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Anonymous wrote:How is the Visi experience for students coming from public? DD is very interested in applying next year however we aren’t sure how tough it will be for her to establish friendships with girls who have known each other for some time. Would love to hear toward experiences coming from a similar situation.

My DD did not come from public but came from a small private where she was the only one in her graduating class to attend Visi. It did take her awhile to find her footing socially, although she did hit the ground running academically almost immediately. The general population at Visi is, how do I say this, well coiffed, fashionable, country club(ish) and socially savvy. My DD is more of a cute nerd so these girls weren’t really her scene. Most girls here are very smart but there are some who are not and do struggle, eventually leave, etc.

My DD did eventually settle into a lovely group of girls around mid-Spring and is now, really happy at the school. But the first couple of months I was a little worried about whether she would adjust. Many of the girls come from the same feeder schools, so to outsiders it may seem like those girls are in the “in” crowd because they seem more confident and “cliqued up” off right from the start. 9th grade year, there is also HEAVY pressure to secure a date for Gonzaga’s homecoming and to be invited to a pre and/or post party and all of these photos are plastered all over social media. Some of this culture is perpetuated by the parents but the school does little to manage this type of thing. The school hosts a Gonzaga/Visi picnic early in the Fall and the goal is to get a homecoming invitation at that time or as a result of the event. Yes - LOTS of unnecessary pressure and feeling left out if you don’t manage to secure a date. There is really so much drama surrounding all of this which is so unfortunate for a girls school which should be empowering its students to feel confident and that their value is not attached to whether they get a homecoming date or not.

Also know going in that Visi is not lenient when it comes to test taking/scoring, etc. Your grade is your grade and don’t whine about it. You also are NOT allowed to keep your already scored tests. So for example if you plan to use your old tests to study for the mid terms or finals - you can’t. They go over them in class and the teacher takes them back. Visi has lots of strict, inflexible rules. Not a problem for my kid (who loves rules and the rigid structure) but just know this going in.

I hope my comment doesn’t get buried because these are things I would have liked to know in advance. I will say I would NOT have picked this school if I knew all of this in advance because it was a rough learning curve for her and us. However she is 100% happy and always talks about wanting her own daughter to go here. And I am happy for her.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:How is the Visi experience for students coming from public? DD is very interested in applying next year however we aren’t sure how tough it will be for her to establish friendships with girls who have known each other for some time. Would love to hear toward experiences coming from a similar situation.

My DD did not come from public but came from a small private where she was the only one in her graduating class to attend Visi. It did take her awhile to find her footing socially, although she did hit the ground running academically almost immediately. The general population at Visi is, how do I say this, well coiffed, fashionable, country club(ish) and socially savvy. My DD is more of a cute nerd so these girls weren’t really her scene. Most girls here are very smart but there are some who are not and do struggle, eventually leave, etc.

My DD did eventually settle into a lovely group of girls around mid-Spring and is now, really happy at the school. But the first couple of months I was a little worried about whether she would adjust. Many of the girls come from the same feeder schools, so to outsiders it may seem like those girls are in the “in” crowd because they seem more confident and “cliqued up” off right from the start. 9th grade year, there is also HEAVY pressure to secure a date for Gonzaga’s homecoming and to be invited to a pre and/or post party and all of these photos are plastered all over social media. Some of this culture is perpetuated by the parents but the school does little to manage this type of thing. The school hosts a Gonzaga/Visi picnic early in the Fall and the goal is to get a homecoming invitation at that time or as a result of the event. Yes - LOTS of unnecessary pressure and feeling left out if you don’t manage to secure a date. There is really so much drama surrounding all of this which is so unfortunate for a girls school which should be empowering its students to feel confident and that their value is not attached to whether they get a homecoming date or not.

Also know going in that Visi is not lenient when it comes to test taking/scoring, etc. Your grade is your grade and don’t whine about it. You also are NOT allowed to keep your already scored tests. So for example if you plan to use your old tests to study for the mid terms or finals - you can’t. They go over them in class and the teacher takes them back. Visi has lots of strict, inflexible rules. Not a problem for my kid (who loves rules and the rigid structure) but just know this going in.

I hope my comment doesn’t get buried because these are things I would have liked to know in advance. I will say I would NOT have picked this school if I knew all of this in advance because it was a rough learning curve for her and us. However she is 100% happy and always talks about wanting her own daughter to go here. And I am happy for her.

Thanks for sharing. I’m curious did you look at any other schools and do you think SR would have been a better fit?

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Anonymous wrote:How is the Visi experience for students coming from public? DD is very interested in applying next year however we aren’t sure how tough it will be for her to establish friendships with girls who have known each other for some time. Would love to hear toward experiences coming from a similar situation.

My DD did not come from public but came from a small private where she was the only one in her graduating class to attend Visi. It did take her awhile to find her footing socially, although she did hit the ground running academically almost immediately. The general population at Visi is, how do I say this, well coiffed, fashionable, country club(ish) and socially savvy. My DD is more of a cute nerd so these girls weren’t really her scene. Most girls here are very smart but there are some who are not and do struggle, eventually leave, etc.

My DD did eventually settle into a lovely group of girls around mid-Spring and is now, really happy at the school. But the first couple of months I was a little worried about whether she would adjust. Many of the girls come from the same feeder schools, so to outsiders it may seem like those girls are in the “in” crowd because they seem more confident and “cliqued up” off right from the start. 9th grade year, there is also HEAVY pressure to secure a date for Gonzaga’s homecoming and to be invited to a pre and/or post party and all of these photos are plastered all over social media. Some of this culture is perpetuated by the parents but the school does little to manage this type of thing. The school hosts a Gonzaga/Visi picnic early in the Fall and the goal is to get a homecoming invitation at that time or as a result of the event. Yes - LOTS of unnecessary pressure and feeling left out if you don’t manage to secure a date. There is really so much drama surrounding all of this which is so unfortunate for a girls school which should be empowering its students to feel confident and that their value is not attached to whether they get a homecoming date or not.

Also know going in that Visi is not lenient when it comes to test taking/scoring, etc. Your grade is your grade and don’t whine about it. You also are NOT allowed to keep your already scored tests. So for example if you plan to use your old tests to study for the mid terms or finals - you can’t. They go over them in class and the teacher takes them back. Visi has lots of strict, inflexible rules. Not a problem for my kid (who loves rules and the rigid structure) but just know this going in.

I hope my comment doesn’t get buried because these are things I would have liked to know in advance. I will say I would NOT have picked this school if I knew all of this in advance because it was a rough learning curve for her and us. However she is 100% happy and always talks about wanting her own daughter to go here. And I am happy for her.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:How is the Visi experience for students coming from public? DD is very interested in applying next year however we aren’t sure how tough it will be for her to establish friendships with girls who have known each other for some time. Would love to hear toward experiences coming from a similar situation.

My DD did not come from public but came from a small private where she was the only one in her graduating class to attend Visi. It did take her awhile to find her footing socially, although she did hit the ground running academically almost immediately. The general population at Visi is, how do I say this, well coiffed, fashionable, country club(ish) and socially savvy. My DD is more of a cute nerd so these girls weren’t really her scene. Most girls here are very smart but there are some who are not and do struggle, eventually leave, etc.

My DD did eventually settle into a lovely group of girls around mid-Spring and is now, really happy at the school. But the first couple of months I was a little worried about whether she would adjust. Many of the girls come from the same feeder schools, so to outsiders it may seem like those girls are in the “in” crowd because they seem more confident and “cliqued up” off right from the start. 9th grade year, there is also HEAVY pressure to secure a date for Gonzaga’s homecoming and to be invited to a pre and/or post party and all of these photos are plastered all over social media. Some of this culture is perpetuated by the parents but the school does little to manage this type of thing. The school hosts a Gonzaga/Visi picnic early in the Fall and the goal is to get a homecoming invitation at that time or as a result of the event. Yes - LOTS of unnecessary pressure and feeling left out if you don’t manage to secure a date. There is really so much drama surrounding all of this which is so unfortunate for a girls school which should be empowering its students to feel confident and that their value is not attached to whether they get a homecoming date or not.

Also know going in that Visi is not lenient when it comes to test taking/scoring, etc. Your grade is your grade and don’t whine about it. You also are NOT allowed to keep your already scored tests. So for example if you plan to use your old tests to study for the mid terms or finals - you can’t. They go over them in class and the teacher takes them back. Visi has lots of strict, inflexible rules. Not a problem for my kid (who loves rules and the rigid structure) but just know this going in.

I hope my comment doesn’t get buried because these are things I would have liked to know in advance. I will say I would NOT have picked this school if I knew all of this in advance because it was a rough learning curve for her and us. However she is 100% happy and always talks about wanting her own daughter to go here. And I am happy for her.

Anonymous wrote:How is the Visi experience for students coming from public? DD is very interested in applying next year however we aren’t sure how tough it will be for her to establish friendships with girls who have known each other for some time. Would love to hear toward experiences coming from a similar situation.

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Anonymous wrote:Absolutely no reason to pay obscene amounts of money for these private schools when all the girls end up at SEC (no Vandy) and mid-tier colleges anyways. Send them to public schools and they will get just as good an education and college outcomes.

Lol I hope my kid goes to a fun school. They’ll be just fine in life. Will gladly pay 40-60k a year to not use MCPS. They are a mess and getting worse.

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Anonymous wrote:SR is very liberal, especially regarding LGBTQ. Catholicism is more of an afterthought, so if religion is important to you, then you will get less of it at SR. Visi is more traditional and prestigious, with lots of legacies, but academically is not as modern as SR.

I wouldn't say Catholicism is an afterthought, just a different take.

Absolutely, there are Sacred Heart nuns getting arrested in immigration protests. They believe in living the Gospel of loving the stranger in a strange land and you will hear that reflected in the teaching and community at SR. You will find fewer MAGA Catholics at SR and more who focus on loving their neighbor, like the alum who started the DC Diaper Bank. If your focus is "traditional", which may be more of a code for making your high school great again, then go to Visi

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:SR is very liberal, especially regarding LGBTQ. Catholicism is more of an afterthought, so if religion is important to you, then you will get less of it at SR. Visi is more traditional and prestigious, with lots of legacies, but academically is not as modern as SR.

I wouldn't say Catholicism is an afterthought, just a different take.

Absolutely, there are Sacred Heart nuns getting arrested in immigration protests. They believe in living the Gospel of loving the stranger in a strange land and you will hear that reflected in the teaching and community at SR. You will find fewer MAGA Catholics at SR and more who focus on loving their neighbor, like the alum who started the DC Diaper Bank. If your focus is "traditional", which may be more of a code for making your high school great again, then go to Visi

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Anonymous wrote:Absolutely no reason to pay obscene amounts of money for these private schools when all the girls end up at SEC (no Vandy) and mid-tier colleges anyways. Send them to public schools and they will get just as good an education and college outcomes.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:SR is very liberal, especially regarding LGBTQ. Catholicism is more of an afterthought, so if religion is important to you, then you will get less of it at SR. Visi is more traditional and prestigious, with lots of legacies, but academically is not as modern as SR.

I wouldn't say Catholicism is an afterthought, just a different take.

Absolutely, there are Sacred Heart nuns getting arrested in immigration protests. They believe in living the Gospel of loving the stranger in a strange land and you will hear that reflected in the teaching and community at SR. You will find fewer MAGA Catholics at SR and more who focus on loving their neighbor, like the alum who started the DC Diaper Bank. If your focus is "traditional", which may be more of a code for making your high school great again, then go to Visi

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:SR is very liberal, especially regarding LGBTQ. Catholicism is more of an afterthought, so if religion is important to you, then you will get less of it at SR. Visi is more traditional and prestigious, with lots of legacies, but academically is not as modern as SR.

I wouldn't say Catholicism is an afterthought, just a different take.