Anonymous wrote:Husband is a good person, decent job, works hard, does a lot around the house. Is on the spectrum probably (not diagnosed), cannot connect emotionally, bad at sex as can’t read body language and not very interested in spending time together. No kids.

OP, have you tried showing him and telling him what you want?

Most men need to know that each woman is different. Even the players consume too much p$rn, and they think all women want in bed what the p@rn stars want.

Darling, leave.
You have only one life, don't flush it down the toilet You deserve to be heard, seen and validated.

If you're not working with a therapist to support you - it would be a very good idea to find one to sort out your thoughts and feelings.

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Anonymous wrote:Did you take a vow to stay with him? Does your promise mean anything? Or were those just pretty words you said for show, and that you didn’t really mean? Serious questions.

Apparently not. People rush into and out of marriages without much consideration or any sense of sincerity and loyalty.

+1. Why did you get married at all OP? Let me guess, your family put a loaded shotgun to your back and forced you into it?

Why did he marry if he does not want to put in an effort to find things in common and improve on himself? Who forced him? And he must have faked a lot of his inadequacy before marriage and now he thinks he can relax and be lazy about cultivating his relationship. Tale as old as time...

Neither of them are keeping up to their marriage vows, so they should go their separate ways.