Anonymous
Post 08/08/2023 14:42     Subject: WYR: Marry person you lost virginity to, or work at your first job for the rest of your life
I married that guy.

My first job was making mini donuts at the fair... I do NOT want that job again lol.
Anonymous
Post 08/08/2023 14:31     Subject: WYR: Marry person you lost virginity to, or work at your first job for the rest of your life
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I did both- married the guy and still in my first salaried job out of grad school (had other gig jobs and hourly work before though). I’m in my 30s


I did both too. And I'm in my late 50s.


Same! Both is good for me.
Anonymous
Post 08/08/2023 14:16     Subject: WYR: Marry person you lost virginity to, or work at your first job for the rest of your life
If I married the person I first had sex with can we get divorced or is this some weird, bound forever thing?
Anonymous
Post 08/08/2023 12:08     Subject: WYR: Marry person you lost virginity to, or work at your first job for the rest of your life
I am 54 and still friends with the man I lost my virginity to. He is on his 2nd wife (I was not #1) and has a bunch of grown up kids. If I had to marry him now I think that would be okay, but my husband might not like it.

I don't even know what counts as my first job. I think it was probably an acting job, a tour, that I really loved doing. So I'd be ok with doing that as well, just maybe not for 30 years non stop.
Anonymous
Post 08/08/2023 11:50     Subject: WYR: Marry person you lost virginity to, or work at your first job for the rest of your life
I'm doing both (first salaried, post-college job, at least), 21 and 17 years on, respectively. I'm very risk-adverse.
Anonymous
Post 08/08/2023 10:22     Subject: WYR: Marry person you lost virginity to, or work at your first job for the rest of your life
I nannied in high school so if I could do that, probably would. First real job was at mail boxes etc. Lol. Would have to pick the dude over that. Both happened around the same time. He probably would have gotten better if we stuck it out.
Anonymous
Post 08/08/2023 10:11     Subject: WYR: Marry person you lost virginity to, or work at your first job for the rest of your life
This is a fun question that you are not required to answer or click on you know.......
Anonymous
Post 08/08/2023 09:27     Subject: WYR: Marry person you lost virginity to, or work at your first job for the rest of your life
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:It's weird that some people are interpreting the "first job" as "first professional job after college/professional training/grad school" and others are interpreting first job as "worked weekends at McDonald's when I was 15."


Why? First job means first job. That means the McDonald’s at 15.


pp you quoted here.
Yes, that's what I think too (I'm the poster that worked in a children's clothing shop in high school.) But some other posters are talking about more professional jobs that had when they were in their mid 20s+ as being their "first job" --like the person who said "first job before law school was a paralegal." Maybe that literally was their first job ever?
Anonymous
Post 08/08/2023 09:25     Subject: WYR: Marry person you lost virginity to, or work at your first job for the rest of your life
lifeguard 4 life!