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Anonymous wrote:Hate those dresses - not age appropriate imo.

Part of me thinks that but then I remember I am now a middle age mom. I remember my parents telling me my outfit wasn’t appropriate as a teen.

My daughter has a standard uniform Windsor micro mini dress. The only variation between girls seems to be the color and if they are wearing shoes or sneakers.

We, the good girls, agreed with your mother. My brothers(the cool and the quiet) and their friends “said many things” about you. My 13yo DS says that girls like your DD don’t respect themselves(no, we’re not religious).

Ick it sound like your opinionated boy is going to be trying to get out of a SA charge by saying the girl provoked him with her mini skirt.

Your post says everything that is wrong with men. Glad you are raising a pig.

The problem is really trashy mothers like you. You cannot give the message to your girls that they should cultivate their mind and brain, but then allow them to dress like pole dancers.

There are many age and occasion appropriate clothes for girls, but, if they are deliberately dressing to be sexy, well then, people are going to look at them because they are sexy, and the opinion about them will be that they want sexual attention. That is all.

Mostly the girls who are dressing like this are coming from messed up families and they are fair game to many boys who are also from messed up families. The generally decent boys and girls may judge them but they stay far away from them. They won't touch these people with a nine-foot pole because who wants to deal with a dumpster fire?

dp. The content of your character (based on what you have written) is uglier than a dress that showcases a beautiful body. Girls are sexual beings, sexuality and sensuality is an inextricable part of their being, in addition to many other qualities. The fact that your son can't put this in context or see beyond a dress is a reflection of his judgmental and inflexible nature - very unattractive qualities in a mate.

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Anonymous wrote:Hate those dresses - not age appropriate imo.

Part of me thinks that but then I remember I am now a middle age mom. I remember my parents telling me my outfit wasn’t appropriate as a teen.

My daughter has a standard uniform Windsor micro mini dress. The only variation between girls seems to be the color and if they are wearing shoes or sneakers.

We, the good girls, agreed with your mother. My brothers(the cool and the quiet) and their friends “said many things” about you. My 13yo DS says that girls like your DD don’t respect themselves(no, we’re not religious).

This isn't something to be proud of. I'd be lived if my son said something like this because of how someone dressed.

Yep this. I’d also be livid if DS said this. Does this shame/good girl stuff stem from religion?

Anonymous wrote:People judge others for what they wear. It’s a statement about the choices you make. If I wore orange hair and a tutu, people would assume I’m a nonconformist. Women who were clothes that highlight their sexuality are thought to want sexual attention.

I have no issue with what people want to wear, but it’s naive to think others don’t form opinions about you based upon your choices.

My DS thinks girls that wear very skimpy clothes want boys to look at them. The boys call them “pick me” girls, as the girls will try so hard to get boys to pick them. DS has a beautiful girlfriend - who doesn’t wear skirts so short you can see her hooha when she sits down.

Oh, I'm sure he sees it, though.

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Anonymous wrote:Hate those dresses - not age appropriate imo.

Part of me thinks that but then I remember I am now a middle age mom. I remember my parents telling me my outfit wasn’t appropriate as a teen.

My daughter has a standard uniform Windsor micro mini dress. The only variation between girls seems to be the color and if they are wearing shoes or sneakers.

We, the good girls, agreed with your mother. My brothers(the cool and the quiet) and their friends “said many things” about you. My 13yo DS says that girls like your DD don’t respect themselves(no, we’re not religious).

Ick it sound like your opinionated boy is going to be trying to get out of a SA charge by saying the girl provoked him with her mini skirt.

Your post says everything that is wrong with men. Glad you are raising a pig.

The problem is really trashy mothers like you. You cannot give the message to your girls that they should cultivate their mind and brain, but then allow them to dress like pole dancers.

There are many age and occasion appropriate clothes for girls, but, if they are deliberately dressing to be sexy, well then, people are going to look at them because they are sexy, and the opinion about them will be that they want sexual attention. That is all.

Mostly the girls who are dressing like this are coming from messed up families and they are fair game to many boys who are also from messed up families. The generally decent boys and girls may judge them but they stay far away from them. They won't touch these people with a nine-foot pole because who wants to deal with a dumpster fire?

Homecoming is an appropriate event to dress to be sexy. It's not visiting grandma in the old folks' home.

Anonymous wrote:Hate those dresses - not age appropriate imo.

+1 some look like street walker dresses

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Anonymous wrote:Hate those dresses - not age appropriate imo.

Part of me thinks that but then I remember I am now a middle age mom. I remember my parents telling me my outfit wasn’t appropriate as a teen.

My daughter has a standard uniform Windsor micro mini dress. The only variation between girls seems to be the color and if they are wearing shoes or sneakers.

We, the good girls, agreed with your mother. My brothers(the cool and the quiet) and their friends “said many things” about you. My 13yo DS says that girls like your DD don’t respect themselves(no, we’re not religious).

Ick it sound like your opinionated boy is going to be trying to get out of a SA charge by saying the girl provoked him with her mini skirt.

Your post says everything that is wrong with men. Glad you are raising a pig.

The problem is really trashy mothers like you. You cannot give the message to your girls that they should cultivate their mind and brain, but then allow them to dress like pole dancers.

There are many age and occasion appropriate clothes for girls, but, if they are deliberately dressing to be sexy, well then, people are going to look at them because they are sexy, and the opinion about them will be that they want sexual attention. That is all.

Mostly the girls who are dressing like this are coming from messed up families and they are fair game to many boys who are also from messed up families. The generally decent boys and girls may judge them but they stay far away from them. They won't touch these people with a nine-foot pole because who wants to deal with a dumpster fire?

Please, the boy looking for a good girl would absolutely go for a popular girl if they had the chance. They cope by talking about only wanting a good girl. When their perfect good girl either doesn't exist or won't talk to them, the become an incel

What? You’re just as bad as the stupid pp to whom you are responding. Stop with the “good girl” vs “popular girl” dichotomy.

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Anonymous wrote:Hate those dresses - not age appropriate imo.

Part of me thinks that but then I remember I am now a middle age mom. I remember my parents telling me my outfit wasn’t appropriate as a teen.

My daughter has a standard uniform Windsor micro mini dress. The only variation between girls seems to be the color and if they are wearing shoes or sneakers.

We, the good girls, agreed with your mother. My brothers(the cool and the quiet) and their friends “said many things” about you. My 13yo DS says that girls like your DD don’t respect themselves(no, we’re not religious).

Your brothers and son suck and are misogynists. We, the girls who wear what we like, don't give a flying toss what a**holes like them think.

People judge others for what they wear. It’s a statement about the choices you make. If I wore orange hair and a tutu, people would assume I’m a nonconformist. Women who were clothes that highlight their sexuality are thought to want sexual attention.

I have no issue with what people want to wear, but it’s naive to think others don’t form opinions about you based upon your choices.

My DS thinks girls that wear very skimpy clothes want boys to look at them. The boys call them “pick me” girls, as the girls will try so hard to get boys to pick them. DS has a beautiful girlfriend - who doesn’t wear skirts so short you can see her hooha when she sits down.

Anonymous wrote:From DD’s group, and what I’ve seen on social media things similar to these:

https://www.forever21.com/us/2000473685.html

https://www.lulus.com/products/gift-of-love-black-and-gold-backless-long-sleeve-bodycon-dress/1667576.html

https://www.lulus.com/products/mesh-perspective-black-long-sleeve-mesh-bodycon-mini-dress/2027976.html

https://www.lulus.com/products/lover-s-game-navy-blue-lace-skater-dress/579332.html

But they’re either short, or midi/long with spaghetti straps.

there are all great for HC

OP here.
I didn't expect to wake up to 4 pages!

My issue with the dresses is that they're just so boring. They're carbon copies of each other with absolutely nothing to them.

When you go to lulus.com or Revolve or ASOS or Anthro there are pages and pages of gorgeous mini dresses.... and they're all different. Meanwhile the girls all wear the most basic an boring solid colored slip dresses (or at least they did last year) My daughter wore a dress with a full skirt to winter formal last year and I think she was the only girl there not in a solid color slip dress and sneakers.

I know she can do her own thing (and she did last year) but I'm hoping that maybe the girls are getting bored of looking exactly the same year-after-year. Slip dress and sneakers. Slip dress and sneakers. Why even dress up if you're just wearing a uniform? What happened to personality or creativity? When I was young we all wore unique dresses.

I like that sequins are in. At least it's different.

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Anonymous wrote:Hate those dresses - not age appropriate imo.

Sure they are! They’re not age appropriate for 50 year olds, but for teenagers? Have at it

Agreed. I, as a 45 yo mom to a 16yo, would look ridiculous in some of these hoco dresses. The 16yo however, would look fabulous, and like every other 16yo.

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Anonymous wrote:Hate those dresses - not age appropriate imo.

Part of me thinks that but then I remember I am now a middle age mom. I remember my parents telling me my outfit wasn’t appropriate as a teen.

My daughter has a standard uniform Windsor micro mini dress. The only variation between girls seems to be the color and if they are wearing shoes or sneakers.

We, the good girls, agreed with your mother. My brothers(the cool and the quiet) and their friends “said many things” about you. My 13yo DS says that girls like your DD don’t respect themselves(no, we’re not religious).

Is your DS sad they won't go with him? Are you incubating a baby incel?

He likes nice girls. He has a lovely “best friend not girlfriend.”

Sure he does. Lol.

Anonymous wrote:Hate those dresses - not age appropriate imo.

Sure they are! They’re not age appropriate for 50 year olds, but for teenagers? Have at it

Anonymous wrote:My girl is wearing pants.

Mine is wearing a jumpsuit. Dresses aren't the only option!

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Anonymous wrote:Hate those dresses - not age appropriate imo.

Part of me thinks that but then I remember I am now a middle age mom. I remember my parents telling me my outfit wasn’t appropriate as a teen.

My daughter has a standard uniform Windsor micro mini dress. The only variation between girls seems to be the color and if they are wearing shoes or sneakers.

We, the good girls, agreed with your mother. My brothers(the cool and the quiet) and their friends “said many things” about you. My 13yo DS says that girls like your DD don’t respect themselves(no, we’re not religious).

Ick it sound like your opinionated boy is going to be trying to get out of a SA charge by saying the girl provoked him with her mini skirt.

Your post says everything that is wrong with men. Glad you are raising a pig.

The problem is really trashy mothers like you. You cannot give the message to your girls that they should cultivate their mind and brain, but then allow them to dress like pole dancers.

There are many age and occasion appropriate clothes for girls, but, if they are deliberately dressing to be sexy, well then, people are going to look at them because they are sexy, and the opinion about them will be that they want sexual attention. That is all.

Mostly the girls who are dressing like this are coming from messed up families and they are fair game to many boys who are also from messed up families. The generally decent boys and girls may judge them but they stay far away from them. They won't touch these people with a nine-foot pole because who wants to deal with a dumpster fire?

Are you serious?? 98% of the hoco photos on my FB fees are of girls wearing these dresses because that’s what’s popular/in style! I can assure you that these girls do NOT come from messed up families.

Also, my dd has told me that she doesn’t dress the way she does to stand out and be different, she does it to blend in and not draw attention to herself (doesn’t want to be a weirdo outlier).