obligation to uphold and enforce its policies if you want to. MCPS, and we the taxpayers, keep paying out judgements where judges and juries disagree with you and say MCPS has a duty to actually do what it says it will do.
You should quit education. It’s not for you.
Wrong - just a parent that thinks this is crazy. Also, I am not the only one responding to you. I am beginning to think you are that lady that runs that website that wants MCPS liable for everything so every morning you wake up and think of something new. Turf, closed lunch, etc. I understand MCPS has issues but this is not one of them.
Tell that to the DoorDash driver who had a gun shoved in her mouth by B-CC kids who were out and about in the community during lunch just a few weeks ago.
You’re in denial and refuse to engage with the real harm and risk that comes from not enforcing this policy. Why you are doing so, only you know.
So, your theory is that open lunch in Bethesda is why the carjacking happened in Wheaton?
That's just silly.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Why don't you tell your kid they are not allowed to leave campus. Unbelievable that you can find a way to blame the school for this.
Seriously I can’t believe that if as a parent you care that you can’t figure out how to enforce it. I mean tell them no. If they do it, take aware their source of funds, take the phone, ground them. Whatever.
Taking their phone away for leaving campus is punishing them after the fact. It is not enforcing the school’s supposed closed campus policy.
Again, only the school can enforce that. Parents are not in the building.
OP you seem outrageous. Plenty of things in the world that can be blamed on failed leadership. This is failed parenting nothing to do with leadership. Punishing them after the fact as you say should be enough to deter them from doing it again. If it is not then that is your problem.
You must be MCPS admin. You can keep denying MCPS has liability and obligation to uphold and enforce its policies if you want to. MCPS, and we the taxpayers, keep paying out judgements where judges and juries disagree with you and say MCPS has a duty to actually do what it says it will do.
You should quit education. It’s not for you.
Wrong - just a parent that thinks this is crazy. Also, I am not the only one responding to you. I am beginning to think you are that lady that runs that website that wants MCPS liable for everything so every morning you wake up and think of something new. Turf, closed lunch, etc. I understand MCPS has issues but this is not one of them.
Tell that to the DoorDash driver who had a gun shoved in her mouth by B-CC kids who were out and about in the community during lunch just a few weeks ago.
You’re in denial and refuse to engage with the real harm and risk that comes from not enforcing this policy. Why you are doing so, only you know.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Why don't you tell your kid they are not allowed to leave campus. Unbelievable that you can find a way to blame the school for this.
Seriously I can’t believe that if as a parent you care that you can’t figure out how to enforce it. I mean tell them no. If they do it, take aware their source of funds, take the phone, ground them. Whatever.
Taking their phone away for leaving campus is punishing them after the fact. It is not enforcing the school’s supposed closed campus policy.
Again, only the school can enforce that. Parents are not in the building.
OP you seem outrageous. Plenty of things in the world that can be blamed on failed leadership. This is failed parenting nothing to do with leadership. Punishing them after the fact as you say should be enough to deter them from doing it again. If it is not then that is your problem.
You must be MCPS admin. You can keep denying MCPS has liability and obligation to uphold and enforce its policies if you want to. MCPS, and we the taxpayers, keep paying out judgements where judges and juries disagree with you and say MCPS has a duty to actually do what it says it will do.
You should quit education. It’s not for you.
Wrong - just a parent that thinks this is crazy. Also, I am not the only one responding to you. I am beginning to think you are that lady that runs that website that wants MCPS liable for everything so every morning you wake up and think of something new. Turf, closed lunch, etc. I understand MCPS has issues but this is not one of them.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I see so many kids around Blair during lunch. Why not just make it an open lunch? What’s the point if it’s not enforced?
This is the crazy thing about MCPS. They want to look like they're doing the right thing, by saying they have closed campus lunches for student safety, but then refuse to invest the necessary resources, protocols and enforcements to make what they say they do on paper actually be true.
I agree with you. If MCPS actually has no intention of ever honoring its closed lunch policy, then they should just drop the farce of claiming to have a closed campus. It's ridiculous.
I don’t know if there is an “MCPS Policy”, as there are schools with open lunch. WJ is wide open, for all grades. They cannot possibly service the student body in the cafeteria as things are now. Can anyone chime in what Blair’s actual policy is?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Why don't you tell your kid they are not allowed to leave campus. Unbelievable that you can find a way to blame the school for this.
Seriously I can’t believe that if as a parent you care that you can’t figure out how to enforce it. I mean tell them no. If they do it, take aware their source of funds, take the phone, ground them. Whatever.
Taking their phone away for leaving campus is punishing them after the fact. It is not enforcing the school’s supposed closed campus policy.
Again, only the school can enforce that. Parents are not in the building.
We’re talking high schoolers, not two year olds. They’ll get the connection. And parents are not as powerless as you make them out to be.
You keep talking in circles to avoid acknowledging the obvious point that enforcement of the school's closed campus policy rests with the school, not the parents. It defies logic to say people who are not physically in the school building are more responsible to enforce the closed campus policy more than the adults who are in the school building.
But then again, I don't think you possess or prize ration and logic anyway. So this is a moot discussion.
If this is what you choose to egt fired up about you really should consider home school or private. I feel like you have no clue what goes on in a high school. This is small potatoes.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Why don't you tell your kid they are not allowed to leave campus. Unbelievable that you can find a way to blame the school for this.
Seriously I can’t believe that if as a parent you care that you can’t figure out how to enforce it. I mean tell them no. If they do it, take aware their source of funds, take the phone, ground them. Whatever.
Taking their phone away for leaving campus is punishing them after the fact. It is not enforcing the school’s supposed closed campus policy.
Again, only the school can enforce that. Parents are not in the building.
OP you seem outrageous. Plenty of things in the world that can be blamed on failed leadership. This is failed parenting nothing to do with leadership. Punishing them after the fact as you say should be enough to deter them from doing it again. If it is not then that is your problem.
You must be MCPS admin. You can keep denying MCPS has liability and obligation to uphold and enforce its policies if you want to. MCPS, and we the taxpayers, keep paying out judgements where judges and juries disagree with you and say MCPS has a duty to actually do what it says it will do.
You should quit education. It’s not for you.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Why don't you tell your kid they are not allowed to leave campus. Unbelievable that you can find a way to blame the school for this.
Seriously I can’t believe that if as a parent you care that you can’t figure out how to enforce it. I mean tell them no. If they do it, take aware their source of funds, take the phone, ground them. Whatever.
Taking their phone away for leaving campus is punishing them after the fact. It is not enforcing the school’s supposed closed campus policy.
Again, only the school can enforce that. Parents are not in the building.
OP you seem outrageous. Plenty of things in the world that can be blamed on failed leadership. This is failed parenting nothing to do with leadership. Punishing them after the fact as you say should be enough to deter them from doing it again. If it is not then that is your problem.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Why don't you tell your kid they are not allowed to leave campus. Unbelievable that you can find a way to blame the school for this.
Seriously I can’t believe that if as a parent you care that you can’t figure out how to enforce it. I mean tell them no. If they do it, take aware their source of funds, take the phone, ground them. Whatever.
Taking their phone away for leaving campus is punishing them after the fact. It is not enforcing the school’s supposed closed campus policy.
Again, only the school can enforce that. Parents are not in the building.
We’re talking high schoolers, not two year olds. They’ll get the connection. And parents are not as powerless as you make them out to be.
You keep talking in circles to avoid acknowledging the obvious point that enforcement of the school's closed campus policy rests with the school, not the parents. It defies logic to say people who are not physically in the school building are more responsible to enforce the closed campus policy more than the adults who are in the school building.
But then again, I don't think you possess or prize ration and logic anyway. So this is a moot discussion.
If this is what you choose to egt fired up about you really should consider home school or private. I feel like you have no clue what goes on in a high school. This is small potatoes.
You’re right- it may be small potatoes. But if it is, then why should we accept the state our schools are in? Why is the burden on parents to either go private or homeschool, both of which aren’t an option for most families? You say it as if it’s easy, as if it’s an actual choice for people. We’re active in our school community and are trying to change what we can to improve our schools, but it’s a huge task that feels overwhelming sometimes. Privileged comments like these don’t help.