Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP here,
I have more questions. If he goes to a school that recruits him, and gets aid, is he then required to play all 4 years? What if he's injured, or wants to pursue something else? Or what if he comes out of puberty and it turns out he's not as good as people seem to expect?
They don’t want a kid playing a sport who isn’t helping the school win. Most schools dont recruit, unless the kid is advanced enough to immediately go in and compete at the varsity level or close.
That doesn't really answer the question. A kid who is good enough to play varsity as a freshman can still get injured or change his mind.
It answers part of the question. OP asked about a kid who isn’t good after puberty. Recruiting coaches try to protect the schools from that.
A kid who just doesn’t want to play anymore or can’t play anymore, won’t lose financial aid or kicked out of school.
Maybe those answers are more to your liking.
But you didn’t answer. My kid is really good now. Everyone who sees him agrees. But he’s also a kid who has a lot of growing to do, and I know plenty of kids like that who end up sidelined by some kind of growth related issue, Osgood-Schlatter or whatever. So, it’s a reasonable worry.
Anonymous wrote:A moco private that everyone assumes offers athletic scholarships made clear at the open house that they don’t. A lot of parents were shocked.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP here,
I have more questions. If he goes to a school that recruits him, and gets aid, is he then required to play all 4 years? What if he's injured, or wants to pursue something else? Or what if he comes out of puberty and it turns out he's not as good as people seem to expect?
They don’t want a kid playing a sport who isn’t helping the school win. Most schools dont recruit, unless the kid is advanced enough to immediately go in and compete at the varsity level or close.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:My kid attended a summer camp for his sport at the high school. The coach told my kid he’d love for him to play on his team and talked to DH one day when he picked him up from camp. DH and he exchanged many emails after that time and I know the coach was in touch with the AD. DS also got a call from the coach the night admission decisions went out encouraging him to attend and inviting him to visit and practice with the team. I’m not sure how much the coach had to do with DS getting into the school, as our middle school sends many kids to this HS every year. This is likely where DS would have ended up regardless.
My nephew was recruited by our HS for a different sport. He went to a Catholic middle school that typically sends kids to Catholic HSs, rather than our independent school. The coach called my BIL and invited them to a private tour. My nephew has previously been dead set on attending a particular Catholic school, but after meeting with the coach for two hours, the whole family fell in love with the school. The coach and their family communicated steadily throughout admissions season. Then come admissions decisions and nephew was WL. He has better grades and test scores than my son who attends the school and was devastated. BIL immediately called the coach, who was shocked. The athletics head and a Board member of the school called my BIL and told him to be patient. Shortly thereafter, the AD called, offered him a spot and $20K off of tuition (which they don’t need).
This sounds like someone in Admissions dropped the ball, which happens. But everything else you outlined regarding private tour, invitation to practice, and aid that the family didn't need sounds spot on. However, did they follow up with an acceptance letter and financial aid offer from Admissions and not just the AD? At some schools, ADs and coaches have put families (without the know or resources) in a real bind with offers that were non binding.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP here,
I have more questions. If he goes to a school that recruits him, and gets aid, is he then required to play all 4 years? What if he's injured, or wants to pursue something else? Or what if he comes out of puberty and it turns out he's not as good as people seem to expect?
They don’t want a kid playing a sport who isn’t helping the school win. Most schools dont recruit, unless the kid is advanced enough to immediately go in and compete at the varsity level or close.
That doesn't really answer the question. A kid who is good enough to play varsity as a freshman can still get injured or change his mind.
It answers part of the question. OP asked about a kid who isn’t good after puberty. Recruiting coaches try to protect the schools from that.
A kid who just doesn’t want to play anymore or can’t play anymore, won’t lose financial aid or kicked out of school.
Maybe those answers are more to your liking.
But you didn’t answer. My kid is really good now. Everyone who sees him agrees. But he’s also a kid who has a lot of growing to do, and I know plenty of kids like that who end up sidelined by some kind of growth related issue, Osgood-Schlatter or whatever. So, it’s a reasonable worry.
Anonymous wrote:A moco private that everyone assumes offers athletic scholarships made clear at the open house that they don’t. A lot of parents were shocked.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP here,
I have more questions. If he goes to a school that recruits him, and gets aid, is he then required to play all 4 years? What if he's injured, or wants to pursue something else? Or what if he comes out of puberty and it turns out he's not as good as people seem to expect?
They don’t want a kid playing a sport who isn’t helping the school win. Most schools dont recruit, unless the kid is advanced enough to immediately go in and compete at the varsity level or close.
That doesn't really answer the question. A kid who is good enough to play varsity as a freshman can still get injured or change his mind.
It answers part of the question. OP asked about a kid who isn’t good after puberty. Recruiting coaches try to protect the schools from that.
A kid who just doesn’t want to play anymore or can’t play anymore, won’t lose financial aid or kicked out of school.
Maybe those answers are more to your liking.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP here,
I have more questions. If he goes to a school that recruits him, and gets aid, is he then required to play all 4 years? What if he's injured, or wants to pursue something else? Or what if he comes out of puberty and it turns out he's not as good as people seem to expect?
They don’t want a kid playing a sport who isn’t helping the school win. Most schools dont recruit, unless the kid is advanced enough to immediately go in and compete at the varsity level or close.
That doesn't really answer the question. A kid who is good enough to play varsity as a freshman can still get injured or change his mind.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP here,
I have more questions. If he goes to a school that recruits him, and gets aid, is he then required to play all 4 years? What if he's injured, or wants to pursue something else? Or what if he comes out of puberty and it turns out he's not as good as people seem to expect?
They don’t want a kid playing a sport who isn’t helping the school win. Most schools dont recruit, unless the kid is advanced enough to immediately go in and compete at the varsity level or close.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP here,
I have more questions. If he goes to a school that recruits him, and gets aid, is he then required to play all 4 years? What if he's injured, or wants to pursue something else? Or what if he comes out of puberty and it turns out he's not as good as people seem to expect?
They don’t want a kid playing a sport who isn’t helping the school win. Most schools dont recruit, unless the kid is advanced enough to immediately go in and compete at the varsity level or close.
Anonymous wrote:OP here,
I have more questions. If he goes to a school that recruits him, and gets aid, is he then required to play all 4 years? What if he's injured, or wants to pursue something else? Or what if he comes out of puberty and it turns out he's not as good as people seem to expect?
Anonymous wrote:My kid attended a summer camp for his sport at the high school. The coach told my kid he’d love for him to play on his team and talked to DH one day when he picked him up from camp. DH and he exchanged many emails after that time and I know the coach was in touch with the AD. DS also got a call from the coach the night admission decisions went out encouraging him to attend and inviting him to visit and practice with the team. I’m not sure how much the coach had to do with DS getting into the school, as our middle school sends many kids to this HS every year. This is likely where DS would have ended up regardless.
My nephew was recruited by our HS for a different sport. He went to a Catholic middle school that typically sends kids to Catholic HSs, rather than our independent school. The coach called my BIL and invited them to a private tour. My nephew has previously been dead set on attending a particular Catholic school, but after meeting with the coach for two hours, the whole family fell in love with the school. The coach and their family communicated steadily throughout admissions season. Then come admissions decisions and nephew was WL. He has better grades and test scores than my son who attends the school and was devastated. BIL immediately called the coach, who was shocked. The athletics head and a Board member of the school called my BIL and told him to be patient. Shortly thereafter, the AD called, offered him a spot and $20K off of tuition (which they don’t need).