Anonymous
07/31/2023 10:05
Subject: Dates and paying bill
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Men who expect women to pay on dates should date the women who want to pay on dates. They exist and they aren't particularly rare - find them and date them. Just like men who want to treat should find and date the women who want to be treated.
Date the people who want to date you. Not hard.
This. This is the same issue with height. Rather than complain about those women who like tall men— go date someone who likes short men. Bleating about how unfair it is on the internet doesn’t make the “must split dates” crowd any more attractive.
Neither does whining about the dearth of "marriageable men". They don't want you. Adjust your standards to reflect what you're really worth, or shut it.
There, the internet just got a lot more quiet.
Anonymous
07/31/2023 10:03
Subject: Re:Dates and paying bill
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Another glaring example of women trying to police what good masculinity is, but God forbid anyone tell them how a "lady" should act?
You have to laugh.
How many times are you going to whine?
DP here. I mean, the guy does have a point Pretty glaring double standard.
When women are not earning 70 cents on the dollar for doing the same work as men, then we can talk about glaring double standards.
You know this is fallacious propaganda right? Don't let that stop you though...
Anonymous
07/31/2023 10:02
Subject: Dates and paying bill
Anonymous wrote:I would have covered everything and then broken up with him.
Honey, I’m 45. You don’t need a 41 year old guy. Find a nice guy closer to your age who will feel lucky to be out with you in the first place, and who won’t think twice about paying for a (reasonably priced) meal.
This. When a woman pays or splits the bill she is signaling that she is not interested in you.
Anonymous
07/31/2023 10:01
Subject: Dates and paying bill
Anonymous wrote:Men who expect women to pay on dates should date the women who want to pay on dates. They exist and they aren't particularly rare - find them and date them. Just like men who want to treat should find and date the women who want to be treated.
Date the people who want to date you. Not hard.
This. This is the same issue with height. Rather than complain about those women who like tall men— go date someone who likes short men. Bleating about how unfair it is on the internet doesn’t make the “must split dates” crowd any more attractive.
Anonymous
07/31/2023 10:00
Subject: Dates and paying bill
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Women are all about equality until they date, then they expect the man to pay.
Ladies, quick translation for you. When men say snarky comments like this, they are really saying "I'm broke."
I am certainly not "broke"... far from it. But i can understand why pp would say that and I can't disagree
- np
Anonymous
07/31/2023 09:59
Subject: Dates and paying bill
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Women are all about equality until they date, then they expect the man to pay.
Ladies, quick translation for you. When men say snarky comments like this, they are really saying "I'm broke."
Women are all about equality and being self-sufficient until they date, then they expect to date only men with money and for them to pay for everything.
Says a man who surely intends to do 50% of the household work and childrearing plus plenty of extra to make up for not having to be pregnant, bear children, or breast feed them.
Anonymous
07/31/2023 09:57
Subject: Re:Dates and paying bill
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Another glaring example of women trying to police what good masculinity is, but God forbid anyone tell them how a "lady" should act?
You have to laugh.
How many times are you going to whine?
DP here. I mean, the guy does have a point Pretty glaring double standard.
Interestingly this is the ONE area in which some men get all exercised about the double standard. These men are typically silent about all forms of double standard that favor men.
Anonymous
07/31/2023 09:56
Subject: Re:Dates and paying bill
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Another glaring example of women trying to police what good masculinity is, but God forbid anyone tell them how a "lady" should act?
You have to laugh.
How many times are you going to whine?
DP here. I mean, the guy does have a point Pretty glaring double standard.
When women are not earning 70 cents on the dollar for doing the same work as men, then we can talk about glaring double standards.
It's 82 cents on the dollar now, just FYI
Anonymous
07/31/2023 09:55
Subject: Re:Dates and paying bill
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Another glaring example of women trying to police what good masculinity is, but God forbid anyone tell them how a "lady" should act?
You have to laugh.
How many times are you going to whine?
DP here. I mean, the guy does have a point Pretty glaring double standard.
When women are not earning 70 cents on the dollar for doing the same work as men, then we can talk about glaring double standards.
Anonymous
07/31/2023 09:52
Subject: Dates and paying bill
Men who expect women to pay on dates should date the women who want to pay on dates. They exist and they aren't particularly rare - find them and date them. Just like men who want to treat should find and date the women who want to be treated.
Date the people who want to date you. Not hard.
Date the people who want to date you. Not hard.
Anonymous
07/31/2023 09:38
Subject: Re:Dates and paying bill
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Another glaring example of women trying to police what good masculinity is, but God forbid anyone tell them how a "lady" should act?
You have to laugh.
How many times are you going to whine?
DP here. I mean, the guy does have a point Pretty glaring double standard.
PP wanting men to pay everything reeks of entitlement.
Anonymous
07/31/2023 09:34
Subject: Re:Dates and paying bill
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Another glaring example of women trying to police what good masculinity is, but God forbid anyone tell them how a "lady" should act?
You have to laugh.
How many times are you going to whine?
As many times as it takes for you to agree to 50/50.
Do we have a date, Darling?
No, because I don't date men who split the bill. And you date women who do. And that's okay!
75/25? I'm willing to budge a little because you're worth it.
Anonymous
07/31/2023 09:33
Subject: Re:Dates and paying bill
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Another glaring example of women trying to police what good masculinity is, but God forbid anyone tell them how a "lady" should act?
You have to laugh.
How many times are you going to whine?
DP here. I mean, the guy does have a point Pretty glaring double standard.
Anonymous
07/31/2023 09:30
Subject: Re:Dates and paying bill
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Another glaring example of women trying to police what good masculinity is, but God forbid anyone tell them how a "lady" should act?
You have to laugh.
How many times are you going to whine?
As many times as it takes for you to agree to 50/50.
Do we have a date, Darling?
No, because I don't date men who split the bill. And you date women who do. And that's okay!
Anonymous
07/31/2023 09:26
Subject: Re:Dates and paying bill
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Another glaring example of women trying to police what good masculinity is, but God forbid anyone tell them how a "lady" should act?
You have to laugh.
How many times are you going to whine?
As many times as it takes for you to agree to 50/50.
Do we have a date, Darling?